Should you keep waiting? Or should something be done?

Updated on society 2024-05-13
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He told me that he once had enough money to buy me a jade pendant, and he ended up paying for the journey, and he said that he had walked a long way back from the station.

    I want to ask you, have you received this jade pendant... If not, then why believe him.

    He can't help you when his life is at stake, and you still want him to help you, and he doesn't want to think about it, if he comes up with money to help your mother now, your mother may not accept him because of this, and he hates your mother so much, do you think that if you can get married, can he be good to your mother, you don't want to marry someone, don't want your mother, he may really love you, but he is really immature, your mother doesn't like him, and she is protecting you, of course your mother wants you to marry well For him, since he knows that he is not liked by his mother, he should try his best to let his mother see his goodness, let his mother feel that he loves you, and he can be good to you for a lifetime, instead of blindly contradicting and even hating, does he still want your mother to die? If he really thinks like that, don't you think it's terrible, don't you think that one day in the future, if you go against his will, he will come and hate you? He may not be stingy, but he has been carried away by hatred, and he can't think maturely about hating, and you should talk to him, tell him not to hate, and two people work together to make your mother understand you and accept you, and he treats the problem like this is also an escape, if you still want to be good with him, you have to solve the problem, if he really loves you, you should be brave to face it, to solve it, if he still hates your mother Even if you get married, you won't get your mother's blessing, do you want that? Maybe you should really calm down.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, you have been breaking up for more than half a year, borrowing money from him at this time, are you doing the right thing, no matter how urgent you are, he has no obligation to lend you money, and the relationship between you is gone a year ago. Don't count on anything.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm also stingy. The main reason for stinginess is the lack of money. I'm two people, rich and not.

    I wonder if that's the case with your boyfriend? When your boyfriend really can't get money, the time can only be perfunctory. I don't know if he's like that, you can test him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does he contact you often? Do you believe him? Does he really love you? Did you promise to wait for him? If you do it all. Should wait.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whatever the reason, human lives are at stake!! is the most important !!

    If your boyfriend is willing to take 5000 to save your mother, I believe that your mother will not stop you if she knows about it, but on the other hand, if you are unwilling, it means that your mother's idea is right, and your boyfriend is a cold-blooded mongrel at all!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you still love him and believe in him, you should keep waiting.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    $5,000 is nothing for a rich man.

    But for someone who hasn't worked yet, it's a lot of money unless you ask your family to borrow it.

    You'll want to figure out if your boyfriend can afford to come up with the money.

    People say he's stingy, but it's not necessarily true, because the poor are so generous.

    You have to find out if he has the money to help you.

    If he really has the money, but he won't help you, it's stupid, because it's a good opportunity to settle his grudge with your mother, and if he doesn't do it, it's a waste of opportunity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, you have to make sure that what he said is true, and you ask him where the gift is.

    Besides, when we were in junior high school, we were all immature.

    Therefore, the mental aspect is also fragile.

    It's not wrong to say that he hates your mother.

    But the person who knows him is always yourself.

    Except for his own parents.

    The person he knows best is his lover, which is you.

    He is not stingy.

    So many years you yourself have feelings, for which you should know your choice.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Take good care of your mother

    If he just doesn't pay attention to your mom because of what he did before, do you think your mom will be nice to him even if the two of you are together? He doesn't try to change the impression in your mother's mind, then if you stick to the end

    Now what you have to do is not to talk about the relationship with him, but to cherish the mother who takes care of you, and I hope you understand what I said

    May your mother be soon**

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe he really has a reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Very simple. If you like him.

    Think he's worth it for you.

    You just wait for him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think there's something wrong with him, too! Maybe you really hate your mom a little!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A lot of times, it's waiting, waiting for a person, waiting for a moment, waiting for a cycle.

    Very few people like to be alone, and even fewer are alone in everything they do, and they will wait for someone to go with when they do something, and wait for someone who has a common language for a long time. What are you waiting for?

    The day is divided into different moments and different things. Sometimes what you do is what you think in your heart, and sometimes you don't want to do it, so you look forward to it and wait for it to pass soon. It has passed, it will begin, and tomorrow, next year, or even more distant days will pass in various states.

    The past time is connected with the growth of life, day and night alternate, nebulae change, life is also changing, becoming thoughtful, learning more, thinking more. Watching, discovering, planning, waiting.

    Like a person, it may not be suitable now, the environment, values, and attitude towards life are different, and gender also determines the distinction of responsibilities. Like a thing, it may not be suitable, at the moment can not afford or more consideration of cost performance and needs, waiting, hard to save money, only a few days, I don't like it so much, if it is not for the connection with other and familiar things, maybe you can't remember what you want him when you want it most, and the favorite may just be an illusion caused by hallucinations.

    When you are weak, you feel helpless, not because of the inconsiderate nature of others, but because of your own shyness and unspeakableness. Asking others to help you, that person doesn't necessarily take into account your feelings, and invisibly causes harm, but it is imminent, and when you can't help yourself, many things have lost their principles and become infinitely tolerant.

    Many simple things contain too many complex things, not because they are complicated, but because the consequences will cause many problems, and eventually form new problems, and finally they must be constrained by regulations. Everything in the world is not absolutely consciously in accordance with the law, and there is always disobedience. If there is an absolute will, there will be no contradiction.

    Sometimes, too childish persistence, too persistent arguments, too rash denials, in fact, they don't care, if you ask why such a debate started, I am afraid that I will not find the answer after thinking hard. Reason is sometimes an afterthought.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There will be, but fate has not arrived, I believe you will be able to find a happiness of your own. Bless you!!

    In fact, the road of waiting is a difficult and slow road, and it is an endless road.

    What is waiting? It is the most fervent hope and the most sincere wish. Just like a person, no matter how different paths you have taken, you always have to give an account to the world when you are mature.

    How many people are worth waiting for, how many people can wait, maybe no one knows, maybe you will choose to give up, if the person you are waiting for is worth your wait, then, of course, you should wait, this kind of waiting also sets off a source of courage and strength, true love has no regrets. If it's not worth your wait, maybe that kind of waiting will not have results at all, then there is no need to wait, why bother to wait on the way to wait, waste your life, maybe it will make you pay a heavy price, isn't it worth it, will it be stupid, why bother so persistently? Why bother yourself?

    It's better to wake up a little earlier, and miss the flowers will reap the rain. Cherish life and cherish yourself.

    Waiting for a result is a blessing, but I'm afraid that some of the waiting is far away, maybe you have waited for a lifetime without results, but don't be sad, an unknown vision, although there is no appointment, this is also a kind of happiness and joy.

    Some waits may have results, some waits can also make people feel regretful, maybe empty joy, maybe sad life, maybe it will make a person crazy, maybe all you have experienced along the way is a lonely long journey and a lot of scars all over your body. A person may lose everything in order to wait for someone, and even pay the price and life of a lifetime.

    In fact, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, people's fate and fate are doomed, disobey can't, force can't come, no one's soul will always be spotless, people's hearts are unpredictable, changeable, the world is unpredictable, everything is still fate, so at least you won't let yourself get hurt.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Just ask him, it's not a month or two to love someone, maybe he doesn't love you at all, he just owes you too much and is embarrassed, maybe he said that he couldn't forget his former girlfriend just an excuse.

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