Such a marriage should be kept, and is such a marriage still worth nostalgia?

I don't understand it, you found an ambiguous text message on your husband's mobile phone, and he not only didn't explain but also did it with you. I really don't know how your relationship usually is; You are an only child, you can imagine that before you got married, you must have been held by your parents in your own home, and after you got married, you also made changes, since your husband knows your situation, he should actively encourage you and praise you. Because life after marriage is very dull and tasteless, such a seasoning is occasionally needed!

You divorced in a fit of rage, and you didn't think about it, after all, you have a child. But the cause of this is not you, not only does he not explain it to you, but he also provokes you to divorce. The only possibility is that he has no feelings for you.

You won't be happy in the future if you are so compromised. Their families are also too good; Not only did he not persuade you, but he also said cool things. But I don't know the specific things about the divorce when I heard you say this unilaterally, and you also said that your parents-in-law are very good to you and your children, why is his family so selfish in this matter.

Nothing for you and your children. Maybe you're probably wrong too.

Analyze it yourself, of course, marriage is not child's play, and now there is such a young child, so it is too irresponsible for him. Have a good chat with your husband and talk about it. My principle is that I can admit my mistakes and apologize if I have done wrong.

But I will never allow you to cheat on me emotionally, even if you remarry for the sake of your children, then he has no feelings for you, and this kind of thing will often happen in the future. After all, I still have to get a divorce. It's better to separate now, bring up your baby well, and make their family regret going.

Don't show your baby to his family, torture them to death

As for your future life, you can plan slowly, no, hire a nanny, and your parents can also help, it depends on what you think, understand your husband's thoughts clearly before making a decision.

Love is not begged, even if you remarry, but you have no love, your future life will still be very sad, now it is bitter, but after you remarry, it will be decades of suffering, you think about it.

There is no hurdle in life that cannot be overcome, and there is no mountain that cannot be climbed. I hope you can face this matter strongly, you want a lifetime of happiness, not to solve this short-term pain.

You also have to believe in yourself, and you will be better off without him.

I don't agree with your remarriage, because he doesn't love you anymore, and you are so cruel to you. Do you think you still have the happiness of the rest of your life for him?

Life is a mess of hemp, you should have thought about it at the time, what is the real married life like, are you still intoxicated with your husband who wants to love you all the time? We have to consider the consequences when we do things, and we can no longer do what we say when we are impulsive, so that 100% of them will regret it, and if we say something good, we will not say it if it is unpleasant. I feel that you are still very conflicted, you want to divorce, but you are afraid that you can't afford it alone, that means that you are impulsive and not ready to live the day of divorce, then you are not ready, then do not leave, by the way, put away your self-esteem.

But men should sometimes be self-respecting, it's not good to beat a woman after all, no matter what, I think men should always have to be tolerant, and they are also fathers, so why don't they understand the world at all.

There are too many men of this kind, it is easy to get, and it will not hurt to lose it, and it is not worth getting back together with him!

Wait for the children to go to the nursery and then go to work, you can do it.

The child is raised by your husband, I think even if you remarry, your husband will not take you to heart, and will invisibly lower them.

Your husband is an irresponsible, uneducated, uncultivated, and narrow-minded person.

Mutual fidelity is a basic principle of husband and wife, and it will never be tolerated if one of the spouses violates it. Divorce or you'll be hurt! You can't sustain a marriage alone.

A man can have no looks, no money, no house, but he must not be without a sense of responsibility!

Your happiness is in your own hands, the result of your own choice, not given by others. Be responsible for your own happiness! Be brave enough to say no to unbearable living conditions! The most painful thing is not the tragic encounters, but the "acquiescence" to those encounters.

Whenever you build your emotional life on the weaknesses of another person, it means that you are completely in the hands of that person, which means that you are empowering the other person to continue to mess up your own life in this way. You have allowed your past to hold your future hostage.

In fact, we are not victims, and we are always free to make choices about the actions of others and choose our own way of responding. Our society has always placed too much emphasis on the victim mentality and the mindset of condemning others, when in fact we all have an innate ability to be the masters of our own lives.

In fact, the impact of divorce on the children is limited. The reason why many children in single-parent families have problems is mainly because of the lack of love, high-quality love! Therefore, as long as your care and love for your children remains the same, you can improve the quality of your love even more.

I believe that the child's father will not stop loving the child because of the divorce. If he really doesn't care about the children anymore, it's not because of the divorce, it's because he has a problem in the first place.

For children, the living environment is the most important thing. How much damage will an environment of frequent quarrels, violence, and cold violence have to the child's young mind, it is better to divorce and let the child have a peaceful environment.

You can let your child know that we can be brave enough to say no to an intolerable state of life.

We can reject pain and choose our own happiness.

There are many examples of children from divorced families who can also grow up healthily!

I don't know if you're simple or stupid, just after I was with you, I found out that he was hugging another woman, and you didn't break up yet?? I don't know if you're afraid that you won't find a good man or what?? He didn't love you at all.

A man who really loves you will be grateful to you for giving birth to a child for him, and will be considerate of your hard work with a child, he has nothing for you and scolds you, what are you enduring? To live is to live happily. As long as there is no property notarization before marriage, the marriage is shared by the two of you, and it is better to consult a lawyer for details, and I don't know the detailed law now.

You are really stupid and naïve!

He should have been dumped a long time ago!

In the face of feelings, you need to keep a clear head, and you should be more rational if you are sensual!!