Can people who have been hurt by themselves be able to get it back? 5

Yes, but first you have to make sure that you are not there to hurt her (him), since you meet you should cherish it, the relationship will inevitably go wrong, what you need is to calm down and talk about it, long live understanding! If you want to redeem it, it depends on what you do, use your actions to smooth the other party's injured heart, sincerely, and the gold and stone are open! Work hard, I'm from here! ~~

It can't be reversed, because there is already a generation gap between you. So it's impossible to redeem it. You should have broken his heart for you, so it was impossible. You know for yourself!!

True friends are born to share adversity, if he is your true friend, he will understand your difficulties and feelings, don't worry, if you also want to save the relationship between you, you must take the initiative and deal with this matter with a positive attitude!

Refinement, gold and stone for the open! If you are willing to redeem it, work hard, and if he is your true friend, he will definitely come back to you!

It is possible and very likely.

When I used to talk to my wife, I hurt her to a great extent, but I still got it back, and I didn't have anything to think about. Just impress her with the simplest things, don't be afraid that she will be impressed by you, come on.

It depends on what you want to recover, time can change everything, and you can prove your repentance with action.

It depends on how badly it hurts you. If it were me, I wouldn't have eaten back grass. I knew this was the case, so why bother in the first place.

If she loves you, how can she not be recovered, it's just that she may be angry with you, and when you arrive, you must not think that she doesn't love you. You have to be patient.

It's a little hard, but it's up to you to make it up!

It depends on the extent of the damage.

If severe, the chances of redemption are rare.

It's impossible, just leave a memory.

If not severely.

I guess it works! Because it doesn't rule out that he still loves you!

If he really hurts deeply, it's hard to say.

But if you're determined.

There is nothing in the world that cannot be done.

It depends on how well you know her

Possibly. How deep does the injury get??

Let's see if he still loves you anymore

There will always be a pimple in my heart.

Hurting the other person in an emotional relationship is unavoidable, but when the hurt gets worse, it can lead to a rapid breakdown of the relationship. If you've ever hurt your boyfriend, trying to salvage your relationship requires honestly admitting your mistakes and taking action.

First, be honest about your apologies to your boyfriend. When apologizing, remember not to take it lightly, but to honestly admit your mistakes and show that you recognize the negative consequences of your mistakes. Don't rush into making peace when expressing your apologies, but wait for your boyfriend's reaction.

Understand that it will take time for your boyfriend to accept your apologies and rebuild trust.

Second, it needs to be put into action. A real apology is not just a verbal apology, but a demonstration of one's sincerity through actual actions. Think about the damage you've done to your boyfriend and try to make amends by taking action.

It doesn't have to be big and comprehensive, but it can be something small, like writing a letter to express your feelings or giving him a favorite gift.

Finally, establish communication channels. If you want to save your feelings, you need to let go of the precautions in your heart and set up a real communication channel in the spring. Don't be afraid to express your inner feelings to your boyfriend, which helps to better understand and support each other.

At the same time, try to listen to your boyfriend's thoughts and opinions, which can help build a more stable relationship foundation.

In short, recovering a hurt boyfriend's feelings requires sincerity, sincerity, action, and a stable line of communication. If you do this, you have a good chance of regaining your boyfriend's trust and support, and gradually building a deeper foundation of affection.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Yes, intentions and sincerity are the most important.

If the mistakes we make are not principled, for example, if two people are not in a good mood that day, and there is a conflict because they do not communicate seriously, or because they hurt each other on the spur of the moment, this kind of hurt, if they reflect seriously afterwards and apologize with their hearts, I believe that the other party is willing to forgive themselves.

But some situations are different, such as betrayal, for example, saying bad things about him behind the other party's back, or digging into the corner of a friend, hurting a friend's family, or asking for something without a bottom line, shameless sarcasm, or because of familiarity with the other party, and always doing things that the other party doesn't like, these injuries are difficult to forgive.

I believe everyone must be familiar with Zhou Huajian's song "Friend". And what does a true friend look like?

I think that a true friend must be the one who can understand the other person's words, and can help his friend when he is in trouble; You can share with your friend when he is happy; You can be with him when he is lost; Even if you don't say a word when you're together, you won't feel embarrassed, and real friends won't get bored or depressed when they get along, but wait silently for each other.

My best friend and I are good friends in the third year of junior high school, and we have never blushed until now, and we never feel unnatural when we get along with each other, and the unhappy thing is that she got married and went to the field, and our contact has become less, but every time I play **, I will play for hours, I like this feeling, ten years have passed, I still remember her initial appearance, shy, kind, introverted, but always treat friends with enthusiasm, sincerity, and sincerity.

A friendship that has been hurt is like a broken cup, once there is a serious rift, even if it is repaired, it will not be restored as before.

I once had a particularly good friend who was working for a company and rented a house together. We have a good relationship where we can wear each other's clothes, sleep in the same bed, go shopping together, and travel together.

