Psychological imbalance 10 points

Usually parents will hurt less, especially male sons will hurt more, who said that parents are not partial? Wrong, they are simply eccentric, although it is now the 21st century, the concept of patriarchy is still very heavy, so it sounds like you should be the boss, I believe that parents will say, you are the boss, you want to let the younger brother or let the younger sister, often hear, right? As the boss, you have to learn to be very independent, everything has to rely on yourself, the same thing, my sister may be comforted when she says it, the boss says it, it will only be regarded as vexatious, who can you tell about such pain?

I believe that your sister has been spoiled since she was a child, that's why she is so willful, and you are the kind of person who is threatened, you will be obedient, so your mother will look for you for everything, because she knows that you will not refuse her, right? If it's useless to communicate with your mother, then you can only take care of yourself more... This is the life of the boss...

I am also the boss!!

First, your mother is a little eccentric, and second, your mother is afraid of your sister's temper, and generally parents will prefer younger children, but your mother is indeed a little derelict in her duties, relax.

Alas, most of the parents are spoiled by the young, and you are so old, what do you care about with the children, and it is not a hard matter to go shopping with your mother. By the way, buy something you want.

This shows that she loves you deeply... Her attitude towards your sister is just to raise it casually. You have to think, but the character is good.

What are the causes of the imbalance?

Imbalance can bring two results: 1. You get a higher wage through struggle. 2. Complaining all day long about getting worse news than the original, being fired and isolated.

What kind of outcome there is depends on your own choice.

I wish you the best of luck in life soon.

1. Give full play to your value: you can start a business, you can also research and develop, etc., you can also do it if you are not convinced. 2. Contentment: My total salary is only 1536 yuan. You're so much more than me. People are more popular than people.

You think too much, you have to know that you have no pain, no gain. Since you are a veteran employee of the company, the company's business must be much stronger than that of a novice, believe in your own ability, and bravely ask the company's leaders for a salary increase.

It's okay, it's all done step by step. I believe that gold shines to the **, don't have an imbalance in your heart, then the work will not go well. I wish you a speedy promotion.

You have to think about it, stay in the green mountains and don't be afraid of no firewood, although the words are very old, but the reason is very true.

Use the power of hatred to change everything, and don't regret falling in the end.

Oh, smug and indifferent, frustrated and calm, fight for its inevitability, go with the flow, the sunrise in the east and the rain in the west, but it is ruthless and sunny, endure humiliation and gentleness, and be forgiving and forgiving.

Go see those who are worse than you.

You're jealous.

To change this mentality, you must first cheer yourself up, don't always think about who is better than you and how you are inferior to him, but say to yourself "I can do it too", and determine the direction of your efforts, and take action to change where you are inferior to others.

At the same time, you must also make yourself understand that "no one is perfect". No one is perfect, don't just see what others have and ignore what you have; What you don't have doesn't mean you will never get it.

If someone else is better than me, I won't be happy in my heart, but I will try my best to be better than others, of course, if it's not something I like, I won't be jealous of others, if it's immutable (such as height), then I will also learn to accept the reality, after all, I can't change it.

Life itself is a journey of pain and joy. It is also normal to have a psychological imbalance, if it is really uncomfortable, then think more about people who are worse than you, and the psychological balance will not be balanced.

Less than the above, more than the bottom. People ride horses, we ride donkeys. In this way, the mind is balanced.

Hello, you don't have to blame yourself for this, because it's normal that you like him and be possessive of him. At the same time, people want their lives to be perfect, and they want their other half to choose themselves first and for the first time. But it feels contradictory to think about it, because he and the first time have been separated.

If you were the ex, you might have already broken up.

However, in fact, modern communication technology is developing too fast, and people in the past would not have had such and such anxieties. Because the circle of people is limited, since the development of communication technology, there are more and more circles, more and more impetuous, more and more people are at a loss, everything is so convenient, and everything seems very casual.

Therefore, I want to say that it is better for people to be simple, sometimes, it is rare to be confused is also a rare and valuable spirit, if you like him, then give him a chance, if you can't tolerate some of his behavior, then it is better to separate as soon as possible, and you don't have to make yourself uncomfortable.

If you love him, you will definitely care about everything about him, and this kind of psychology is very normal, and you love him, so you care.

Confident women are more beautiful. Lack of self-confidence can make people look weak and go crazy. Show your demeanor.

Reading between the lines, I feel like you're not just an ordinary girl. Believe in yourself. One more point.

Maybe he flirted with her on purpose? Isn't it that you are usually cold and high-profile towards him? Hehe.

The best thing to do is to communicate.

Chinese (perhaps a little narrower) are good at pretending to be confused: you are wronged, because of family relationships, suffering and complaining do not say, pretend that nothing is wrong; He can see it clearly, because if you don't say it, he's happy to pretend to be confused.

Maybe you think that talking about money hurts your feelings, but not talking about money hurts your feelings even more. There is a saying that brothers settle accounts clearly, not that interests come first and family affection second, but in order to balance the psychological difference, put things on the bright side, and there will be no secret differences because of this matter.

You originally came in the name of helping, and on the pretext that the store was running on the right track and the profits were getting better and better, you withdrew and hinted that you wanted to go out to make money, and your relatives would naturally increase your salary if you kept you, and if you didn't leave you to change land. If you start with "Hey, I know that you are difficult, is it because the salary is less, you have to be considerate and considerate............ here"If you don't raise your salary for other reasons, you can only say that family affection is just a usable excuse for them.

Say it plainly, it's impossible for him to make money and delay you.

Touch your head. Because of my work, I have met many people who have had cochlear implants and become friends or colleagues with them.

I remember the first time I saw a girl I couldn't hear, she was very beautiful, but I couldn't hear it, I couldn't hold back at the time, so I secretly wiped my tears on the side. Not because I sympathize with her, but when I see her smiling so brightly, people talking to her with notes, she tries to answer in slurred words, to her, she is like everyone else.

Later, I met children who had cochlear implants, adults, my colleagues, and they talked happily with me and told me what was going on, and I felt that I was even more admirable for them.

Do you know what is the most beautiful description I've ever heard about wearing an extracorporeal machine? "It's so cool, you can hold a machine on your head, like someone who has come back from the future world! ”

So, dear little brother, you are right, you are not a normal person, you are a braver person than a normal person. As long as you are confident, no one will look down on you

As for finding a girlfriend... Hahahaha It's normal to be rejected by girls, don't care too much about dwarf oil, if you don't like you, let's look for it again Thousands of singles in the world are still crying, don't worry, don't hurry!

So hey, the so-called life, is that after you scolded cnmlgb n times, you still have to open your eyes to welcome a new day every day, if you are not happy, you will be happy, so why not be happy! (Pat on the shoulder.)

God is fair, don't be defeated by your own shortcomings, in fact, everyone will have a lot of unsatisfactory things, but some people find a way to overcome it and face it with an optimistic attitude. Everything will be fine.

Binge eating, just eat and you're done.

It's you and yourself who can't get by. Friend; Don't compare yourself to anyone, everyone's life is different, and their understanding of life is also different. Some people are very successful, and some people are not so lucky.

So; Many things are incomparable. As long as you do things yourself, be a person and be worthy of your conscience, no matter what you do, you will have the attitude of going with the flow. This way you don't feel very tired, and your heart feels relaxed.

Find a way to make it balanced! Life in the world is just a few decades, and I have not suffered more than myself.

A woman's heart is always the most ruthless, look away, brother, why hang yourself on a tree if there are many good women!!

Mentality problem, who in this era stipulates that they should be together for a lifetime, it may be good to go out for a walk!