My husband is kind to my vicious mother in law, and I m sad, right?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Haha, there is such a mother-in-law, I was speechless, when I first saw it, I thought it was you talking nonsense, but after reading everything, I was really speechless. Teach you a way, leave this matter to your husband to solve it, you don't care, the more angry you are, the more proud she is. In the future, you will take care of the children by yourself, and you should not be angry about her, your husband will find out after a long time.

    It's up to your husband to talk about her. Tell you, if you scold her for a hundred words, it is not the same as her son scolding her for half a sentence. Don't be angry if your husband is good to your mother-in-law, that's someone's mother, learn to think about things from a different perspective, and your husband will love you more.

    People say that grievances that can be said are not called grievances, and grievances that cannot be said are called grievances. So you're a small thing. Amplification of the heart.

    Such a mother-in-law just needs not to live with you. Don't make too much trouble, your husband won't be on your side if it's too big, he has lived with his mother for so many years, and he should also know what he is like to fuck. Just take a mental shot.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your mother-in-law has a problem in her heart, but after all, she is your husband's mother. And she's not doing it in front of your husband.

    So you can't go against your husband, you have to pull your husband to your side, so that your mother-in-law's arrogance will not be so arrogant.

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very troublesome, I wish you happiness.

    Don't let him touch your baby, it's really a loss of conscience, your own grandson.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can't believe that there is such a mother-in-law in the world, then you should take care of your children in front of her and raise your children, don't rely on anyone, your husband is good to her mother, that's a matter of course, because that's his mother, and you don't want your son to treat you badly in the future, right? Don't take anything to heart, now many old people don't want to help us take care of children, so we will give birth to ourselves and bring it ourselves, nothing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you love your husband, then you don't have to worry about this issue, since your mother-in-law treats the baby like this, you will be diligent in the future, and the baby's affairs will be done by yourself, and you will only take care of the baby from now on. Don't worry about anything else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, sometimes it's not a good thing for people to think things are complicated, I don't believe the last sentence, because that's also his own descendant, if you let you drink, maybe it's possible, it's just a hypothesis! Maybe she's not hygienic! I'll tell you a story, there are neighbors Xiao Wang and Xiao Li, it was good at first, and then Xiao Wang's thing was lost, he thought that Xiao Li took it after analysis, but he didn't admit it, and then Xiao Wang thought that Xiao Li secretly took it, and the relationship was not good later, and soon found it in his own house, no matter how he thought about it, he didn't think it was Xiao Li who stole it, and it was pleasing to the eye when he saw Xiao Li, what do you think.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then this mother-in-law of yours is really vicious! Children are always towards their own family, and complaining to your husband will only make your husband disgusted with you even more! What's more, you have all the children, so you can only be open-minded in the future and put more energy on your children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should say it to your husband or let you see his mom's moves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you live together, if the economic conditions allow, you can consider moving out and living alone, so that there will be a lot less conflict, and the distance produces beauty, and each other will also reduce conflicts because of less contact time.

    If you live together and the economic conditions are relatively poor, it is recommended that you go to work while taking care of the baby, and it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone for everything. No matter how harsh the other party is, as long as he doesn't contact, the other party will say that everything will go in and out of the left ear, and the husband will deal with the big things, and the small things will not be cared about.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a snarky mother-in-law. If you get along, the best thing to do is to tolerate him well and not argue with him. Whatever he wants.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When getting along, you should be more cautious, you can buy some gifts, and it is best not to say anything about the other party.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is a bitter mother-in-law, if you want a more harmonious family relationship, you can't work with him, and when he shows his bitterness, you choose to laugh and not talk to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I meet this kind of mother-in-law, I will never get along with him. I would tell him directly that I was moving out. If my husband refuses, I will choose to divorce because it is painful to live with such a person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because your mother-in-law is your elder, although she is bitter and mean, ignore him, as long as you keep a certain distance from him and don't have frequent contact with him, this will reduce the conflict, and it is best to leave him and not walk together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If there is a bitter mother-in-law, such a mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, because he has a unique personality, and he can't communicate with such a person, you'd better not have direct contact with him, or hide a little.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is very uncomfortable to have a bitter mother-in-law, and there is no way for such a mother-in-law to gain the respect of her daughter-in-law. And because this scathing mother-in-law is always vexatious, there may be quarrels and even big fights.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Having a scathing mother-in-law may be a sad thing, but after all, it is your husband's mother, and you have to be polite to him, that is, stay away from the distance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, I've had a lot of this kind of problem, but the biggest problem with this question is why you think your mother-in-law is snarky, maybe it's actually a misunderstanding. You treat him well, and maybe your mother-in-law will treat you well, not the so-called snarky

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At this time, you should respect each other, keep a safe distance, try not to keep too close a distance from each other except for unnecessary contact, and should do what you should do and not offend each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My mother-in-law is very strong, and she is also bitter and mean, very disapproving of her daughter-in-law, like the old thinking before, the old feudal, treating her daughter-in-law like that, wanting the family to bully her, anyway, no matter what the daughter-in-law says, she doesn't feel right to do anything, and it doesn't please to look at, do you say that such a mother-in-law can get along? I'm so tired, I'm going through it right now, hey.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    How do the snarky mothers-in-law of beautiful women get along? I think my mother-in-law will settle the bill anyway? He also has to think about his son, so as long as you treat your mother-in-law as an old man and honor him seriously, you will be happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should adjust your mentality, communicate more with your mother-in-law, then respect your mother-in-law, understand your mother-in-law, and let your husband communicate more with your mother-in-law.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since she lives separately like this, she lives her own life, does not interfere with each other, and it would be good to go back and have a look when she is free, it will be fine.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You just need to continue to earn your own money, live a leisurely and elegant life, don't mind what you don't agree with, just tell your husband what you have.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, for the conservative thinking of the elders, what we can do is to communicate and exchange with them sufficiently, and respect them appropriately.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you meet a scathing mother-in-law, it is really a misfortune in your fate, before you got married, didn't you see it? Maybe he welcomed you very much at that time and didn't show that, right? In this case, you will not be able to live under one roof, even if the house is bought closer.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you just get along in a different way, she is your mother-in-law, and you think the same way, so you think of him as your boss, what is that like?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Vitriol, alas, that's really excessive, how can he treat you? What do you do to him? I think it's a tooth for a tooth, and it's the best way to get angry with someone.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The most important thing is not to change the other person's mind and change one's own behavior. You can avoid it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When a girl gets married, she definitely hopes that her parents-in-law are a good person to get along with, but many things may backfire. After getting married, I found out that my mother-in-law was snarky, so if I had a snarky mother-in-law, how should I get along?

