Living in the two places, the relationship is not as good as before, how to maintain your feelings?

Updated on society 2024-05-03
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Nowadays, long-distance relationships are actually a headache for couples, Many long-distance relationships will eventually break up, how to maintain their feelings, through understanding, share the following methods with you.

    1. Frequently create small surprises. Don't think that only girls like little surprises, and boys are the same. Girls will be moved by their boyfriends quietly buying lipstick, and boys will also be moved by the scarves that girls knit for themselves.

    I have a couple in a long-distance relationship who often create small surprises for each other, so they are still in a good relationship.

    2. Be considerate of each other. The most common tool for long-distance couples to contact their relationship is **and**, however, because of many reasons such as busy work, many couples are not able to **and** every day, it may be **or** in the process of having to hang up because of one thing**. Many girls are more suspicious and wonder if there is something wrong with their boyfriend, so they have less contact with themselves.

    Over time, there were more quarrels, the feelings faded, and finally they broke up.

    Therefore, the most important thing that a long-distance relationship needs is understanding. Girls should understand the hard work of boys and do a good job of a stable rear, so that boys will have more energy to work hard in order to give girls a future.

    3. Have faith in your future. Many people in long-distance relationships are actually not so confident about their future, because geographical differences are the biggest problem between them. At this time, both parties should have more confidence in each other, believing that you can finally get married and have children.

    The current remote location is only a very short time, and the future life is still very long. Boys should work harder to make girls believe that you have a future, instead of denying your feelings all day long.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can usually create some small surprises, and you have to be considerate of each other in order to maintain your feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to go to a place to live, or break up early.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think about your bright future, and usually be more considerate and trust each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If this relationship is not maintained, it will definitely break up in the end.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, it is inevitable that the relationship between the two places will fade.

    I'm about to change my life between the two places! My boyfriend was admitted to Tianjin and was going to stay there for three years, and I had to work in Shenyang. For the long three years, I have no confidence at all.

    But I love him and he loves me. If it is for tenacious love, the separation of the two places is not a pull.

    I have a friend, one at home and one abroad. The house has been dismantled for five years, but it has not been dismantled, and not long ago the girl came back, and the two got married. This is also two places, and this is also love!

    So we must have faith in ourselves, in another person, and in the feelings of two people. If you don't have faith, who else can you believe?

    My determination is to never give up on him until he gives up on me! If the road is blocked, there will naturally be no change!

    It is not easy to meet a person who loves himself and himself, cherish it, good things are grinding, I hope our happiness can come sooner!

    Bless you and bless myself!

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