Do you still want to send blessings on his birthday after breaking up?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-07
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dear landlord, I'm glad for your question Actually, there are things you like that won't belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, and love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

    If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

    If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

    There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

    Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

    A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello landlord. Personally, I think it's wanted. Just because you've broken up doesn't mean there's nothing left.

    Friends can still do it. (Ahem.) I know that what to say after a breakup can be the same as a normal friend, pure p words) Although there is definitely a certain amount of embarrassment between each other.

    But you don't want him to think you're a cautious guy. After a breakup, it's like a stranger. You go yours.

    I'll go mine. So if I were you. I'm sure I'll text him or Q him and say happy birthday if he doesn't appreciate it.

    Then it can only show that he is a guy with no bearing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think it's necessary, I also broke up with her, but my birthday is coming, I think it's better not to bother her! (Personal opinion).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the two people broke up peacefully, in fact, I think they can still be friends, and when it comes to the ex's birthday, they can also be blessed. Of course, it's not a question of whether we should or shouldn't, it's whether we want to bless him, because it's not necessary for us to bless him at this time.

    Some people may think that since they used to bless him every time when they were together, it would be good to bless him when they were separated, but it may be that such an act of ours will make them think that we are still attached to him. In this matter, it is completely up to the individual's choice to bless, because we feel that since we broke up peacefully, it is okay to be friends, and it is normal to bless friends, so if we don't bless, it is also because of avoiding suspicion.

    If the predecessor does not have a next one at this time, I think the blessing is understandable, and it doesn't matter much, but if he already has a new lover, we may not be blessed. Otherwise, it is very likely to arouse the disgust of the other person's new lover, thinking that he is still in contact with us, but it will be very difficult for both of them to do it, so in order to avoid this kind of thing, we should not bless them again if he has a new lover.

    If it shouldn't be, I think in the overall environment, most people will not bless their ex's birthday anymore, because the two people have broken up, all ties have been cut off, and even some people are not friends with their ex after the breakup. If we bless them at this time, it will cause a misunderstanding between two people, and even a peaceful breakup is possible, so in order to avoid extraneous complications, I think it is also a very good choice not to bless.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It shouldn't be blessed, since it's already broken up, it has nothing to do with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Under normal circumstances, it is not to be blessed anymore, since it has broken up.

    This is not to be ruthless, but to reduce the resulting contradictions between the two sides.

    I hope mine can be recognized by you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Should. Because life is not only about love, but also about life and friends, since you can't be lovers, then it's normal to be friends and send blessings to friends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you break up peacefully, you can still be friends, you can wish each other a happy birthday from the perspective of a friend, prepare birthday gifts for each other, and continue to be friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After a peaceful breakup, you should leave each other's world completely, and both parties should live their own lives, so it is best not to contact each other again and not to give both parties thoughts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you have broken up, you have to break it cleanly, and you won't be in touch in the future, after all, for some people, people who have really loved can't be friends, even if two people are friends, they are just waiting for the opportunity to get back together, even if they don't get back together, both parties will feel embarrassed to get along with each other as friends.

    Since he didn't plan to be friends when he broke up, there is no need for his ex to give him an early blessing on his birthday. Isn't it good to let the relationship between two people cool down in the slowly fading contact?

    But if both of them belong to the kind of character that "can afford to put it down" and are emotionally more chic people, then the two can continue to be friends after breaking up.

    After breaking up and continuing to be friends, it seems natural for you to send birthday wishes as a friend on the other party's birthday. It's just that, in order to avoid misunderstanding by the other party, the tone of the birthday greeting is best to be polite and alienated, don't be too ambiguous, don't send blessings, don't have any sense of ceremony, be frank and generous, so that the person who receives the birthday blessing can also let go.

    If you break up with your ex, your ex will still give you happy birthdays on your birthday, and there are basically only two explanations for his attitude, either he has completely let go and treats you as a friend, or he has not let go and is waiting for you to turn back. If it's the second kind of closed bird situation, then you have to ask if you still like him in your heart, if you don't love him for a long time, then cut off with him, and don't contact him again in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on whether he has a girlfriend now, if not, there will definitely be a chance, and if he has, it will be a little more difficult. But it still means that he has you in his heart, you seize the opportunity, send him a text message Ji Fupei, first Bo Wei say thank you or something, and then ask about the recent situation, and then find something to talk about, don't play ** at the banquet first, text message first. WeChat or anything is fine.

    After that, text every day, and then contact again every few days to see how he reacts. If he takes the initiative to find you, it will be done. You'll be able to hit **.

    Don't rush to make an appointment yet, let's talk first. After a few more appointments. Look at the timing.

    If he doesn't reach out to you, it's a bit of a choke. But don't give up, you can text again, he doesn't reject you, it means that he still likes to communicate with you. After that, let's look for opportunities.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The two broke up, the boy is still there, I wish you a happy birthday. It shows that the boy still has you in his heart. Then it is entirely possible for two people to get back together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Happy birthday to you guys after breaking up! Prove that the boy still has you in his heart and has been looking for a suitable opportunity to get back together with you. So there's still a chance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now that Hong has broken up with the first time, maybe wishing a happy birthday is just a momentary politeness, and it doesn't mean that Minlian has a chance to get back together. But you can also try, how do you know if you don't try?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think it's a problem, but I don't recommend that you take the initiative to pursue her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although you have broken up, when the other party sends you a message wishing you a happy birthday on your birthday, you can simply reply: thank you, don't say anything else.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not a retrospective grass to say that the number is not a turning back, since you broke up, don't think about anything else.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, my lover broke up, do you want to bless my lover's birthday? Then first of all, it depends on whether you still have feelings for your lover, whether you need to redeem it, if you still have feelings for her. I care about what he still loves in his heart.,If you want to get back together with him.。

    There's nothing wrong with sending a text message for birthday wishes, whether he's willing to get back together or not. There is no problem in blessing her, and there is nothing wrong with it. If you want to break the relationship completely.

    Never again. Then forget it, I don't think it's necessary to send this birthday wish, it's a little embarrassing to send it. So it's entirely up to you.

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