I like him very much, but I know that puppy love is not good, so I want to share it with him

Life is long, you can go on like this.

As long as it doesn't interfere with your studies.

Your future, take care of yourself, there are many loves around me that have been successful since junior high school.

You can support each other.

You're still young. Parents may not necessarily agree.

I guess you parents don't know either, but sometimes simple feelings are very valuable.

Bless you all.

In fact, whether early love is good or not is not absolute.

It depends on a person's perseverance, endurance, and resistance!

If you can motivate each other, maybe you can both get into a better university, and it would be the best of both worlds!

If you have made up your mind, I think you should tell him in a clever way, tactfully.

Don't let him be sad!

I really want to bless you guys!

Puppy love refers to the establishment of a romantic relationship between an underage man and a woman, usually with primary and secondary school students. But there are also people who believe that all relationships before college are puppy love.

Early love is regarded as a flood beast by parents, as long as a little sign is found, it is like facing a great enemy, trying every means to stop, persuade, and guide.

Is puppy love really that scary? If you don't have the right cognition and good self-control, early love really has the potential to affect your life. Parents oppose early love, not because they are conservative in their thinking, but because they are sincerely thinking about their children's future.

Love is romantic and charming, adolescent children are full of curiosity about love, and it is easy to be attracted to the opposite sex at a certain inadvertent moment, and have feelings of admiration. However, there are many drawbacks of early love, if you don't realize it, if others don't wake up, you are likely to go astray, cause bitter fruits, and regret it for a lifetime.

So, what are the disadvantages of early love?

1. Early love is distracted, affecting studies, wasting youth, and ruining the future.

We often say that you can't use one mind for the other. As a student, the first task is to study, if you have more thoughts, your attention will inevitably be distracted, and your grades will inevitably decline. Even those who excel in their studies and have top-notch grades may not be able to devote themselves to their studies because of early love, so that they cannot perform normally in the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination.

In the past, in our class, the girl with the best grades and the boy with the best grades fell in love, and the two met every day and wrote letters to each other.

At that time, it was the third year of junior high school, and because of early love, neither of them passed the high school entrance examination, and everyone felt sorry for them. What's even more regrettable is that neither of them repeated, nor did they go to other schools, so they went to work together, and it didn't take long for the two to get married, and they were not yet of the legal age for marriage at that time.

If it weren't for early love, they should be able to be admitted to high school, and then to college, and their lives would be different.

Second, early love is easy to hurt, easy to be disappointed in feelings, and thus make unwise choices.

At the age when love first blooms, the heart is extremely unstable, and it is easy to like a person, and it is easy to dislike a person. But if you still like someone very much, but that person no longer likes you, then it is inevitable that you will be hurt, and you may even stop believing in love because of this, and become casual in later relationships.

A reader told me that she was in early love in junior high school, but the boy empathized and fell in love, she was deeply hurt and disheartened, and after graduation, she went to a strange city alone, where she met a suitor, in order to be angry, she easily gave herself away, and later had children, so she had to get married. Over the years, life has passed without salt or light, and I always feel that something is missing. But now that the dust has settled, what can she do?

Because of early love, I was deeply hurt, and it was so unwise to be so hasty in the face of marriage.

Speaking of this topic, I am reminded of the debate tournament we organized when I was in college: Is it right or wrong to fall in love when I was a student?

At that time, our team was divided into two groups, Party A was single, and Party B was targeted!

The debate tournament is on!

Debate Goal for Party A: Students should not fall in love for the following reasons:

Students are not supposed to be in a relationship.

Students falling in love can affect their studies.

This development process has not been achieved during the student period, and early love will affect the physical and mental health of students.

Students should focus on their studies, in case of falling out of love, it will have a great impact on students' lives and studies.

The general outcome of early love is not optimistic, and learning with peace of mind is the right way!

Many classmates are in early love, are they in love or love?

But now many people yearn for this stage of affection, but in the process of being a student, parents and teachers are against such behavior. However, no matter how much you try to stop it at school, it is almost impossible to stop junior high school students from yearning for love. At a stage like junior high school students, everyone's psychological development is not very mature, so they don't know what love is.

So are they really together for love? The senior sister is talking about these three truths. It's true.

Don't you know you've been tricked?

Influenced by TV series.

In fact, people often watch some idol dramas now. In such a process, we can find that the relationship between the hero and heroine in the play is very beautiful, but the vast majority of film and television works are virtual environments, so there is no such a very beautiful emotional state in real life. So when they were in junior high school, if they watched some of these movies and TV series, it would have a great impact on their psychology, and even driven by the TV series, they would have the urge to try their feelings.

Therefore, under the influence of external factors, puppy love is not surprising at all.

Curiosity. <>

In middle school, most people go through puberty. Everyone's curiosity about new things is different, so I usually take on challenges. Especially when parents and teachers strongly oppose it, curiosity will be stronger, so the idea of early love will arise after excessive communication.

But even if the two of them have been pestering each other, they don't necessarily know what feelings are.

