A habit that needs to be solved urgently, a problem that needs to be solved urgently!

It doesn't matter if you change it or not. The bar is not carried by one person. If they don't like you to raise the bar, they won't play with you for a long time, and what kind of friends are they doing.

Besides, more is better than less. People who talk too little, introverts, and don't have many friends. So, cherish your eloquence.

Use him in the right place, for example, to be a lawyer or something, a moderator or something. As long as you are helpful and sensible. It doesn't hurt to raise the bar.

You can publish everything you want to say on ** or write a diary, and you can also set up your own blog.

Pay attention to developing this habit.

I just mentioned that your family is nagging, and I think this has something to do with the environment around you.

So, try to calm yourself down

Read online late at night but not very with a group of friends chatting.

Usually, as long as it doesn't affect work or study, mind buying *** to listen.

This can greatly reduce the opportunities for communication between very people.

I think it might help you.

And I love writing on blogs.

Welcome to my blog.

There are always people who say that they want to change themselves, but the more they talk, the more they can't change it. In fact, your problem is not in your mouth, but in your heart. I think you are probably a more bold person, you take everything to heart, and say whatever you have, it is your character that has this habit of yours.

In fact, there are some habits like this, sometimes it can't be seen as a shortcoming, it's your characteristic, and people have all kinds of characteristics that make the world. If you don't want to change your personality, you can't change this habit of yourself, think for yourself!

Van Gogh's brother Theo once said, "If a person wants to live a truly optimistic and uplifting life, he should not express his sorrow, but hide it in his heart." ”

Or you can try journaling.

I used to be nagging, but now it's much better.

Your friend said that you shouldn't be a human being, and the landlord will never ***

Don't listen to the wind is the rain, some people say that you are farting, so don't cover your mouth when you smell a fart, not because it's rude, but because you can't cover it!

It's just a matter of standing on the upper hand of others and pointing at others, you are just a friend, not a leader.

Shut up, boys talk a lot, it's really a bit annoying, don't be angry, haha.

You're in control of your own belongings.

All it takes to develop good habits is.

It takes 21 days. The formation of habits does not happen overnight; And it often takes a while to correct a bad habit. According to expert research, repetitions of more than 21 days form habits, and repetitions of 85 days form stable habits. Therefore, if a concept has been verified by others or yourself more than 21 times, it will definitely become your belief.

The formation of habits can be broadly divided into three stages:

The first stage is the first 1 to 7 days or so, and this stage is characterized by "deliberate, unnatural". You need to be very deliberate to remind yourself to change, and you will feel a little unnatural and uncomfortable.

The second stage is about 7 21 days, this stage is characterized by "deliberate, natural", you already feel more natural and comfortable, but if you don't pay attention, you will return to the past, therefore, you also need to deliberately remind yourself to change.

The third stage is about 21-85 days, and this stage is characterized by "casual and natural", in fact, this is habit, and this stage is called "habitual stabilization". Once you have reached this stage, you have completed self-transformation, and once this habit has become an integral part of your life, it will naturally continue to "serve" you.

All habits can be changed with one's own will, and the scientific basis is bai, it only takes 21 days to really form a habit.

Hold on for 1-7 days, you are still uncomfortable and unnatural, you have to do it deliberately every time;

Stick to 7-21 days, you still need to do it deliberately, but you already feel used to it;

Stick to it for 22-90 days, you will do it inadvertently, every time it is natural, and if you don't do it, you will not get used to it.

I don't want to be lazy, insist on getting up early for 21 days, and I won't get used to sleeping more in the future; Plan to read a book one hour before bed every day for 21 days, and if you don't read it one day, you may blame yourself! Of course, bad habits will also form after 21 days, the habit of eating snacks every night before going to bed, and if you don't eat for a day, you will be hungry and can't sleep; If you are accustomed to constantly changing lovers, you will no longer be accustomed to stability; If you are accustomed to tasting feelings, you will never understand the taste of true love.

I hope that in life, work, and relationships, I can use 21 days to develop good habits, get rid of bad habits, and make my life more exciting. This is the result of scientific research, not by any one person.

Hope it solves your problem.

