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True love is not easy to come by, since you love, don't give up easily but work hard with him, as for the parents, don't force it, you can take a sleek way to slowly circumvent and do work, so that they can accept it slowly. And you guys.
Two people should know how to tolerate and understand each other, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use good attitudes and skills to manage love, so that love can go longer. I tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, you can try to log in to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "True Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Internet Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record the bits and pieces on your love road, become your love file for you to keep forever, and also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship. You can find it by taking a look at the "Tower of Hearts".
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If you are powerful, I think, the man is not willing to marry you, because those material things can be obtained later with both hands, and the relationship is a lifelong thing (I'm a boy).
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Let me tell you, those who are house slaves are fools, and now they can't buy a house if they have money, and they haven't enjoyed anything and bought nothing after they've been busy all their lives, so they have a whole house, and they can't take it away when they die, and they end up with nothing.
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Try to convince your family, talk to them, tell your family what you think, or you can think about whether your idea is really wrong from your family's point of view, hehe, it's just my personal opinion...
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Character is the most important thing, so please grasp it carefully.
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It's a very practical question, depending on what he's capable of. If there is a self-motivated and capable person, they will buy a house in the future. Then you have no problem getting married.
If you don't have the ability, you won't be able to buy a house in the future, can you eat it when you are in love? Think about it, if you get married and encounter problems in life, after a long time, you will be in a bad mood, and the two people will easily quarrel and the relationship will easily break down. Money is actually a big problem, so people who haven't actually lived a poor life for more than 10 years can be realistic.
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The economic base determines the superstructure, think it through!
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If I love him, I'll marry him, and it doesn't matter if I don't have money or a house.
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Do you have the money to buy a house?
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In fact, I think that if a person has a house or not, then many people will have a certain amount of consideration in it, if my boyfriend does not have a house, I will choose to marry them, so today I will take you to see my opinion.
In fact, we all know that many people nowadays are more materialistic, and they are more concerned about each other's conditions, but I don't think it matters if the other party has a house or not, what matters is how he is, for example, whether he is a self-motivated person, whether his family conditions are good, these are the categories we consider, if he has the ability, but he is not willing to buy a house, he has a house in his own house, especially in the countryside, then I think it doesn't matter, I have enough conditions to buy a house myself, but I don't want to buy it.
In fact, we all know that whether a person has a house or not does not determine whether he is happy or not, if he buys a house, but has to repay the loan every month, the money left every month, if there is only 1,000 yuan left in addition to the monthly payment, then this will lead to a serious decline in the quality of life. If that's the case, I'd rather him not buy a house, so I'd rather rent a house, and I think I'll also live well, not necessarily to say that I have to have a house to marry him.
Number 3, does he love me?
This is one of the most important issues for me to consider, because I think that when you choose this person, if he doesn't love you, give him a house, a car and a deposit, then it won't be of much use to you, if he loves you, even if he doesn't have a house, no savings and no car, if he is a hard-working person, he will love you with his heart and treat you well, I think I will choose to marry him, after all, I think many things now as long as you work hard, the living conditions will not be too bad, So I didn't use the house as the first criterion.
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I will marry, after all, I am married to a person and not to a house, which can make me feel the warmth of home, and the house can work together.
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Yes. The house is for the two of us to live together, and we can make money together to buy it after we get married. As long as my boyfriend is self-motivated, even if he doesn't have a house, I'm willing to marry him.
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If my boyfriend is ambitious, willing to work hard, will think of me in everything, and give me the best he thinks, I will. Otherwise, I won't, everyone is a little baby in the family, and there is no need to wronged myself for anyone.
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I won't marry him, after all, if I don't have a house, I don't have a stable future, and there will be many contradictions in the future.
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I will choose to marry him, as long as the other party is good enough to me, it really doesn't matter if there is a house or not.
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I will choose to marry him, even if I don't have a house now, I think two people will still get the house they want after hard work.
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I will first examine whether my boyfriend's love for me is sincere, and if it is true love, I will choose to marry him even if I don't have a house.
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Hello, I'll help you out, o(o
I smiled faintly after reading your situation.
Obviously, you are vacillating and hesitant inside.
A house is the basis for marriage, it is better to have it, and if you don't have it, you will struggle to buy it in the future.
Ask yourself, do you love him?
If yes, then don't hesitate. Give him unwavering support and encouragement. After all, true love can overcome any suffering.
Trust that your efforts will be rewarded. He will make it up to you in the future.
You are married to him, not his uncle and aunt, don't care about others.
I think you need affirmation and support too.
I'm here to support you, think about it, make a decision, no matter what, and don't regret it in the future.
Because some people, if you miss it, you won't be able to.
I fell in love with a rich second-generation girl. It's a lot of pressure because her family has three houses, two cars, and more than 5,000 mobile phones she uses.
But for me, she turned her face with her family and lived in my home of less than 60 square meters without hesitation.
Now, we've been married for three years.
I would say: the house is not everything, just stick to it and you will get what you want.
Bless you all. Happy Valentine's Day, o(o
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A man who doesn't have a house, at least I dare to marry. The premise is that he is very good to you, self-motivated, and has a certain ability in his career. It doesn't matter now, it doesn't matter how his parents are, maybe it will involve maintenance issues in the future, but after all, the two of you have to live, because now there is no house and it is appropriate to leave your boyfriend behind?
Of course, everyone has their own opinions, marrying a person, the most important thing is to look at the person, material things can be obtained through hard work!
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Hello, I will help you with this, o(o?
I have read your case with a faint smile.
Obviously, your heart is wavering and hesitating.
The basis of marriage, the best house, there is no struggle to buy in the future.
