Wang Anshi married his daughter in law to someone else, what did his son do when he found out?

His son Wang Yan wrote a poem "Eye Charm" after he knew, which was indeed a strange story in ancient times, so it was recorded, because at that time his son Wang Yan and his daughter-in-law were separated from each other, and in the ancient society with more outdated ideas, it was already a relatively rare existence, not to mention the news that the old man personally married his daughter-in-law to others, but this is indeed Wang Yan's own death, Wang Anshi can't stand it, and will marry his daughter-in-law to someone else. Later, Wang Yan admitted his mistake and had no way to change it, so he could only write this poem to express his regret and sadness. <>

1. Wang Yan. Wang Yan may be most famous for being Wang Anshi's son and his prodigy, when Wang Yan was very young, someone once came to him with a roe deer and a deer to ask him if he knew these two animals, Wang Peng was only a few years old, he definitely didn't know the person and just wanted to amuse the child, but Wang Yan said smartly, "The deer next to the deer is the deer, and the deer next to the deer is the deer", so Wang Yan's wisdom began to spread. <>

2. Unwarranted suspicion.

It can be said that with the blessing of these identities and the power of his father Wang Anshi when he changed the law, his life path was smooth sailing and he soon had his own status in the court, but such a rapid development is not a completely good thing for a person, and later Wang Yan's fragile psychological quality was seen***, Wang Peng felt that the older his son was, the less he looked like himself, so he felt that his wife had cuckolded him, The more Wang Yan thought about it, the more angry he became, and then he was so mad that he wanted to kill his son. <>

3. Leave a grudge in the air.

Wang Yan simply guessed, and later Wang Anshi knew that he couldn't understand him, and finally after Wang Yan's son died, Wang Anshi couldn't stand it, so he asked Wang Yan and his wife to write a letter of separation, and finally Wang Anshi personally prepared a dowry to marry his daughter-in-law, and people left is leaving, even if Wang Yan later wrote "Now the past is difficult to rewrite, and the dream surrounds Qinlou" is useless.

His son wrote a poem "Eyes and Eyes" to miss his ex-wife. Because of his son's suspicious nature, he ruined his family.

After learning about this, his son Wang Yan also expressed his understanding, after all, it was his suspicious nature that killed Pang and his children, and made his wife spend all day in tears. After Pang married someone else, Wang Yan wrote a poem "Eyes and Eyes" to express his longing for his ex-wife.

When his son learned about it, he was very sorry and sad, and wrote a lot of poems to miss his ex-wife.

He has a virtuous and upright noble character. However, Wang Anshi, who is known as one of the eight masters of the Tang and Song dynasties, married his daughter-in-law to someone else, and when his son knew about it, he wrote a poem to remember his wife, which was so beautiful that it was intoxicating.

Wang Anshi's son, Wang Yan, did not come out of his depression for a long time after learning that his daughter-in-law was passed on by his father, and during this time, he wrote a beautiful poem to express his longing for his ex-wife.

It is very likely that Wang Anshi's enemies above the court deliberately came to slander Wang Anshi. You must know that Wang Anshi is not close to women, and he has made great achievements in his life. He was a very famous military strategist, politician, and writer, and when he was the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, Tan Zhenghou launched the Great Bend Xinqi Revolution to bury the Ling Revolution, which was not successful, but also had a great influence on later generations.

Wang Anshi's son Wang Yan has had mental illness since he was a child, and he is very suspicious, and even has some pathologies, Wang Anshi has set a family for Wang Yan when he grows up, and he is the daughter of the Pang family, but when the daughter of the Pang family gave birth to a child, Wang Yan had a psychotic attack, he thought that the child was not his, and he was noisy all day long, and the family was restlessWang Anshi made the family stable and made no more quarrels at home. In order to let Ponzi's daughter have a good home and not delay her daughter-in-law, and at the same time, for another good reputation, she directly found a new son-in-law for her daughter-in-law and directly asked her daughter-in-law to remarry.

