I hate my boyfriend s unmotivatedness, who can guide me in love?

Age, time will make him understand: a man without a career will not be truly respected after all. There is only one kind of person who eats by being handsome: Xiao Bai Mian.

The most respectable thing about a man is self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance, and self-reliance, not betraying the image of sex. A little handsome is just a pleasing appearance, and life will not provide you with a free lunch because you are handsome.

If he has been like this, I think you should choose again, if he doesn't change himself, it will be difficult to become a big thing after all, and he can't even solve his own food and clothing, and a man who likes to work hard will make you live in a strange circle full of contradictions.

Baby. If you love him.

Just tolerate him. But you can't lose yourself.

And. He loves you. It's going to change for you.

Believe me. As long as you love each other. There's nothing you can't do.

Boys are supposed to be a little machismo.

But it's not good if it's too much.

So you have to change him to be self-motivated.

Actually, we don't have the power to make anyone change, so you don't have to bother to change him.

Talk to him more. He's very narcissistic... If it doesn't work, if you don't like him like this, just break up.

If you like him, you like all of him.

Don't change him.

It wasn't him who changed.

Hehe, long pain is better than short pain, for long-term consideration, 88

You pretend to break up and see what changes he makes, and if she really loves you, she will change for you.

Hehe, there are people like me.

My boyfriend is the same, if he really loves you, he will change for you, just like you change for him, although not all of it, but more or less a little change!Breaking up is not the best solution, and it depends on whether you let go or not.

Try to change first, if the stubborn landlord still finds a new love.

I don't know that a motivated man can't be atmospheric.

If you like him, you have to respect him, and if he likes you, he will change for you.

Change each other.

To love Him is to embrace all that He has

Not being motivated is a fatal drawback.

Obvious selfishness, let me put it a little more bluntly. Is it okay to love someone every day?Isn't the world of two people just a kind of satisfaction?

If a man treats games as a thing, he is at most a boy, not a man, then all the behaviors and characteristics of a man must not be possessed by a boy.

If he doesn't seek to be aggressive, what about you?Resignation?

Being together is to make each other better, for women, and even more so for men!

Break up!Because men should be career-oriented!!Do you say yes, I wish you a happy and happy life.

Why do you say so much like me, hehe, I used to be like this, I played games every day, and my girlfriend said that I only remember the game, and I don't remember her, but now that I've graduated, it's okay, we're still together, people still need social training, I've been working for a year, and people are sensible, and I know that I think about it for the future.

I don't know if your boyfriend will work for a while, change??

Leave him, or he still has use.

Playing with him is fiercer than him.

Heh, when it comes to the critical time, it will naturally be motivated.

Immature men.

To put it bluntly, the maturity of a man is to wake up from his conceit!I know that the pot is made of iron!So I took my heart back from the clouds!I'm thinking about how to get by.

It's normal to communicate with your mom and say that you have grown up and have your own ideas. But you also have to understand your mother, she is afraid of delaying you to stop you. In short, finding a time when she is in a good mood to communicate can resolve some unnecessary problems.

Communication is a prerequisite for understanding. After all, it's your mother, she will understand you, by the way, whether your mother dislikes that boy or doesn't want you to fall in love, you should be clear about this, so that it is convenient for us to communicate, right?

Feelings follow your heart, and your boyfriend doesn't just want to find someone who is good for you. It's more important to find one that has a future.

It's 20, and it's not small. Men should get married, women should get married, this matter should be easy to solve with your mother. I wish a lover a family eventually!

You want to look average!!

Try to listen more to his inner thoughts, maybe people will have a confused and negative stage, at this time listen more and talk less, encourage more, communicate often, or stop and go out for a trip.

The landlord doesn't have to worry, test his self-motivation more, see what years of planning he has, the money is not much, the key is in the heart, and communicate more.

He lived a very unhappy life. Don't abandon him, you help him to do a little bit and then give him a little pressure little by little. It's not easy to love someone, and you don't want to be abandoned in the most difficult time.

Perhaps abandoning him is quicker than encouraging him to be simple and happy. However, one cannot live only for oneself, and one cannot be without any responsibility. People now resent this social injustice.

But every one of them does something ... I want a house or a car, but I have to fly solo if I have an accident. Your happiness comes slowly, but slowly you will be a little happier than others.

I smiled when I saw my husband upstairs, you are very realistic, and I am also very realistic. You want these things, do you have them? Why should I give it to you?

You see, there are a few sparrows in this world who have become phoenixes. A few of them are ordinary people.

Let's talk about me first. My husband turned out to be similar to your husband, playing games all day long, not going to work much, in order to buy equipment, buy some cards, a salary of more than 1,000 a month, and save tens of thousands of dollars to buy virtual things in the game without eating or drinking. But now it's good, although I still play the game, but I won't delay my work.

My solution was to find a job and go to another city to see how your husband reacted. Slowly cold him, if your husband really loves you, he will change it for you, really.

If your husband still doesn't change, then leave him, really, if he doesn't change, it proves that he doesn't love you at all, it's too wronged to be with him, marry such a husband who doesn't want to be motivated and has no money, what to paint, isn't it true to you, is it good for you, and he has no money and doesn't love you, why should he be with him? Think about it.

