How do I change it for him? What should I do to change him?

The tighter he grasps, the more he can't see through, love and freedom let men choose, they would rather choose freedom, even if they love you very much, women's thoughts are that in the whole world, only one man belongs to himself is happy, and men's thoughts are that all women in the world are theirs, so it's good. When this is an exaggeration, women are born with a sense of security, but this sense of security, in fact, their own man can't give it, the only thing he can give is himself, no matter how hard you catch, it's not yours, he will eventually go, be your true self, just let him know that you care about him, the rest, look at his performance, if you feel happy and happy, continue, if you are unhappy, maybe the next boyfriend will make you happier!

If you want to send him a text message to tell him, don't care about his mobile phone, just be yourself, there are many beautiful things to do in this world, such as listening, reading, watching movies, shopping, playing games, traveling, visiting parks, flying kites, building snowmen, climbing, swimming, playing chess...If you asked him to do these things together, would he say yes? Don't you feel happier? Do you have to check him?

If he checks on you every day, are you annoyed? If you were my girlfriend, I would have dumped you a long time ago, a woman who doesn't use her brains! ps.

I'm a woman, hehe.

Love Him and Make Him Happy - the unchanging truth. Let's talk to him, maybe it helps.

I'm a woman, and I can't sympathize with you! Give him some space! It's precious to charge it once in a while! If you want to get away with it! Men eat this set!

What you can't change, if you change it, it doesn't necessarily improve you, how painful it is to change for a person, you have to be your true self!

He doesn't like you anymore, give up.

Learn the lesson and don't make the same mistake again.

1.Adjust your emotions, don't be too affected by this friend's language, we can't change others, but we can adjust ourselves, the self in other people's mouths is not the real self.

2.He Qingwu accompanied his friend to clearly express his dissatisfaction, and asked him not to belittle you everywhere like this next time, because this is no longer a joke, it is a verbal attack, and it has made you feel uncomfortable.

3.Re-evaluate your friend, whether you need to continue to have a deep relationship, and if it is not necessary, then stay away from him, because the person who brings you harm and does not take into account your feelings is not a friend.

Our baby has had this situation before, but his fingering behavior is divided into situations. In our family, if he is concentrating on doing things, he may not respond to you immediately, if his mother calls, he may respond to you, if it is someone else, he really doesn't hear it. I was also confused at one point, this is not the way to go, it has no respect for the rest of the family, and in the long run, it may make the child feel that no one else in the family is important except for the mother.

That's when I realized how serious this was happening.

Change requires all aspects of the matter, and the results need to be patiently waited.

1. Self-reflection.

After the child appeared in this state of screaming and not responding, I actually subconsciously reflected on it, because this is what I usually do, especially when my father calls me, I will be arrogant and not respond, in fact, this subconsciously gives the child a bad impression. Let your child think that it is okay not to respond to other people's calls, and let your child think that this is the right thing. Later, I also made a change from myself, and every time someone called me, I deliberately responded loudly, no matter whether the impact I brought to the child was the main factor, I would try to change.

2. Corresponding punishments.

At first, I was verbally corrected in the face of this kind of problem, because I didn't want to interrupt his rhythm when he was focusing on something, but then I found that the situation was getting more and more serious, so I directly blamed him harshly, but this kind of thing can not be corrected overnight, in fact, the age of three years old is not up or down, and some of the child's receptivity is not as strong as we imagined, so the effect of hard accusation is not great, and he can only know that his mother murdered him, and the reason may be remembered, or may not be remembered.

3. Get used to life.

In the process of parenting, I will choose to train for a certain item in stages, just like this question called not responding, during that time, this problem is the object I focus on observing. I will carry this question through to every possible opportunity to explain to him whether this is wrong, including storytelling in the evening, including bedtime chats; Try to tell him what to do to be respectful, and sometimes I think he may not even understand what "respect" is.

Summary: There will be unexpected situations at every stage of the child, and the words and deeds of our family members will become an example for the child to learn, good or bad, he has no ability to distinguish, and for us we can only find and correct in time. This is a problem that needs to be addressed slowly, and being too anxious will only do more harm than good.

We must learn to take it step by step, not to be in a hurry, but to influence him with actions.

I think your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings, probably because he doesn't realize that you have to take care of your feelings. It's like a child doesn't say hello to an adult, probably because the adult hasn't told the child that he should say hello when he meets so-and-so.

So you calm down first, talk to your boyfriend about it, and ask him if he can think about himself when doing things. After all, falling in love is a matter of two people, and if you talk about falling in love, you should also think about the respondent and compare your heart with your heart.

A good boyfriend is cultivated by a girlfriend, come on. After you tell him about it, as long as he can realize his mistake, then Peng Zheng Mo will slowly correct it. I wish you all the best in your relationship.