When there is a conflict between love and family affection, how to choose?

Each can be very important, simply indispensable, just ask, if there is only money, then you will only buy loneliness and loneliness, if there is only love, then the poor couple Pepsi mourning you have always heard of it, love can not be used as bread, friendship is just the spice of life, in this materialistic society there is no real friendship, only mutual use, everyone according to their own use value and the corresponding degree of friendship, I personally feel that the most important thing is family affection, it is the energy that supports you all, money can abandon you, Lovers can abandon you, friends can also abandon you, the only thing that will accompany you is only relatives forever, but if you only have family around you in this world, the contemptible people feel that you live really sadly, because in addition to your relatives who have nothing to ask for, you are abandoned by everyone in society, this is your biggest failure, not recognized, isolated, so money, love, friendship, family affection, indispensable, it is the driving force behind the composition of this society, I think the landlord raised this problem is really helpless, Because it's simply not comparable!!

I feel like the question you're giving is a either-or false proposition.

Maybe it didn't come to the point where you had to choose one or the other.

Love and family affection are both important, if there is a contradiction, what you urgently need to do is not to be entangled in, whether to choose love or family affection;

Because no matter which one you choose, it is enough to make you feel distressed and regret it for a lifetime. The most important thing for this kind of thing is to treat it calmly, find out the reasons for the contradictions, and vortex from them; Maybe things will turn around. Parents love their children, and parents all over the world want their children to be happy.

Your hard work and hard work parents will understand. Try hard, and hopefully you can choose one or the other without pain.

If you don't know exactly how to deal with it. You can tell me the specific situation, maybe I can help you analyze and deal with it.

In fact, have you ever thought that these two are not contradictory, and it is not necessary to give up who to take, if it does not involve personality defects, mental abnormalities, irritable personality, very rude to your family, drug abuse, marriage of close relatives and other unforgivable issues of principle, I suggest that you can have a good talk with your family, after all, this is you and each other for a lifetime, not your family, your own happiness must be grasped by yourself, do not regret it for life. I don't mean to let you leave your parents for the sake of the object, absolutely not, I mean if the object is a good person, and you love each other very much, then use your actions to tell your parents, and talk to your parents, even if you ask them to understand, don't give up your happiness lightly, you must fight, you have to work hard, if you really love each other, how can you give up easily, of course, the premise is that you love each other very much. Finally, I wish you happiness!

turned hostility into friendship, in fact, it was fine, but the parties thought too much.

What's the contradiction?! It's all about a "good" word!

Filial piety comes first, "I hope you know!"