Should she be punished Is this punishment useful?

The thing is that you told your family, and the girl is willing to marry you because she really loves you, and even lies to force you to get married. Girls have used all the tricks for you to go down the road like this, and you ask questions to make such a title so that I don't know what to say about you. Although I don't know what your economic conditions are, the girl is willing to marry you when she knows that there is such a cancer father-in-law in your family, obviously taking into account the ** expenses that will be incurred after establishing a family in the future.

A girl is 26 and is not married, she is also under pressure at home, any accident may happen if she is not married, and there are no longer a few feelings that should be dragged and blown away. Now it is not easy for a man to find a good woman to marry, and since you didn't say anything about her obvious shortcomings, then I think you should cherish it. In ancient times, there was a saying about joy, as soon as you get married, the family will be happy, your father's illness will be much easier, and there is hope for holding a grandson or something, what a good marriage, bless you!

...Forgive、It can only prove that she loves you very much.,So it's going to force you.、If you don't love you.,You've already left because of your family.

You better face yourself first, if you really like her, catch her, true love will be with you for a lifetime.

Hehe, this is your fault, in fact, the girl has been with you for so long, and she is older, so if you want to have a family, isn't it to get married?

I would like to ask why you feel that the conditions are not ripe or something. I think this girl has known you for so long, and must know about your family's situation, such as your father's illness or something. In such a situation, I always want to be with you, how much she loves you.

A woman who is willing to go through the ups and downs with you in difficult times, why do you keep rejecting her.

I hope you can discuss your concerns with her. If you are really ready to be with her for the rest of your life, you should both be considerate of each other. Be considerate of the troubles in your heart, and be considerate of the anxiety of love in her heart.

Your love is very precious, it's normal to be a little contradictory now, calm down and think about it, do you want to go on with her? Think! Let's take care of your business. Bless you all!

Landlord, you deserve to be punished!

This is a woman's careful thinking, don't think about it, she has no malicious intent.

Scheming girl.。。 If you think it's really good for you. Dead hearted. You get married. But I don't think she'll ever live with you for the rest of her life.

This matter is your own fault, you didn't communicate well. She still loves you, and doing this is for you!

Remember, the idea of this punishment is bad!

Do you know the Seven Wounds Fist? Before hurting others, hurt yourself first, don't use it!

No, it's a girl, after all.

Friend, you don't need to punish her, I think there are some things that you just haven't thought through right now. A love can last for 5 years in this era, so you can see that you are both in love with each other, and it is very deep. First of all, you have to understand why your girlfriend is making up such lies.

The reason is that her heart is unstable, you just need to have a good talk with your girlfriend, I think it should be easy to solve. Open your heart to your girlfriend, and also talk to your parents, so that your parents can rest assured, and your girlfriend can rest assured. Take good care of your love.

No matter what, she loves you and wants to marry you. But I have to say that she is a scheming woman.

buzhi, how are you going to punish her, let your parents know the truth, it's too late to surprise.

This is how love does not stand the test! If you can, it's better to finish it early! If you drag it any longer, something will definitely go wrong!!

I think she still loves you, because the girl's youth is limited, and she will be very anxious when she is 26 years old. This way she can have a guarantee and you can rest assured. You can go talk to her.

Even if a child loves to watch TV, it can be difficult for them to stay in front of the TV if they are asked to watch TV all night or do nothing at all. So I personally think that this parent in Hunan will let the child dress up and watch TV at midnight, and the other party will definitely not feel very happy, and even a little tormented. The real happiness is not watching TV, but maintaining a relaxed mind in the process Recall that everyone feels happy when they go home every day, even if they are just lying on the sofa, because their bodies and minds are completely relaxed.

Therefore, once you turn something into a task or a requirement, no matter how happy you used to be, you will only feel very stressed now, and it will be difficult for you to experience the fun again. A typical example is games, ordinary people are addicted to playing games, even to the point of forgetting to sleep and eat. But like some e-sports players, the most annoying thing for them is probably playing games, because doing this the whole person is not in a relaxed state, but in a tense state that must complete the task, in the long run, how can the whole person feel happy?

The way this parent in Hunan educates her children is really special. When other adults find that their children like to watch TV so much, they may directly take away the remote control, or they may directly beat each other, like a broken jar, let him watch enough at one time, which is rare. In fact, this method is still very effective, and in a highly tense environment, everything will become a torment.

The parent saw this and gave the child an alternative "punishment". At present, the effect is more obvious, and the child may not be as addicted to watching TV as before in the future. But this practice is not worth advocating, after all, forcing a child to watch TV all night is very harmful to his body.

As a parent, you still have to rely on more reasonable and effective ways to educate your children.

Useless. The parents' approach is a bit excessive, and even thinks that the parents are a bit extreme, and you can know that this kind of punishment is very difficult for him by looking at the girl's performance. Isn't this nonsense?

It is common for children to "not do their homework well", but how should parents deal with this situation correctly?

First of all, parents should understand that it is normal for their children to be disobedient, treat this phenomenon reasonably, adjust their own state of mind and emotions, and avoid solving problems in anger, so as not to say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing, which will cause harm to the relationship between the child and the parent.

Second, parents should find a suitable way of reward and punishment for their children, the purpose of punishment is not to end mistakes, but to guide children to realize and correct mistakes.

Finally, after the child has been punished, parents should have a good talk with the child calmly, understand the child's inner feelings, and give comfort in a timely manner, so as to resolve the child's negative emotions and let the child understand the parents' true intentions. If the child is disobedient, the parents will inevitably come up with corresponding measures, or education or punishment, as long as it is suitable for the child and has good results for the growth of the student, they can try, but the growth is a compulsory course for the child and the parents, and the parents should also follow the child's growth and change the educational strategy, do not stick to the rules, because the best way is to teach the hidden material.