I am often annoyed, sad, and confused as a 30 year old woman

Imagine people who are physically disabled, people who are mentally disabled, and how many people still have never seen a computer and don't understand the Internet. What you have is already a great treasure for them. Stop complaining.

Diplomas can be earned hard, and abilities can be grown through experience and hard work. Everyone has to carry all your stress. But 30 is definitely not old.

Tomorrow the sun is beautiful. Let's have a good mood.

Let's be honest. I'm just like you. We're both 30 years old, and I've been very sad and depressed before. I often wonder how I can live a life that is so weak and has nothing? Thinking too much, too much. Cry a lot!

Later, in this melancholy mood, I slowly changed myself. Because life has made it necessary for me to change myself. Because my parents' eyes are always so full of hope, I need to live a little more happy.

So I learned back to forget. Forget all the things that are unhappy. Don't let yourself think too much.

Later, I didn't want to think about it. It's a simple but happy life.

Live each day well. The more I think about it, the sadder I feel. Don't overthink it. Just like me. Have fun!

May happiness accompany you!

Don't feel inferior and hopeless because of your age and education.

Try to make yourself feel that life and work are interesting and enjoyable, find a good person to talk to, and release your troubles and difficulties.

You can only figure out how to adjust it yourself.

No one else can help you find something you like to do, let your mood relax, and get rid of depression. Fall in love and let the other person give you moral support.

Live each day well. The more I think about it, the sadder I feel. Don't overthink it. Just like me. Have fun!

May happiness accompany a good mood and a good mentality will naturally be good for you!

A painful life is a day, and a happy life is also a day. How do you want to live? No matter how winding the road is, it will come to the end, do you know what kind of scenery there is along the way?

If you think you're happy, you're happy, and if you don't feel happy, you're not happy.

If you want to rely on someone else, find a rich man to marry.

If you're going to rely on yourself, start working on it now.

Every day is spent in confusion, and there will never be a way out.

Let's start with action.

Find something you love to do to relax and get rid of your depression. Fall in love and let the other person give you moral support.

As an autistic person as well as a depressed person.

I urge you to find out what your real problem is.

And then try to solve [--nonsense].

First of all, don't feel inferior and hopeless because of your age and education.

Try to make yourself feel that life and work are interesting and enjoyable for you.

Find a good person to confide in and release your distress and difficulties.

You can only figure out how to adjust it yourself.

No one else can help you.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself.

It's a simple life, but it makes you think so complicated.

What about your husband and children?

Or a friend? If you think you're happy, you're happy, and if you don't feel happy, you're not happy.

A painful life is a day, and a happy life is also a day. How do you want to live? No matter how winding the road is, it will come to the end, do you know what kind of scenery there is along the way?

Find someone to marry, have a little money, and then become a wife

You're not in a good state of mind.

If you are in a good mood, your mentality will naturally be good

You're as lonely as I am, but we don't lack anything, but we feel like there's nothing.

offended all 30+ women with one song, and Zhao Shen was no one. The song at the bottom of the legendary box must have accumulated a lot of insight before it was composed. The first time I heard it, it was probably about a single woman in her thirties, who didn't deal with her for various reasons when she was young, and now she has wrinkles at the corners of her eyes but has a good figure in the embarrassing stage, and it is difficult to find true love under the judgment of the world.

As soon as this song came out, the angry sisters fought one after another, and the bitter hatred was deeply indignant, and they couldn't wait to tear Zhao Lei. In my opinion, it is not so much that I want to tear Zhao Lei, but rather tear this filthy era that is not as good as I want, and tear up my poor and hateful self. Any bias is caused by artificial interpretation, just like no one really cares if the fat person is in good shape or not except for the fat man himself.

A 30+ woman can be labeled with a lot of labels, and old is not the main one. Maybe it's the trivial things that start to be taken care of in the monotonous life day after day, maybe it's the formation of a glass heart that doesn't want people to notice in the friction of people coming and going, or maybe the most terrible thing, far from the vigorous rendering, to cultivate a worldly atmosphere that is not popular with people. None of the above is a problem, because these do not affect other people, no matter how they toss in their own world, there will be no change in their surroundings because of them.

Excessively, their defense mechanisms make them the most offended and aggressive group. People just wrote a song that Wen Qingfa complained about and didn't complain about, and the whole song didn't explicitly criticize a certain group, so it became a group of indignant mothers-in-law. I think if you have time, you should pay more attention to your own business, and you don't have to impose your own ideas on others.

If you feel pitiful, it must be because you are hateful. If you feel that you are doing well, make the most of your present life and not let your face become more difficult to look at in the constant criticism and swearing. Time brings only wrinkles, and the aging heart will bring a coarse and unbearable appearance.

Anyone will go through the 30+ step judgment teasing section, I hope that 30+ me, when I heard this song, I just thought the melody was not bad, the lyrics were very chic, if it was the opposite, just take a look at the 29-year-old this article to introspect.

Landlord, you are so pessimistic, in fact, from the perspective of us outsiders, you are happy, don't be unhappy, at least you have a version.

Then find yourself a job that you have done, and you can accompany your children and your husband after work. Maybe it's because you're too dedicated and too dependent on him that he wants to be cold to you. Try to make more friends while working or living.

