People who hate dorms keep showing off like this, what should I do

Maybe it has something to do with her personality There are two ways to either ignore her and interject and say something else, or just compare yourself with her You can also count what you're afraid of Yonghe She has to sit for half an hour in the car and talk a lot Tired or not.

Hehe, let me say 2 sentences, if you live together as 2 people? If it's just the two of you, you should praise him hard, and it's best to praise him as the kind that is rare in heaven and rare on earth, so that he will feel bored after a long time. But be careful, you must be serious when you say it, otherwise he will think that you are here to sarcastically mock him, which will cause conflict.

If you live with a few people, hehe, then you can start it, ignore it collectively, don't pick him up, what should you do. o(∩_o...

Good luck and a good mood

Learn to be calm So what, he does earn more than you The fact that the troubles are halved.

And then you have to adjust your mentality, you have to improve your self-cultivation, so it's still calm... Actually, there's no trick, and this kind of thing has to do with your temper.

If you are more bullish, hang him, and if you can't do it, be silent.

Ignore such a person, even if you are angry, you will not show it. A few times this he won't be like this. What kind of psychology is this kind of person, that is, to show off being beautiful and good, the best way is to ignore it. If you don't bird him, he won't bother you anymore.

Put the mentality in a balanced way, it's all a dormitory, how he likes to show off let him show off, do his own things well, and enrich himself!

Summary. For students, moving out of the dormitory may be the most direct way, but it is recommended not to move out of the dormitory for this kind of thing, because when you enter the society, in work and life, you may encounter similar situations, so you must learn to adapt, and occasionally think that there are two more key points, first of all, to be self-centered, establish what you want to do, there is something to do, naturally the degree of concern about interpersonal relationships will be small, and secondly, you must understand that interaction with him is inevitable, so if you really can't accept the other party, Try to accommodate each other, and try not to set up an opposition to yourself.

What to do if there are classmates in the dorm who hate you.

Do you hate you, or do you hate him?

It was I who hated me because the other classmate hated her first, and then she hated me.

For students, moving out of the dormitory may be the most direct way, but it is recommended not to move out of the dormitory for this kind of thing, because when you enter the society, in work and life, you may encounter similar situations, so you must learn to adapt, and occasionally think that there are two more key points, first of all, to be self-centered, establish what you want to do, there is something to do, naturally the degree of concern about interpersonal relationships will be small, and secondly, you must understand that interaction with him is inevitable, so if you really can't accept the other party, Try to accommodate each other, and try not to set up an opposition to yourself.

What if I talk about me in the back because I hate it?

If there are many times, it is recommended to find him directly to understand, if there is any dissatisfaction, say it face-to-face, and move to the dormitory after speaking.

But moving out of the dormitory will be said to be unaffordable?

Just pick it out with her first, and then show that I really can't stand you and don't want to see you.

You have to talk first, talk about your dissatisfaction with each other, and if you disagree in the end, move to the dormitory.

Out of sight is out of sight.

Everyone who has lived in a school dormitory knows that there will be problems in the dormitory to some extent. The dormitory in high school was fine, after all, it was basically people from the surrounding area, maybe just people from the next village or the next town, and there was not much difference in everyone's customs and habits. However, it is different when you arrive at the university, where most of the dormitories are made up of people from all over the world.

Different provinces, different urban areas in the same province, but even if they are in the same urban area, everyone's living habits and behavior will be different, which is the root of the dormitory problem.

The behavior of some roommates is really incomprehensible and unacceptable, and gradually it becomes annoying.

1. Selfish people who don't know how to consider other people's feelings

What are these people like? After the lights go out at night, everyone is ready to rest, and they are still chatting with themselves, even if they don't go to find a quiet place, they don't lower their volume, and they don't think about others to rest and can't be disturbed, sometimes others still turn on the lights when they are resting, just care about their own comfort in doing things, and don't consider whether it will affect others.

2. Take the enthusiastic help of others for granted

Being able to be assigned to the same dormitory shows that everyone is fateful, since they are roommates, it's actually nothing to help each other, this time you help me shout in class, and next time I will help you go to the cafeteria to eat. But often there are some people who only know how to take, but do not know how to return, and regard other people's feelings as the other party's duty. Once the other person does not meet their needs, they will get angry, as if the other party has done something wrong and they are the right party.

This kind of person is not worthy of what others have to pay for them all the time.

3. People who do not pay attention to hygiene

The dormitory is actually a common area, a place where everyone lives together, in addition to their own personal area, it is more of a place for everyone to use together. But some people are just weird and don't pay attention to hygiene. Of course, you can do whatever you want in your own area, and others can't control it, but if you don't pay attention to the common area, it's really uncomfortable and bad to live.

I think it's always calculating, unreasonable, and loves to nag and take advantage of others.

arrogant and domineering, no one in sight. Such people are often self-righteous, arrogant, self-centered, and prone to arouse the disgust of others.

The subject has annoying people in the dormitory, but others don't hate it, and Juesen still has a good time, so the subject is currently speaking, I don't know what to do, it's more tangled, anxious, and helpless. Well, I feel this mood of yours, and here, I want to send a big hug to the subject. The subject's current situation is not omenous, because it is not a party, there may be some places where the understanding is not necessarily consistent with the subject, so the subject can be used as a reference.

I want to know what is the specific place where the subject hates this roommate, that is, where or what behavior makes the subject feel annoying? What was the initial trigger, have you talked about it, and is it really unlikely that you will change each other? We don't know much about these situations, so as the subject, you can think about it yourself.

In psychology, we have a defense mechanism called projection, that is, we are not very satisfied with our own things, projected onto others, so that we can not get along with ourselves, this is a relatively complex mechanism, the subject can think about a question, why don't others hate this roommate, I really hate this roommate or don't like a certain part of my own inner or thought. You can also communicate with other friends to see if there are any misunderstandings. In addition, if you really can't get along with this roommate, can you discuss with the counselor to adjust the dormitory and change the environment, which may be beneficial for you and the roommate.

Finally, the subject can turn to the school counselor, and as far as I know, it is generally free, where the subject can explore himself in a safe, holding environment. As the subject said, low self-esteem, arrogance, and the problem of getting along with others, which may take a process and time. I want to say that on the road of growth, there will be problems, and it is good to go through them.