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To put it mildly, I think my mother-in-law may have an opinion about me, let him help mediate, if you directly say that your mother-in-law is not good to you, maybe your husband will have an opinion about you.
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You must tell your husband, otherwise your husband will think that you are not good to your mother-in-law and have opinions about you, which will be even more troublesome, so it will be as soon as possible.
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You should tell me, and the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, on the one hand, your husband is also responsible, because he is a bridge between the two of you to establish a good relationship.
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Let's talk to my mother-in-law first and see what the reasons are. If you still can't solve it after communication, tell your husband and let him solve it.
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Of course, I have to tell you that you are also your mother's baby daughter, and you should be kind to you when you come to this house, but you should not be too demanding.
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If you have already negotiated with your mother-in-law, and she still has to make inches, then you have to talk to your husband and let him come forward to solve the problem, otherwise how will you live this day.
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It should be, both of you are married, you have to share everything together, you can't be wronged by your mother-in-law, and you can't confide in anyone.
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This is what you should say to your husband, you still have a long time together. So you can't endure it for a lifetime, and it's better to deal with it as soon as possible.
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Definitely, you don't have to suffer this kind of grievance, just tell your husband if you have anything and let him deal with it. After all, you're a family.
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Should you tell your husband, if you don't tell him, do you want to continue to silently endure your mother-in-law's bad treatment of yourself, definitely not, after your husband knows, he will defend you and communicate with his mother.
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Summary. Why is my father-in-law and mother-in-law not good to my husband, maybe outsiders may seem to be bad to my husband, but I think what is the relationship between my father-in-law and my husband? It is the relationship between father, mother and child, so no matter whether your husband is good or not, he will always be the child of his parents-in-law, so it may not be good on the surface, but in fact, he can't escape the relationship between mother and son and father and son.
Why is my father-in-law and mother-in-law not good to my husband.
Why is my father-in-law and mother-in-law not good to my husband, maybe outsiders may seem to be bad to my husband, but I think what is the relationship between my father-in-law and my husband? It is the relationship between father, mother and child, so no matter whether your husband is good or not, he will always be the child of his parents-in-law, so it may not be good on the surface, but in fact, he can't escape the relationship between mother and son and father and son.
Usually my husband works outside, and when he goes back to his hometown, his parents-in-law treat him very badly.
At home is the smallest and the least welcome.
In fact, if it is the youngest child, that is, the last one, the last child, the general parents are loved, under normal circumstances, the parents are the first to love and the last one, and those in the middle may really not love it is true, but the last one you say that he doesn't treat this very well, there may be other reasons or is it just superficial?
Your request itself is excessive, and most people in the family like boys, and they will definitely rob them after you give birth to a son, and this is also legal. What you said was just a verbal agreement, and it didn't count at all. You can let the child grow up in the future, let him be closer to his mother's family, and help take care of his mother's family, but you have to think about how heavy the burden of this child will be in the future.
Mothers value their sons, they are not good to you, but to your sons, and they need you to take care of your own sons.
ML is a matter of two people.
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My personality is very the same as you, really, I also worked as a salesman for two months, I didn't do it, I learned computers, but I didn't learn home, and then I taught myself a lot of computers, and now I'm doing my old job, hehe, do what you like to do, don't force yourself, it's boring to live like that,
IMHO: I think your whole family is to blame for this.
First of all, your mother-in-law: as an elder, she does damage the image of her elders and does many things that are not atmospheric enough. However, it is also understandable. After all, she has lost her husband. Blows are inevitable, and loneliness is inevitable. >>>More