Essay on a painful life, about love

Life is like a song, one after another, so we will inevitably have pain by our side with happiness. Pain is just an ingredient in life, so we don't have to worry too much about it, we have to get out of it and welcome happiness.

We don't have the means to make our lives smooth sailing, to make our lives smooth and broad, so what reason do we have to indulge in misery? Living in pain is a happy life and a day, so why should we torture ourselves and immerse ourselves in pain! Therefore, when we choose happiness, we must choose the way out of suffering.

First of all, we need to calm ourselves down and make ourselves seriously think about why we are in pain and what is the reason for it? Is it worth the pain we have to suffer from it? To understand this, we need to adjust our mindset, sober ourselves, and then give up pain to enjoy happiness and experience the joy of life.

Second, when we are in pain and cannot extricate ourselves, we need to divert our attention appropriately. Do what you like, or listen to some soothing **, relax your mind, make yourself feel satisfied, forget the pain and embrace happiness.

Finally, we can also talk to our good friends, teachers, and parents and ask them for help to keep us away from pain.

Pain is not terrible, what is terrible is that we are slumped in the face of pain and lose our fighting spirit, so we must master the way out of pain. To enjoy happiness, happiness is actually very simple, that is, to do what we like, to be tolerant of others, not to worry about others, so that we can stay away from pain and enjoy happiness.

Pain and happiness are relative, and only when we experience the bitterness of pain can we appreciate the preciousness of happiness and cherish happiness.

Get out of the pain and embrace happiness, life will be better, let the pain be stepped on, accompany the happiness by your side, and face every day with a smile.

Happiness is a feeling from the bottom of your heart, but it can easily slip away and make you regret it.

Sunny asked me what my favorite color was. I blurted out, purple. She said, oh yes, you're a Scorpio.

Take a look at this horoscope book, Scorpio on page 13, line 5. The book says that Scorpios are very insecure and will like dark colors, especially purple, because in the eyes of Scorpios, purple is like black and can give them a sense of security. I said Sunny you're wrong, what I like is lilac.

Sunny said, Bing'er, you're such a complicated kid. I pouted undeniably.

Almost all horoscope books say that Scorpios are mysterious, but I'm not, I'm just an ordinary person, although Sunny says I'm complicated.

Sunny grew up wearing the same pants as me, we were classmates for ten years, we talked about everything, and she even knew me better than my mom. However, ten years is a long and short period of time, which can polish all the edges and corners of a person.

I suddenly felt like crying, and I buried my head in Sunny's hair, and her hair was long and smooth, and it felt very comfortable. I asked Sunny, will you change? If you changed, would you love me?

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Frivolous, not dignified. Reserved basic.

There is nothing more painful in life than no one believing in yourself.

Anything you do.

Never for sure. No matter how good you do, you can't get the affirmation of others. Helpless, painful, nothing more.

Bits and pieces reminded me of my childhood. It seemed like a happy childhood, but it was actually unhappy and didn't bring me happiness.

Time flies, the unhappy, the happy, all go with the wind. It still brings sadness. Happiness is short-lived. Pain is with me forever.

There is a weak heart, and it is always overwhelming.

A torn heart, only she can heal. The cracks in the heart are open, and the wind blows in, and it is so uncomfortable.

Lonely people are silent. Silently waiting, silently ......is not good at confession, it will only be buried in his heart, it's not that he doesn't want to express it, it's just that no one believes it. It's not that he likes to be silent, it's just that there is no listener. He was destined to be a lonely man.

I really want to let people know what I think, but no one believes it.

It's not that he likes the silence of the night, it's just that there is no one to accompany him.

It's not that he likes to cry, it's just that he doesn't have to rely on.

It's not that he likes solitude, it's just that he doesn't belong in his heart.

The night is destined to be with me, and loneliness is destined to walk with me.

I like silence as if there is no existence.

The night was quiet, and I was distraught.

The authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, and those who enter the game should not be lost. But I was lost. Can't tell the direction. I love being fascinated by this game. This game of love, the longer you are obsessed, the better.

There was no sound around, only me in the night.

With someone to accompany you, infinite happiness.

I'm here when you want someone to accompany you.

In the dark night, infinite sadness.

When you love someone, you will always think of him (her) inadvertently, think about what he (she) is doing now, and think about whether he (she) thinks about you now

When you love someone, you will always unconsciously write his (her) name softly, write and write, and then you will giggle slightly, laughing at whether he (she) is also gently drawing your name

When you love someone, you will always tilt your mouth slightly and get angry **Why do you always get through until you hear that familiar voice, there is something called happiness that quietly overflows

When you love someone, you will always have a habit of reviewing yourself to see if you are not doing well enough, whether you are not taking care of him or her enough

When you love someone, you always want to be silent in his (her) care in front of him (her), you are willing to be a child who doesn't understand anything, and then obediently listen to him (her) call you, little one

Our pain comes from not being able to see through, being reluctant, not being able to lose, and not being able to let go. I can't see through the entanglements in interpersonal relationships, the hidden wounds after the fight, the blandness in the hustle and bustle, and the tranquility after the prosperity. I can't bear the excitement of the past, the passing years, the vanity when I am high, and the applause when I am proud.

Writer Yang Daxia said that only by seeing through the pain can we forge ahead.

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

Your problem, I laughed at Lu Yun before, and I also encountered it.

Here's my own.

Hope it can help the landlord.

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy.

There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a matter of a moment, or it can be a matter of a lifetime.

Because of love, I leave in vain, and because of love, I give up. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.

It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

If my own.

Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !!

In our lives, we experience sorrow and joy. Whether it is sadness or happiness, it makes us feel the richness of this world, the splendid round beauty of this world.

In the happy time, the orange hunger, the time passed very fast, and I felt the splendor of life; In life, I feel the joys and sorrows of life, whatever it is, it makes me feel very happy.

Life is long, everyone will have their own life journey, happiness, sadness, sadness will have tried all kinds of tastes. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it can be said that everyone has been bitten by God, but the more sad people are bitten by God's apples, and the happier ones are bitten by God's smaller apples.

I have a lot of shortcomings, a person is beautiful because of the fullness of the heart, and the appearance of beauty and non-beauty does not mean anything. I tried my best to overcome and correct my shortcomings, and I believe I could. The teacher has told us many times that perseverance is victory, and perseverance is success.

As long as you insist on nothing you can't do, it just depends on your own perseverance.

I believe in myself, and I believe in everyone, joy, anger and sorrow are nothing, just to see if you have the perseverance to overcome! We should all have our own ideals, have our own goals, we must use our own perseverance to overcome difficulties, do better!