Men and children are not all you have, you are too dependent on your husband, so you feel that no one cares about you now, and you don't know what to do.

Life should be very beautiful, in addition to your husband and children, you should also be good to yourself, study and read more, and participate in some amateur activities. Dancing, painting, climbing, swimming, cross-stitching, calligraphy, vocal music, musical instruments, or learning to cook, make pastries, make homemade health supplements, or others. At your age, now that your children are older, you don't have to worry too much, and you can arrange a lot of free time by yourself.

You only had this idea when you were 30 years old? I'm 23 years old and I feel this way before I get married! But I often tell myself, "It's okay if others treat you badly, but you must be good to yourself," and you can't treat yourself badly to anyone, and you can't be sorry for your parents."

You're in a bit like me, and now you have to find something that you feel is meaningful to do, and don't focus on the whole family, which can easily go wrong.

After reading your information, I sympathize with you. If you want to change the present.

form, only first zhi to change themselves. You can chat with your friends around you.

On a special day, go out for a trip and relax yourself, the more depressed you are, the more detrimental it is to deal with your relationship. Don't take it so seriously, the more you care about him, the less you pay attention to you, so be optimistic, everyone in this world will live well. Say to yourself often:

It doesn't matter!

30 years old is still very young! Marriages have burnout periods, children are older, and you are very happy now! You should edition.

Just read a book, surf the Internet, get fit, and do something you love. Your husband may be busy with work and doesn't have time to pay attention to you.

Will give it back.

There shouldn't be any problems with you playing **, the current people are bai, and the work pressure is already du

Big, there are still 4 mouths in your family waiting for him to raise a dao, and the commonality of our women is suspiciousness. You can think about these problems from a different angle, give him more trust, I know that everyone understands the big truth, but it is difficult to do, come on!! However, although your focus now should be on your family, you must be kind to yourself.

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I understand and accept you. If a person's heart is not extremely painful and desperate to the limit, he will not recall, close himself, answer, or even give up on himself. 12 years have always revolved around him, for him to give up his career for this family, give up his freedom, give up his own socialization, no friends, no colleagues, no confidants, and even let himself learn to dress up and cook, pay all his efforts, but in the end what he got was burnout, ignorance, and lack of interest.

This kind of selfless dedication, this loneliness and discomfort, such confusion and helplessness, we can all understand and experience. You're not alone, you're not without friends, we're not very good friends right now?

I came out of the countryside with poor family conditions, came out to work and met my current husband, 20 years old less than the age of the version of the unmarried first pregnancy and marriage of the child, the conditions of the old right public family are generally honest people out of the down payment to buy a house in Ningbo, and then I became a tool for their family to make money and have children, mortgage car loan to raise children, I am at work in addition to giving birth to children, I thought that I don't have to work so hard to make money after the development of my husband, I am 30 years old, he is 38 years old, in the end it is still not as much as I earn, and the second child is also what he insisted, My parents borrowed 100,000 yuan, probably because he didn't make any money, I looked down on him more and more, my personality and lifestyle made me dislike it, he could also feel that his temper was bigger than me, and he couldn't lose his temper with him, and if he didn't go well, he immediately gave me an ugly look, and it was really for the sake of the child that I didn't want to toss with him, and I thought in my heart that when my daughter was older, I would live a comfortable life alone.

30 years old, I feel very confused, whether it is in education, career, or social, it is a blank, really not. As long as you work hard, tomorrow will be better! .I'll be your springboard! .Is it pretty? If it grows.

This is the only time in life.

Come, it's like breaking the cocoon and becoming a butterfly, it's impossible to go back to the past, bai can never be du, and now I understand a lot of things I can do before.

dao, what you want to do, you haven't done it, or you haven't done it, it's because of your own non-attachment or this world, now it's a little nostalgic, you want your husband to understand you, you marry him and be reborn, a lot of purity and beauty are treasured in the bottom of your heart, touch the scene and live in love, many beautiful pasts come to mind, I understand you, understand your feelings, you are actually great, really, life is beautiful, don't give up, in fact, everyone is the same, but no one dares to tell the truth, love yourself, love life, love family,

The work is actually very tiring, and the pressure in the workplace is also very high, and he is not willing to let his beloved woman share his sorrows when he comes back as a man. So I don't really want to go home. I'm unmarried, I don't understand the feeling of a specific marriage, I just think you should go out to socialize more, you have a social circle, and you won't feel these things if you make your life more fulfilling.

30 years old is still young, and it's not too late to struggle, you can find something you enjoy to do when your child is in class. Live and learn!

You are so focused on your children and husband that you never take the test for yourself.

Worry, and don't go to some social sex activities or search.

right some of your own hobbies. It is a good thing for a woman to value her family after she gets married, but it is not necessarily a good thing to blindly burrow into marriage. The marriage lasts for a long time, there will naturally be a sense of burnout, what maintains the marriage, is not only a heart that loves each other, but also some freshness, you do the same thing every day, you have no contact with the outside world, your husband is naturally very relieved of you, and you have naturally become a "yellow-faced woman", I think you should go to find a job, after all, your children are already of school age, and they have their own social circle, so they will not always think about their husbands, so they will be cranky, Learn to make the most of your life and everything will be better!

In order to live, you should save some money.