Later, she met a person she liked very much, and that person happened to be a friend I knew, A, A is a married man, but I heard that the relationship with his wife is not very good, so he often has an affair with some girls outside, and when he gathers with friends before, he will bring different girls.

After knowing that she liked A, I persuaded her to give up and then told her about A. But because she likes A very much, she can't listen to what I say at all, and even naively thinks that A really likes her, and she will definitely put away her fancy intestines because of her.

During that time, she and A established a relationship between men and women, often going out together and sometimes not coming back at night. I also have no heart for her behavior, so I can only follow her.

Once, I was having dinner with a friend who happened to be a mutual friend between me and A, and he told me that my good friend often spoke ill of me in front of them, thinking that I was interesting to A, so he hindered them from being together.

After knowing this, I was hurt a lot, and for a week, I didn't know how to face her, and in the end, I could only silently distance myself from her.

I don't know what you did to your friend, but I know that your friend is probably struggling with what to do with it. If the hurt isn't very impactful, apologize to her and get her forgiveness. If this hurt is easy to remember, then the relationship may not last long, because even if you can reconcile, your friend will often remember the hurt you did to her and eventually stay away from you.

When I was a student, I had a particularly good classmate, she was the class president at that time, and I was a member of the study committee. Our relationship is very good, to this extent, during the Chinese New Year, I will go to her house for a few afternoons, we also go to the photo studio to take group photos, and I have bought many of the same girlfriend outfits.

Later, once in a self-study class at school, we had an argument with another good girl, and we had a fierce quarrel. The head teacher called us to the office and gave us a lecture, and she joined some of the girls in the class to bully me. At that time, those days were actually very gloomy for me.

When she graduated from junior high school, she went to Shenzhen to work. Once, I received her **. When I heard her voice, I choked up. She said that she knew that she was not good and too childish in the first place, so that we didn't have contact for so long.

I'm not good at taking the initiative, but fortunately she took the initiative first, and I was also at fault, so I immediately apologized to her, and the relationship gradually repaired. Occasionally, when we meet, we can laugh and talk, and we laugh at each other's quarrels.

So I think that people come and go, it is actually difficult to meet a friend who understands him, if he has been hurt and wants to redeem it, he must act and cherish it.

In fact, I am a very awkward person, and I am particularly immature in dealing with feelings, and sometimes I often cause the breakdown of feelings because of a momentary willfulness. But I have an inexplicable pride, and I never take the initiative to bow my head to reconcile. Because of this kind of character, I have accumulated a lot of friendships that have not ended well, resulting in many obstacles in my heart that I can't get over, and hurting many people.

I met a girl when I was in college, and the two of us met like each other, and they became best friends across the distance from the dormitory on the first floor. I value her because I know it's not easy to make friends. I exchange all my secrets with her, and if secrets can really be exchanged for friendship, then what does it matter to tell her.

But maybe the saying of keeping beauty is true, two people who get too close will see everything about each other clearly, especially when you have an intention on a person, it will be difficult to bear what you see in her is those bad places, and completely forget the saying that no one is perfect. Finally one day, after a month-long period of cold shoulders with each other, we quarreled. I was angry at the time, but then I thought about it and couldn't remember the reason for it.

I hated myself for being angry at the time, and I said a lot of vicious things to myself, so seriously, two good friends can't quarrel, and what they say is really hurtful. I had a dream about her the other day that seemed to wake up all my guilt, so I apologized. At about three o'clock in the evening, I wrote her an email of more than 2,000 words, summarizing our friendship and writing about my guilt.

Then the next day, she replied to me with a letter of the same length. Finally, reconcile.

In fact, no matter whether there is reconciliation or not, if you can redeem and apologize, you must do it, give yourself a good time, and give the other party an attitude. It's a lot better that way.

1. Cut into the wound and take the initiative to apologize (Hua Yan, I'm sorry for that incident. I was wrong. Can you forgive me)

2. Pay special attention to, help him, help the people around him (it is very important to let them give you a few good words, and let him see you change), and be a good person (everyone likes good people).

3. Always remind yourself to avoid similar mistakes.

Special note: The person who has been hurt will be defensive, you are willing to apologize, and he will not accept it. So be patient, attentive, and careful.

Don't be discouraged. And if you want to apologize, you have to be thorough, don't be hesitant, confess, and tell all the unhappiness and all the pain. But to be tactful, his receptivity is not so strong.

Unless your relationship has eased a lot. If you tell him about it again, he won't mind, he will sympathize with you, and he will like you more. (Remember, don't talk about your wounds when you speak, just talk about your mood and not about things.)

Talk to a psychologist or someone who knows psychology well (it's a little safer to be safer).

Take the initiative to apologize and take practical actions to make up for your own mistakes or losses caused to others.

Look at what kind of relationship people are hurting, because of what, once some relationships are gone, they can't come back, try to let go yourself.