    First, as the saying goes, it smells far away and smells close, no matter whether your mother-in-law is a bitter person or not, it is best to live separately from your parents-in-law after getting married. And if you have a bitter mother-in-law, then you have to find a way to live separately from your mother-in-law. In this way, even if the mother-in-law is scathing, then as long as she is not in front of herself, her life and mood will be much better, otherwise living with a snarky mother-in-law will receive negative information all the time, which is not conducive to the relationship between herself and her husband.

    So if you can, find a way to live separately from your mother-in-law.

    Second, whether or not we live separately from our mother-in-law, as elders, even if we are a bitter mother-in-law, we must have enough respect for our mother-in-law, because you respect her, as the saying goes, don't hit a smiling person. I think no matter how difficult a person is, he won't always look down on you for no reason. So if you have a bitter mother-in-law, then please give her enough respect, for a long time, and compare your heart to heart, I think your mother-in-law can also see your respect for her and care for her.

    She's probably going to be too embarrassed to be harsh to you anymore.

    Third, use practical actions to express your concern and respect for your mother-in-law. Whether you live together or don't live together, you have nothing to do to buy something for your mother-in-law, clothes or other small items to let your mother-in-law see her sincerity. Of course, it doesn't mean just buying things, but also caring more about your mother-in-law in your daily life.

    Treat your mother-in-law as your own relatives and care about your mother-in-law from the bottom of your heart. In the long run, your mother-in-law can also feel your sincerity.

    So if you meet a bitter mother-in-law, don't go against her, treat it with sincerity, exchange heart for heart, and compare heart to heart. I believe that if you can impress your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law will not be too embarrassed by you, and I hope that everyone can meet a good mother-in-law, a happy family, and a happy family.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she doesn't have the same knowledge as her, she tosses as much as she wants, if it's too much, she doesn't live with her, she lives alone with her husband, out of sight and out of mind, no matter how mean she is, no one will burden her, and her anger will not be so strong.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If the mother-in-law is bitter and mean, she usually takes the initiative to spend money where the family normally needs to spend, and does not leave her any handle to complain about herself. When you have something to communicate with your in-laws, invite your husband to be there, the more people the better, so that your mother-in-law will not be too difficult with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you meet such a mother-in-law, who lives under the same roof and does not look up and looks down, then you need to use a scientific and reasonable way to get along with your mother-in-law. Here are a few tips for getting along with a snarky mother-in-law: 01 Use warmth to influence If your mother-in-law is just a knife-mouthed tofu heart, or her thinking is backward and she can't keep up with the trendy ideas of young people, she chooses to get along with her daughter-in-law in a mean way.

    You can try to communicate more.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    How to get along with a bitter mother-in-law, this is really a headache, if you come into contact, you will be hurt a lot, it is still recommended to discuss with your husband to choose to live outside, move out and not meet together, then it will reduce a lot of conflicts and contradictions, but this does have some problems, such as if the husband disagrees, he may also be angry, so this is still not easy to deal with!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Be sure to stay away from this mother-in-law, if it were me, I would insist, to move out and live, don't live with this mother-in-law, as long as you live together, then you will definitely not be able to stand your family, there will be no way to be harmonious.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The best way to do this is to live together, from country to country. There is less friction when you meet.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There is a scathing mother-in-law, how to get along with people is reasonable, if you treat him well, he will not treat you well, even if he is snarky, he is also a reasonable person, maybe you use actions to influence him, he will notice that this is not the case.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    How to get along with a bitter mother-in-law? Such a mother-in-law is very difficult to get along with, you just need to remember that she is your husband's mother and be filial to her.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you want to get along with a bitter mother-in-law, it is best to live separately from her and not see each other often, so as to avoid the awkward attitude of both parties.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can be a little nicer to your mother-in-law, but you must keep your bottom line of principles, so that your mother-in-law may respect you very much, and the two of you get along very well.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This kind of person doesn't need to get along, if you two can move out, it's best, if not, then if he treats you badly, then you must defend your rights and interests.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There is a snarky mother-in-law, you don't have to pay attention to him, you know that he is such a character, and you still pay attention to him. It is to explain to yourself and find yourself angry. Don't bother with him so much.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It is indeed difficult to get along with a bitter mother-in-law, but it is still possible to exchange kindness for kindness.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You should let the other party more, after all, the other party is an elder and her husband's mother, so you should tolerate the other party more.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I will try my best to tolerate my mother-in-law and not let myself have conflicts with my mother-in-law.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You should understand the personality of your mother-in-law, and you should do what she likes, maintain a good relationship with your mother-in-law, and learn to win over your mother-in-law.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When you encounter any problems, you shouldn't yell at each other, and you should tell your husband what you have encountered, so that you can get along well.

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