Why has the once criticized scumbag become a kind of capital to show off in today s society?

The scumbag that everyone thought of before was a derogatory term among everyone, but in today's society, to treat the scumbag as their own capital to show offNext, let's talk about what is the essence of a scumbag? One of his traits is that he knows you have a crush on him and likes him.

And he also knows that you can never be together, but he doesn't care about it, you know him, and he doesn't really care about your existence, this is the information he feeds back to you again and again, is to make you feel that you have the possibility of being together, he will use your feelings for him, from the above to get the benefits he wants, he has told you more than once, he will break off the relationship with you, but he will not do this, always hanging.

Let you always be full of hope, so as to harvest what you want. And this kind of person is extremely afraid of taking the responsibility that you should bear, you never take the initiative to cut off the connection with you, and when you really make a decision to question him, he will ask why you keep pestering him like this, well. And when you can't make a decision, take the initiative to come to you and continue to maintain the relationshipAnd they only think about the current interests, give you countless promises, but do take one step at a time, you are just a person who can be replaced by anyone to a person who doesn't care, but he is all you have for you.

If you meet such a person, then please be sure to control your feelings, you are not handsome to him at all, but a kind of use of the attachment that people can't get but want to get, to get what he wants, at this time, no matter who can save you, you can only give up through yourself, and when you really leave him, you will find that these are not important. This is the scumbag,At the same time, because of the psychology of winning, some men will also use it as their capital to show off, which is the reason why contemporary young people want to show off that they are scumbags.

Now that people's three views have rotten, they regard scum as a kind of glory.

Because scumbags will spoil women, straight men can't stand women's cancer.

That's because scumbags are able to find girlfriends instead.

Because many people like to find a boyfriend in the trash.

The three views of modern people have been distorted.

Because many sullen people are honest people, they look honest on the outside, but in fact, they are all pretending to be just not like to show it, and the real situation is that they want to flirt when they see beautiful women.

Because honest men are not necessarily as honest as they seem, they may be a sullen personality, which is something that has been confirmed by many people.

Often a very honest man is disguised on the surface, but his heart is not so honest at all, and he always likes to have an affair with other women outside.

Because an honest man is easy to make you relax your vigilance against him, and women outside will seduce such a man, thinking that such a man is particularly down-to-earth and reliable.

Hello, I'll help you analyze it:

First of all: it's not worth sulking because of someone else's words.

Why be angry with people who don't relate to you? If you get angry because of other people's things, there are so many things in the world that you can't get used to, wouldn't you be angry? It's okay to be yourself, everyone's education, experience, lifestyle, and worldview values are different.

You don't have to dwell on it. Looking for a partner is not only to see if the other party is of the opposite sex, but also to see whether it is really suitable for you, even if it is someone you like, it may not be suitable for you.

Secondly: things gather by like, and people are grouped.

What kind of people are with what kind of people, their distorted views have nothing to do with you, you don't need to be unsociable, you can only say that they are not suitable to be true friends with you. In work and life, you can go over it, do anything, and have a clear conscience.

Finally: your own life is up to you.

Everyone has their own way of life, and it's good to like it. Being yourself is actually easy to say, but not easy to do. But those who can do their best will become human beings.

After all, you don't want to be the kind of person you hate, do you? Just put down the mustard and look down.

That's because they're too superficial, you already know very well that they don't have the right outlook, so they don't deserve to be friends with you, you have to be friends with those who are better than you, first of all, you have to be that kind of person, you will gather friends with the same energy, it's not that this era is ridiculous, it's that you haven't been exposed to positive energy, Ma Yun is surrounded by successful people, and the doctor's friends are all people from some medical system, what kind of people do you associate with? I think you already know very well in your own heart, in fact, you and they are not all the way, so don't force everyone to be together, each other is very uncomfortable, it means that you are still a very honest person, and you must have a choice in making friends!

No way, society is like that. The atmosphere has been formed, and there is no way to change it! So just be yourself.