Find a top student. <>

In school, although everyone yearns for affection, academic performance is the most important consideration. Therefore, most junior high school students will worship Xueba when they start their early love. If two people worship more and more, there will be a feeling of love for each other, so it is quite real to fall in love with each other early, but definitely not just for the sake of being together for the sake of emotional attitude.

I don't know what everyone thinks. Let's discuss.

Of course, it's a good feeling. Young children don't know what love is at all, they just like each other.

It's divided into age stages, junior high school students are ignorant, they don't know what feelings are at all, and they don't know what they want, this is a good feeling. When I got to high school, I didn't seem to understand it, and I didn't know what I wanted, but there was a taste of love in it.

The good thing is that you know very early what it feels like to like a person, and the bad thing is that your scholar's grandson may be wasted, and the society you know doesn't have a diploma and it's really not good for Zen branches.

Believe me, it's far better to like it silently than to pick it out.

Puppy love is not good. Because puppy love can affect our learning. The emotions between male and female students need to be treated carefully and handled rationally.

It was a beautiful mistake, I also had a puppy love, but it was divided.

Grit your teeth and give up!!

Because you are still young in early love, you don't know what true love is. As a student, you should study hard, and early love is the wrong behavior.

When you really feel that you can't let go, think about your parents, they are so hard to earn money for you to study, and you choose early love, which is undoubtedly living up to your parents' expectations of you. Think again, your teacher. They teach you knowledge every day and every night, but in exchange for your slippery and slippery grades because of early love.

Do you think this is worthy of your teacher?

If you can't do it, you just think about yourself, from croaking to babbling, to finally, toddler. That's how you grew up, and the first thing you did in life was to go to school, which was to improve your grades. You have been in school for so many years, but now you have given up so many years of hard work for the sake of a boy you like, do you think it is worth it?

I hope that a little boy will not become a stumbling block on your learning path, and I don't want a little boy to ruin your life. When you are still reluctant to give up, you should know which is more important and weigh it yourself. Whether to choose the early love that both parents and teachers oppose, or to choose to continue their study career and sympathize with their parents.

Life is still a long way to go, how can you be sure that the little boy you are facing now is your true love? The world is so big, you haven't had time to see it, there are so many handsome guys, you haven't had time to take a look. How can you be sure that he will like you in the future?

You are a child, and he is also a child, so his mind is not yet mature, just like you, because puberty is coming and he wants to fall in love! So you both started a journey of love.

But now, you know that early love affects learning, but you still have to persevere. Just made a hasty decision not to let go, which is a bit too abrupt! You need to think twice before you do things.

Now you will be faced with two choices, one is your own future, and the other is to choose early love. It is not until I look back at my choices many years later that I will realize how naïve I am. Don't think about doing stupid things when you're immature, because when you grow up in the future, it's too late to regret it.

You must always be aware that the opposition of your parents and teachers is for your own good. I hope you can study without distractions and climb out of the love network as soon as possible.

Child! Don't interfere with your studies anymore. Because your efforts at this time will determine your future. Don't stupidly hitch a ride on your future because of early love. I hope you can give up, study hard, live up to expectations, and create brilliance.

It's easier said than done to ask you to give up.

When I was in high school, I liked a guy very much. I know he likes me too.

But there is no way, I am not sure if if I really am with him will affect my studies.

After all, I still want to go to college, and I don't want to delay him from going to college. So I never said it, and he never said it.

I like him so much that I haven't been willing to cut off contact with him. It's just that we don't have that kind of reputation, so there's a lot less mess.

I have been an ordinary friend for a few years without affecting each other. We all finally went to college. And then we were together.

It doesn't matter if you're in junior high school or high school right now, puppy love is not right. You don't have to delay your future for the sake of an impulsive thought you had when you were younger.

If your love can really last until that day, of course, it will be the best outcome.

If you can't make it to that day, in the process, your grades will not go down, but will go up, even if you really can't be together, there is nothing to lose for the two of you.

If he doesn't like you, then you can't chase him, fall in love, and then affect your studies. You're the only one ruining it. There is no need.

I really agree that you don't establish a relationship just yet, and don't do anything too intimate.

Start with good friends, accompany each other, make an appointment to work together, and wait until you get to college to get together, which should become a good story.

If you really like him, then work hard for him, and if he is very good, try to be on par with him; If he's not good enough, you're going to be good. Even if he doesn't achieve anything, you can help him.

I think if you fall in love, it's really easy to affect your studies when your mind is not very mature, and if the two of you can have the same goal of being admitted to some good universities or something, that's not bad.

Says who?! There are also good ones to learn! If early love develops, there will be many people who will get married and start a family in the future! If the development is not good, it is also common to break up directly! The key is your planning and motivation!

Not all puppy love is bad for learning, it depends on the person. Some can promote each other's learning, but generally early love has no results, after all, there are too many forks in the road. (The feelings that stick to it will be very deep).

Not necessarily. It seems that the top students in the college entrance examination of a certain university are lovers.

It's all about people.

The two have bad grades. That must not be good.

The two of them have good grades. Right.

Not very good, not recommended, but there are a few cases that are mutually progressive.

No, someone doesn't have a young love, and his studies are not good.

It's pretty much the same, it's all bad kids who fall in love.

Not necessarily, there are also good ones.