Ask yourself, do you love him?
If yes, then don't hesitate. The support and encouragement given to him by the company. After all, with genuine love, you can overcome any pain.
Trust that your efforts will be rewarded. In the future, he will rise up for you.
You marry him, not his uncle, aunt, and don't care about anyone else.
I think you need recognition and support too.
I encourage you to think about it, make a decision, whatever you do, and not regret it in the future.
Because some people miss no more.
I fell in love with a girl who had been rich in the second generation. A lot of pressure because her family has three houses, two cars, and she moves ** more than 5,000.
But for me, she fell in love with his family and did not hesitate to live in my house, in less than 60 square meters.
We have been married for three years.
What I'm trying to say is: a house is not a panacea, just stick with it and you'll get what you want.
Bless you. Happy Valentine's Day, o(o?
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Do you love him, does he love you, if he loves you, then get married!
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I don't think you're facing the problem of not having a house, it's the problem of their entire family and its unreliability.
Grandfather gambler, uncle has no sense of responsibility, and the property right certificate is estimated to have been mortgaged, right? Even if this house is returned, it is not the house of the two of you. The degree of reliability of a family is definitely similar, and the education of a family with such a tradition must not be very successful.
Take 10,000 steps back and say, your boyfriend is very promising and has a good mix. Then you also have to know that now a house is at least 1 million, and the annual salary of 100,000 yuan will earn for 10 years without eating or drinking, can you afford to wait?
I'm not teaching you to look at money, I'm just telling you that you have to be realistic in life, and you have to be realistic in getting married and finding a partner. Marrying the wrong person ruins your life.
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Well. It seems that the tradition of their family is to live in the woman's house.
If you really marry him, you can live in your mother's house. Is your family's situation complicated? Is it possible to accept that you will live in your mother's house?
In other words, poor couples mourn everything. My in-laws have no money, my husband has no money, if I want to have children after I get married, my job will be a problem, what will happen to the family's livelihood?
It's up to you. If you think you can make money and your boyfriend is also very capable, it's not about looking for a potential stock. If everyone's ability is average, it is better to find a man with a family background. Love can't be eaten.
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Although he doesn't have a car or a house, but if he has a heart that loves you until he is old, you can still marry him Money and cars are not a problem As long as you love each other, you can be together After you get married, you can make money with your own hands Isn't this very happy If you find a man with a car and a house, but you don't put your mind on you Is there any difference between this and the little three who are fostered What we say, you can only use it as a reference Whether you marry him or not depends on yourself.
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If you can change the status quo in the future, what are you afraid of?
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Miss Chic, you are not married to a house, nor is it money, you are a husband who is responsible for your life. ok
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Yes. If I love him, I will marry him, why is love linked to a house and a car. It can only be said that in material pursuit and spiritual pursuit, I only choose spirit.
If you marry a man who has a car and a house but no feelings, then I just live in a big house physically, and my spirit will have nowhere to put it, and I will be glamorous on the outside and empty and lonely in my heart. What a terrible thing it is, so what is the meaning of being alive.
However, if my boyfriend doesn't have a house now, it doesn't mean that he won't have a house for the rest of his life. In this society, it is normal for the younger generation not to have a house, but because we are young, we can buy a house and a car by our own efforts. This is the understanding that bread will always have, and during this time, I enjoyed spiritual happiness, except for the house, my heart was happy.
So, why do I have to have a house before I marry him, this is not a hard condition for marrying, marrying him is in love, he loves me, and he will naturally give me the best. A man who doesn't love you, can he hand you a glass of boiling water when you are sick, or can he clip you your favorite dishes when you eat, or will he give you a thoughtful gift on your birthday, or can he say when your aunt comes, wife, you have a good rest, I will take care of everything today. If you don't need any of this, you just need a house, and I can only say that your pursuit of life is incomprehensible to me.
Studies have shown that the average life expectancy in modern society is 80 for boys and 77 for girlsHowever, most people graduate from college at the age of 22, and before the age of 22, our emotional sustenance is our parents. After the age of 22, you will be in love, and then you will not have a house or a car, and you will be with him, why, because you don't have to explain your whole life.
However, when you get married, you hesitate, you consider his external factors, house, car, at this time your feelings for him are no longer simple, and even involve the problem of trust, because you don't believe in him, don't believe that he can buy a house in the future, even if you know that he will redouble his efforts because he loves you, in front of a man who has a house and a car, you choose the latter. <>
How sad, if nothing else, you will marry this man and have children, assuming you do not divorce, then you will live with him for almost 40 years, 40 years, what do you get, a man you don't love him, a man who is not the crystallization of love, a house, a car, maybe you don't know how to drive yet. And the person you love, he found a person he liked after you gave up on him, got married, had children, and had a house and a car in the back. You look at them and say that if I had married him, I would have been the woman standing next to him now.
You are sad from the heart, but you don't know that it is your own hands that have ruined your happiness. <>
So in the face of love and materiality, resolutely choose love!
In fact, men need their own space more than women, they have a strong sense of self-esteem, some men don't want their beloved women to worry about themselves, they want to carry their own, which is understandable. In fact, their psychological pressure is sometimes greater than that of us women, of course, in the eyes of two people who love each other, they should be honest and shared, but this is just a woman's opinion, a man may be drunk and will lean on your back to you to confide in his inner sorrow, but in ordinary times he will smile at you, say to you It's okay, okay, don't think too much, etc., I think if you love your boyfriend, you should care about him from the details and don't interrogate him, oh, ask too much, he may be annoyed, Maybe one day at some point, he will find that there is a you who has been silently supporting him by his side.
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