If there are people like this, isn't it good to be yourself, I don't believe that all people are like this, then hell.

Because he is a traffic star, as we all know, every traffic star will be hacked by the whole network. Because they didn't rely on the acting skills of each drama to become popular, but relied on a drama to become popular.

Moreover, Xiao Zhan has a lot of brain-dead fans and illegitimate meals, which seriously disturbs the lives of ordinary people, especially brain-dead fans who report this and that every day. Almost all circles have been reported because of Xiao Zhan, so almost all people in the circle especially dislike Xiao Zhan, so Xiao Zhan's popularity is also very poor.

Xiao Zhan has been hacked by the whole network because what Xiao Zhan's fans did before provoked public anger, so he was violently attacked on the Internet and scolded by other netizens.

The main reason is the 227 incident, various reports from his fans, resulting in A03 being walled, lofter a lot of things being hung, the writer's wife quitting the circle, etc., many people say that it has nothing to do with Xiao Zhan, but he knows that his fans are doing something wrong, why don't you remind the fans, just like someone said that you can't get used to him, you can not watch it, there is no need to scold him. But! What did those writers' wives do wrong, and what did the writing platform do wrong!!

If his fans can't accept it, they will report it, scold the wives, and attack them personally??? We can't scold him if we can't get used to it?? Why?

There is also 427, Xiao Zhan said don't harm innocent people, come at him, I emmmmm? You know at this time that you don't hurt the innocent, why didn't we see you fart when our writers' wives quit the circle?? Now that the platform has been blocked, you and your fans are still at ease???

Isn't this wave of capitalist PR disgusting??

When the 227 incident first came out before, I also felt that Xiao Zhan was so innocent, it was all his fans who made trouble about him, but since you are your fan, you have the responsibility to manage, instead of conniving at them to report and scold people at every turn, I thank you.

The cause was that some Xiao Zhan fans were dissatisfied with a fandom called "Falling" and collectively reported the article and abused the original author, and then the report became more and more powerful, causing ao3 to be walled. It spread to other circles and caused public outrage. Known as the 227 Incident.

The matter has now evolved into an overall condemnation of the deformed fan circle culture, cult-style star chasing, large-scale propaganda, and the creation of false traffic. The world has been in the rice circle for a long time, and netizens who don't chase stars are really tired of being forcibly restrained by the rules of the rice circle. Fans make evil, but Xiao Zhan connived at their reckless behavior, and did not restrain fans at all, and in the past two months, there has been no apology and reflection except for an insincere statement from the studio, and all that remains is to control comments, delete comments, and buy hot searches to forcibly raise the value of Xiao Zhan.

Then there was the bombing incident on April 27, and its team blew up the Weibo big V who boycotted Xiao Zhan, which made people feel that they were blocked by speech. It seems that netizens don't deserve different opinions and hobbies at all, but anyone who doesn't like her brother's "will never understand his goodness" just shut up. :)That's good.

I see that Xiao Zhan is about to ascend the throne, how can he be a traffic star with a higher position than a really powerful artist who has struggled for decades?

Let's talk about the relationship between fans and the main owner, a netizen summed it up very well. "Li Jiaqi can persuade a 15-year-old child to quit the live broadcast room, Zhu Yilong whispered in the live broadcast room to let fans spend less money, Teacher He Jiong didn't let fans pick up the plane, Zhou Shen didn't like fans to give gifts, and you Xiao Zhan, connived at your fans to start with one hundred and five copies to buy your plagiarized songs, what do you want to do, let your fans take these ** to make a coffin for you? "The 30-year-old man has no responsibility and responsibility at all, but as long as he comes forward to restrain fans at 227, even if he can't control it, he won't end up today, and many netizens will respect him as a man and responsible.