After reading the problem you described, I'm just a sophomore college student, my love only started after the college entrance examination, I'm Xinjiang, she's Shandong, how far away....But I'm very motivated, I became the class president, and I also became the deputy minister in the student union, so I should be okay, but my math was hung up because of a mistake on the teacher's side. I worked hard for a year, and all the honors belonged to others. It should be that I feel the unfairness of the world, which should be similar to your boyfriend, maybe the world will give us a lot of setbacks or unsatisfactory, but I always tell myself, don't give up, there will be a chance, I watched the auction spring movie the day before yesterday, it is a true story, you go and watch it, maybe there are some feelings, and I hope your boyfriend can cheer up, bless you, don't give up, there will be a better day.

Sister, I call you sister, I'm 24 years old, such a man, what are you doing with him, break up. I have always persuaded those who do not persuade to leave, but when you get married, you will suffer from it, it is useless to be handsome, and it is important to have ability, and you are only 27. It's not big, let's look for a new one.

The most important thing for people is to be self-motivated, and if they are not self-motivated, they don't even have a goal in life, so what else can they do. Divide it.

If two people want to be together, they will inevitably think about the future, plan for the future, depending on your situation, only you are in a hurry, and you are the only one who works hard It is recommended that you talk to him seriously, if he does not repent, you should think carefully about it for your future happiness!

To tell you the truth, you are older than me, you have more experience than me, everyone has their own ambitions, if your boyfriend is Adou, you give up! There are many good men, who are married for nothing else, have children, and are absolutely ashamed to have children with a useless Lao Tzu. Put some pressure on your man, separate from him, if he loves you and understands you, he will cherish you.

It seems that you were carried away by love at the beginning, and you just ran for him to be handsome. You didn't comprehensively inspect whether he was handsome and could be eaten? No. Are you married? If you are not married, I advise you to be realistic. Try to find a spare tire.

You're doing a great job, it's good that I have a girlfriend like that. You try it and put a little pressure on him. I don't know if I can do it.

It's best to reflect on it yourself. Not being motivated and getting bad grades are two different things, and you have to understand this first. Not being motivated means that you subjectively do not want to achieve good grades, and to put it seriously, you have no self-esteem and sense of responsibility; And the results only show your level, and it has little to do with whether you are motivated or not.

To put it mildly, if you can carry two bags of rice at most, no matter how motivated you are, you can't carry five bags; But if you've been carrying only half a bag yourself, you're not motivated, hehe.

Don't take it to heart Since she thinks of love like this, you don't need to bother with her! Say goodbye and leave, you have to work hard to be a man, and hard work is not for a person who is not worthy of his own efforts!

You study hard, little friend, there is still a long way to go, let him see your efforts.

How can love still have something to do with learning, what kind of person is it, so casually, change boyfriends, children play games?

Studying is your own business, and it's your fault that you don't work hard enough, and studying hard is good for yourself.

Study hard. Learn to be afraid that no one will love you.

I'm dizzy. This girl is also too realistic to dig.

Work hard, I don't know if you have a chance. If she really doesn't like you, don't force it.

If you don't like it, you will be replaced, there are all girls, and there are all good girls, so why hang yourself on a tree.

1 All it can be seen that you love that man, but, in your opinion, there is no result. You love that woman too, and it won't work out. The problem is very difficult to solve.

It's up to you to measure. We can't really help you. But, think about it in the long run, be realistic:

If you can throw the past behind and try it in a different environment.

Bless you! 1

When you are sad, you look up, the sky is still blue, and in this cruel society, there is not even time to appreciate anyone's sadness.

Love is a part of life, but it's not the whole story. Be strong. When you look in a positive direction, the sun will give you warmth.

Remember my words: God has given you a painful cross because He knows you have the power to carry it.

Watch a movie by yourself, go on a trip to the suburbs to relax, and take out the sadness to bask in the sun.

Send your blessings.

Don't think about it like that, life is a lifetime. It's not worth it to be unhappy about this little thing. You have to think about opening points.

If you don't think there's any point in you going on, there's no need to go on. Since two people are unhappy living together, what is the point? It's better to leave early.

With girls, because they are all the same genders, they will have no scruples, and sometimes they can open their hearts and speak. But, after all, she was a girl. There is no result.

Leave early, or just be a good friend.

Without thinking about anything else, you can start another part of your love career. may not leave, and there will be a new relationship immediately. But you can use this time to forget about your unhappiness.

In the near future, you should be able to find someone who is better and loves you more. I wish you happiness!

Remember not to think about it, hehe.

1.He's a soft eater! Leave him!

2.You have psychological problems yourself! To create a "glorious image" of oneself by sacrificing oneself to save the fate of others, in order to express one's "greatness".

Your last sentence is very problematic! It's a typical "poor self-image"! It is recommended to see a psychiatrist!

3.Don't think that after this village, there will be no such shop! When you meet a bad man, you feel that all the men in the world are dead! There are many good men in the world! You call it here, and a hundred will definitely come out!

4.If you don't change, you'll continue to live like this in the future! Don't blame your fate when the time comes!

Who told you not to accept others. Let's find a new one and start a new life. I suspect that you must be a little handsome, otherwise a normal woman would have run away without a job for 3 years. Unless the man looks handsome.

Alas, I took the train that day and read a sentence from Eileen Chang - if I had to leave you, I would not look for a short-sightedness, nor would I.

I can love others again, I just withered ......

When it is broken, it is broken

Think about it in the future - you have to live, you have children, you have parents to support you, you want to show off your husband with your colleagues, you have a shoulder to rely on when you are tired, yes.

Let's go! If 4 years is enough.

The bitter sea is endless, and the shore is turned back

It's actually you who locked yourself in!

If you have to have him, you have to crucify yourself on him, then what is there to say!

It's better to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible!

Dump that useless thing, don't look down on others looking for me.