First of all, you can know that Wang Anshi is a person who understands the general situation, Wang Yan has felt that he has a very capable father to protect him since he was a child, and he has a very good job, very arrogant, and he is also a mentally ill person, often very scary in seizures, his father found him the daughter of the Pang family, both in terms of appearance and upbringing, and the relationship between the husband and wife when the two of them first got married. <>

Secondly, we know that Wang Anshi will not delay the woman for his own small family, when the new daughter-in-law gave birth to a child for the Wang family in the second year, Wang Yan became a father, but at this time he had a psychotic attack, he always felt that the newborn child was not like his own, so he had a lot of terrible thoughts, he always wanted to get rid of the child, and then through a variety of methods, finally killed the child, and since then the husband and wife have been fighting all day because of this matter, making the family restless. <>

In the end, we know that Wang Anshi is a very kind person, Wang Anshi directly divorced his daughter-in-law from his son for the stability of the family, and he chose a more satisfactory husband for his daughter-in-law, and explained the situation to the man. <>

Through such stories, we can know that Wang Anshi is not a rigid person, he can solve problems with humane methods, think about his daughter-in-law and son, and be able to sacrifice his children's marriage for the sake of family harmony, and he is a person with great wisdom.

Because Wang Anshi's son may be mentally ill, his daughter-in-law gave birth to a child and thought it was not his own child, so he always beat his daughter-in-law. Wang Anshi married his daughter-in-law in order not to drive her crazy.

He is an understanding person and doesn't want his daughter-in-law to repeat the mistakes of the past, so he persuades his daughter-in-law to remarry, so that he can get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

Because Wang Anshi's son was crazy at that time, he tortured himself every day, and he didn't want his daughter-in-law to suffer with him.

King. When Wang Anshi was the prime minister, Xiao Gongzi, a relative of his daughter-in-law's family, went to visit Wang Anshi when he arrived in the capital, and Wang Anshi invited him to dinner.

The next day, Xiao Shizi dressed up and went there, expecting that Wang Anshi would definitely entertain him with a feast. After noon, he felt very hungry, but he did not dare to leave like that. It was a long time before Wang Anshi ordered to take a seat.

None of the dishes were prepared. Xiao Gongzi felt very strange in his heart. After a few glasses of wine, two pieces of Hu Biscuit were served, and then four portions of meat cut into pieces.

After a while, the meal was served, and only vegetable soup was placed next to it. Xiao Shizi was very arrogant and indulgent, and he didn't put down his chopsticks, only ate a small part of the middle of the Hu cake, and left all four sides. Wang Anshi took the rest of the cake and ate it himself, and the Xiao Gongzi was ashamed to leave.

Wang Anshi treats guests.

Wang Anshi is in the phase, and the son of the Xiao family, the son of the son-in-law, is the master of Beijing, because of the father-in-law, the meal of the convention. The next day, the Xiao family went in full costume, which means that the public must feast. After noon, I felt hungry and didn't even dare to go.

After a long time, Fang ordered to sit, and there were no fruits and vegetables, and his people were already strange. There are three lines of wine, two pieces of Hu cake at the beginning, and four pieces of pork belly at the second, which is to serve rice, and only put vegetable soup on the side. Xiao Shizi is quite arrogant, and he no longer puts down the chopsticks, but eats a little in the middle of the Hu cake, leaving it on all sides.

The public eats it for itself, and the people are ashamed and even retreat.

Excerpt from Song Zeng Minxing's "Solitary Awakening Magazine, Vol. 2").

The quality of Wang Anshi].

Disdain those wine bags and rice bags of villains, although Xiao Shizi's character is not bad, but it seems to be a person who dislikes the poor and loves the rich, and flatters, Wang Anshi satirizes those who are greedy for fame and profit with his own banquet or actions, even if the other party is his own relative, he does not lose his principles, and sneers.

Enlightenment] A person should be simple, diligent and thrifty.

Wang Anshi has three sons and three daughters.

Wang Anshi (December 18, 1021 - May 21, 1086), known as Jiefu, was a native of Linchuan, a famous thinker, politician, writer and reformer in the Northern Song Dynasty.

In the second year of Qingli (1042), Wang Anshi Jinshi and the first. He has successively served as the judge of Yangzhou, the magistrate of Yinxian County, and the general judge of Shuzhou, and has made remarkable achievements. In the second year of Xining (1069), he served as the governor of the council, and the following year he visited the prime minister and presided over the law change.

Due to the opposition of the old faction, Xining resigned in the seventh year (1074). In the first year of the Yuan Dynasty (1086), the conservatives gained power, the new laws were abolished, and he died of illness in Zhongshan and posthumously presented to the Taifu. In the first year of Shaosheng (1094), he was given the title of "Wen", so he was called Wang Wengong.

There are "Wang Linchuan Collection", "Linchuan Collection" and so on.