Whether you can do it and whether you can do it or not are completely different things, but what about the actual situation, twisting and pinching and hiding behind fans for two months without even putting a p, the incident provoked by the fans first, doxing, insulting, slandering writers, picking up the schools where other authors are and demanding that they be expelled, spreading rumors about Professor Yan Ning's academic misconduct, reporting everywhere, and giving low marks to the innocent creation platform, he is good, not only does he not care about it, but he also pretends to be a victim here. Just two days ago, I said a word to block everyone and obviously dumped the pot, as long as the evil is all sunspots, it's none of their own fans' business, as if the 227 incident is everyone's dream.

There are so many beeps, all in all, Xiao Zhan, a traffic star who wants works without works, has no strength, and has a good-looking skin is the failure of this social entertainment culture, and the atmosphere of the facial features deciding the three views should also be nailed to the pillar of shame forever.

Because the ministry has motives respectively"xzf"In the name of washing his brother cleanly, he successfully created the 227 and 229 incidents, which made many wives who were not offensive to the entertainment industry almost break their pens. Same-sex literature is already in a gray area in China, and no matter how innocent an incident is, it will be said that it is guilty and deserved, and there is no place to argue or reason, and it has to endure all kinds of gossip. Later, everyone in the circle became angry, and they drew a line one after another:

You then do a good job, you then report the platform for hurting your wife, how you hurt our wife, we will fight back, how you can resist your brother, your brother will be confused.

So this is not a question of whether Xiao Zhan himself is diligent or not, many people who resist Xiao Zhan actually don't dislike Xiao Zhan at all. Why do you hate him? What is disgusted is the contempt and purge.

Weibo has purged too many voices, and you see that many people don't even know the origin of the matter. Everyone knows that Xiao Zhan is being hacked, but who knows that some wives have been doxxed, abused, and even forced to commit suicide? I don't know if there are any related events on station b, you can look for it.

Xiao Zhan was hacked on the whole network and his brokerage company has a lot to do with it, he wants to become popular, but he didn't grasp the direction of the wind, and the fans are too pitiful, plus Xiao Zhan himself is silent, so he will be hacked.

Needless to say,

A man's crying of poverty is itself a manifestation of his lack of interest。A man who cries poor in front of a woman has nothing more than two thoughts in his heart: one is that he is really poor, so poor that he can not be dignified, and even uses poverty as a bargaining chip to exchange emotions with women.

The second is that he doesn't love you at all, in front of the woman he loves, men like heroes, they rob poor enough every day, and they don't even want to swipe their girlfriends' birthdays.

Everyone's ability is different, and this is not pursued. But there is a kind of man who doesn't have a hard-working heart, just wants to eat at home and wait for death, and not being able to find a job is just his excuse, and the real reason is that he doesn't want to work hard for you. Think about it, a man who is really obsessed with you just wants to work hard just to give you a great future.

Even if you don't have money for a while, you won't often say it in front of you. Because he believes that through his own efforts, the future will be very bright. Only those men who don't love you will use lack of money as an excuse all day long.

It doesn't matter if you're poor, but if you're poor, it's terrifying. A man should be like a man, stand up to the sky, and bear the financial burden of the family. Instead of blindly evading their responsibilities.

Women should know that a man who really loves you will work hard for you, and only a man who doesn't love you will be so indifferent.

The psychology of men crying poor

1. Tricks that I don't want to pay for you.

Two people in love can't always be in spiritual love, they always need to go on a date, watch a movie and eat, these all need to pay a cost, usually the boy bears a little more, but for a man who loves you deeply, he will not care about these expenses with you, he is willing to pay for you, as long as you can be happy.

2. Test your reaction, for fear of being deceived, and it may also be a foreshadowing to borrow money from you.

There are not only scumbags in this world, but also scumbags who cheat their feelings, there is a kind of woman who always likes to ask for it from men under the guise of love, and some men are probably afraid of being deceived, so when they are with you, they also have a very heavy defense, so they will deliberately pretend to be poor, so as to test your reaction, but this situation is a minority.