It takes 21 days for a person to develop a good habit. In other words, you can form a habit in 21 days.

If you have this obsession in your heart, you can keep doing it for a day. The main thing is to stick to yourself.

21 days can be a good habit.

Half a month. Half a month is enough for you to have basic habits.

Good habits for a lifetime, bad habits in between.

Behavioral psychology studies have shown that repetition for more than 21 days will form habits; The repetition of 90 days will form a stable habit. That is, the same action, repeated for 21 days, will become a habitual action; In the same way, any idea that is repeated for 21 days, or repeated and verified 21 times, becomes a habitual thought.

So, if a concept has been verified more than 21 times by others or yourself, it must have become your belief.

There are roughly three stages in the formation of habits.

The second stage: 7 to 21 days or so. Don't give up on the efforts of the first phase, continue to repeat and move on to the second phase.

This stage is characterized by: "deliberate, natural". You already feel more natural and comfortable, but if you don't pay attention, you will go back to the way before.

Therefore, you also need to deliberately remind yourself to change.

The third stage: 21-90 days or so. This stage is characterized by "casual and natural", which is actually a habit.

This phase is known as the "habitual stabilization period". Once a person has completed self-transformation at this stage, this habit has become an integral part of his life, and it will naturally continue to "serve" people.

Every day, write a love letter and send it to your future self: I want to meet a better you, so start changing myself from this minute.

It only takes 21 days to develop good habits Habits are not formed overnight; And it often takes a while to fix a bad habit.

The first stage: 1 to 7 days or so. Phase 2:

7 to 21 days or so. The third stage: 21-90 days or so.

Once you have reached this stage, you have completed self-transformation, and this habit has become an integral part of your life, and it will naturally continue to "work" for you.

It is usually said that 21 days can help a person develop a good habit, if you want to change, you can set a direction and goal for yourself, no matter what happens, you must remember to stick to it.

It takes at least 7 days, and even longer if you are not motivated.

What you are talking about are 2 things, learning, love, is a reason, doing things and thinking about it. Similar to obsessive-compulsive disorder, but no. Not serious, is to change the situation. You must be psychologically counseled and send me a private message.

19.(2 points) We should develop good habits (from an early age). (Or: a life full of good habits is a life that is in harmony with "nature.") ）

20.(3 points) Give the examples of Zu Di and Liu Kun who get up early to make an argument (make a factual argument), (1 point) Prove from the front that "getting up early in the morning is a good habit, and this should also be cultivated from childhood", (1 point) Make the argument more comprehensive and convincing. (1 point) (or:

This sentence uses an example argument (1 point) and contrasts it with the above "Many people have been sleeping lazily since childhood" (contrastive argument) (1 point), and strongly argues that "waking up early in the morning is a good habit, which should also be developed from childhood" (1 point). ）

21.(3 marks) The author first makes his point of view: "etiquette is the norm of behavior", and it is necessary to develop the habit of politeness.

1 point) Next, give a positive example of how we should be courteous to our elders. Then, with a negative example, highlight the dangers of rudeness. (Positive and negative examples, discussing the dangers of being polite to elders and being rude) (using examples and comparative arguments to discuss the positive and negative sides) (1 point) Finally, it is concluded: "We should not only be respectful and courteous to our elders, but we should also be polite to everyone."

1 point) 22(3 points) d

23.(3 points) Key points: Present a correct and clear point of view first; (1 point) Then, it is necessary to carry out rational argumentation, closely follow the analysis and elaboration of viewpoints; (1 point) Then, give examples to demonstrate the facts.

1 point) Example: I think saving is also a habit that needs to be formed. (1 point) Because economy is not only a requirement for inheriting China's traditional virtues, but also a need for the development of the new era.

It is of far-reaching significance to firmly establish a sense of thrift and develop a good habit of thrift from an early age. (1 point) For example, *** often has tofu and vegetables on the table, and a few small plates of pickles and baked cakes are placed around it. The story of saving still sounds very educational.

From a psychological point of view, it takes at least 28 days to develop a habit and get rid of a bad habit, and it must not be interrupted halfway, otherwise it will be abandoned halfway.

For a month, as long as you persevere and keep your goals, you will succeed.