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From common sense, when you go to a wedding, you have to prepare a little light. But it depends on whether you are still in school, if you are still in school and have no regular income, as a classmate, you can not give it, if you are still in high school, you don't need to give gifts. It's okay not to send it when you go to college, but it won't be too polite, and you'll feel embarrassed.

Therefore, choose a little gift according to your actual situation, and choose a gift according to your relationship. People like us in the countryside are not as rich as people in the city, and I think it is enough to send something for 100 to 200 yuan. Although it seems that 100,200 yuan is very cheap, for this amount may be half a month's living expenses.

So start according to your actual situation. I'm sure my friends don't care about anything. If you really want to go to a friend's wedding, but he doesn't invite you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't want to invite you, maybe he has neglected you for some reason, then you can remind him in a joking tone.

Don't be an uninvited guest, you might both be embarrassed. Thank you

Of course not, they just give a full moon red envelope when their child is born, but since I came to play with you this time, I must invite someone to have a good meal.

Personally, I don't think it's necessary, it's almost the same for a meal, but if people have children or something, please estimate that you have to wrap a bigger red envelope.

Don't, you can wait for him to have a child in the future and give it to the child as a greeting gift.

No need, it's all from last year, why do you mention it, people have forgotten.

This is a friend who doesn't care about it.,Please have a meal and it's OK.。

If the relationship is good, it will be meaningful! If it's a general relationship, it's meaningless!

The friendship between classmates is pure and flawless! Ten years of cold windows in the same room, in the common study, unity and friendship to help each other at the same time, there is a certain understanding of each other, so it can be said that the classmates have a fate to become husband and wife, that is, a pair of mandarin ducks. This classmate, congratulations on your good luck and fortune in the New Year.

Male classmates send you red envelopes, which means that you are popular, and some people can still think of you during the Chinese New Year. Because it is a classmate relationship, you are equal, and it is a friendship between pure classmates who love and help each other. People respect me for a foot, I respect a clever person, at least I have to be courteous.

Look at the red envelopes that were sent. It doesn't matter if it is of special significance, and you don't want to honor the clan law, then send it back. In fact, it is better if you don't receive it.

Listen to your tone, your male classmate has feelings for you, but you are not interested in him, wouldn't it be better if you don't accept this red envelope. Now I am in a dilemma, even if I return to the poster, I may not accept it. So, no postbacks, that's all.

Sending WeChat red envelopes during the Chinese New Year is actually a kind of heart, someone can think of you, which is a kind of happiness in itself, and you are troubled by this matter, but you can't do it. If the elders give red envelopes to the juniors, then it doesn't hurt to receive them, and now the uncle who sells roasted sweet potatoes under the overpass has paid on WeChat, and there is nothing wrong with using red envelopes for New Year's money.

This is really nerve-wracking, I also face such a problem this year, others sent me 200, I am entangled in whether to receive or not to receive, and then 200 back and forth feel very boring, not to receive and feel not very good. In the end, I gave her back the yuan. This is not only a little more than hers (although not much), but also happens to be 2018, a bit of an allegorical meaning!

If the red envelope is just to please you, then you still don't accept the red envelope. If it's just to express your heart, you can return a bigger red envelope to him, it doesn't have to be too big, so that it looks like you want to show off. Personally, I think it's ......The New Year's picture is a festive, and the red envelope is also for the sake of festivity, but I personally don't recommend a bigger one, because that would violate the meaning of the picture itself, and thus fall into a strange circle, I will find a suitable opportunity to return it in two days, but the celebration will not increase the red envelope (of course, the local tyrant can choose to ignore it).

See how you feel about your relationship with him. I don't want to go back and forth in the future. He didn't come or give a gift last time you got married, which means that he doesn't seem to be taking you seriously in his heart.

If someone else does the first year of junior high school, you will do fifteen. But if you feel that he will be useful in the future, and that he is still worthy of being your friend, you can go. If you go, remember to tell him that he didn't come to the party when you got married, but you came when he got married.

It's a wake-up call for him.

If you don't want to go, don't go, just make an excuse. For example, if you have a relative getting married on the same day, you have to attend the wedding over there, and of course you don't have to go with the ceremony.

So your problem is that your classmate got married, so when you got married, he didn't come, and he didn't wrap gifts, so what about this time? He called you, so are you going?

So there is a saying in China called courtesy and exchange, so I personally think that since you got married, he didn't come, and you didn't come, so I personally think that you definitely don't want to go this time, don't worry about you? Don't worry, what is this? It's good to be over, because he doesn't see you as a friend, does he?

Then you don't want to treat him as a friend, this means that the courtesy is still exchanged, right?

It stands to reason that he shouldn't have called you, because when you called him, he didn't come, right? What else does he have to call you? So you don't have to remember, this kind of friend is dispensable, and it's okay if you don't have it.

The above is a personal answer to your question, I hope it can be helpful to you, and I hope you can adopt it.

Finally, I wish you good health, happiness, good luck and all the best.