Why would you choose to have a second child? Why do many people choose to have a second child?

My husband and I are on the same page on the issue of having children, and we want two children, both male and female. Because I am an only child, I can feel the shortcomings of having only one child in my family. What's more, because I'm married far away, and my parents in my hometown can't be by my side all the time, usually they are fine, but if there is an emergency at home, I can't do it if I want to reach out to help immediately, let alone simply accompany them.

Therefore, choosing to have a second child can be said to be "deep-rooted" in my heart. Not to mention my husband, he likes children, and his in-laws insist on two. The two of us didn't think about the economy, and my mother-in-law said that if the money is less, it will be tight, and how can we pull the two children up.

Now we have successfully completed the "task" Erbao was just born this summer, and Dabao is also two years old, and it is hard to work hard, but every time I think of the bits and pieces of a family of four at home, I am still very happy.

I am an only child, and I am now suffering from the middle-aged death of an only child. I was afraid that my parents would get sick, that something big would happen, because once it happened, I didn't even have someone to talk to. There are no brothers and sisters supporting each other, and everything is rushing forward alone.

When I'm in a bad mood or have a fight with my partner, I don't even have siblings to hug and talk to. So in order not to let my child encounter the same problem in the future, I chose to have a second child.

In order to make companionship meaningful, we chose to give birth to a younger sister when my brother was more than two years old, just hoping that they could play together, raise together, and grow up together without an age gap. It's really tiring, but I believe that there is no such thing as a free lunch, and it's all worth it! Giving birth to children is a practice for us, we need to take good care of the company, time, energy, manpower, material resources to pay, it is indeed very tiring and hard, I believe that every parent who has a second child will not regret it!

We are willing to give for our children. We are also an ordinary working family, and we have two treasures, and the economic pressure is indeed a lot greater, after all, the cost of raising a baby is many times greater than that of the previous generation. But it also motivates us to work harder and pursue a better life.

The process of raising two children, tired and happy!

This question reminds me of the original reason for having a second child, mainly because I was born in a family with brothers and sisters, and I have enjoyed the joy and quarrel of growing up with brothers and sisters, and I feel that it is a very warm and happy thing to have my own brothers and sisters in a family. Otherwise, I will always be the only one in my growth, and I will seem a little lonely.

Because of the failure of various contraceptive measures (pregnancy with ring twice, pregnancy with medicine once, and medicine after the drug once) There was a miscarriage before marriage, and the curettage of the uterus was injured by multiple miscarriages, and it has been stopped menstruation for seven or eight months, and then, I became pregnant again (I never knew that I could get pregnant without menstruation, so I didn't do any measures) The doctor said that if the curettage of the uterus in the abortion would cause adhesions, and if it was serious, it would be amenorrhea! And I'm only in my thirties, premature aging! It's scary!

So it was born ...

We as a couple love children. Every child is a little angel sent by God to their parents, watching the children grow up day by day, smiling, innocent and romantic, I like it very much, especially when the two children love each other together, that feeling is particularly happy and warm!

My husband and I both come from families with many children, and we feel that even if we were young and competed with our siblings for favor and quarrel, because of our siblings, our childhood life was more colorful. When we grow up, even though we all have families, we feel happy that in addition to our parents, we also have a relative who is related to us by blood.

I'm married for the second time and want to keep a queen for my husband! Although it was hard, it was worth it for him!

If you don't have a child, how can you talk about a second child, a fool will give birth.

Let the eldest have a companion, and when we are too old to move, the two children can share the responsibility of support.

Dabao is very cute, the economy is okay, and he is going to have a second child.

Although many parents nowadays often choose to have a second child, because they feel that if the child they give birth to is an only child, they will feel lonely in life because they have no siblings.

But I personally don't agree with this view of these parents. First of all, starting from our generation of post-80s, the vast majority of us are only children, and in our growth process, although we have no brothers and sisters, we are alone.

But we never feel lonely, after all, in our daily life and study, we have many classmates and friends who can accompany us to grow together.

Therefore, I personally think that the argument of these parents that only children without siblings will feel lonely in their lives is simply untenable. And for many parents, they really choose to have another child, not because they are afraid of their own children, they are only children, and they feel lonely in life.

In fact, I personally think that this is just one of the factors they consider, the most important thing is perhaps that many parents think that one more child is more reliable than a one-child family, in terms of pension, after all, if the hope of the future pension is pinned on their own child, then the pressure on the child will be great, if you want more children to be able to share the pressure very well, but I personally think that in fact, this aspect is not directly related to whether it is an only child, The most important thing is that it depends on the education and guidance of parents for their children.