Do you have a good way for your child to learn if he can t learn?

Parents should praise and encourage their children more, and less blame and scold. Children have self-esteem, and they are proud when their achievements are recognized by everyone. Parents should not let go of every opportunity worthy of praise, when the child has achieved a little achievement, let him feel the joy of success, let him know how happy success is, so he will do the same next time.

This gentle form of praise is easy for children to accept, and children will not lose interest in learning because of a bad grade.

Train your child's interest in learning, don't compare with others, but let him understand that he can work because of his interest in adulthood, instead of being forced to choose a job he doesn't like for life. Cultivating interest is to cultivate a learning ability, we all know that we still need to continue to learn after work, learning is lifelong, so the cultivation of interest in learning from an early age is particularly important. When a child is happy because of his learning, then he is undoubtedly a happy person.

Parents should not spill their emotions on their children. Nowadays, the pressure of life is relatively high, and parents will inevitably have some negative emotions, if they are not relieved in time, these emotions will be released to their children, and they don't know why, they just feel that their parents are not satisfied with themselves, feel that they are not good enough and lose self-confidence.

Based on my more than 10 years of teaching experience, if there are not too many negative factors in the family environment, whether a child is motivated to learn is more related to the child's nature. No one is born with a love of learning, study habits need to be cultivated, the recently popular 21-day rule, as long as you stick to anything for 21 days, it will slowly form a habit. In the same way, children should not be anxious about learning, first easy and then difficult, step by step, let children fall in love with learning.

First of all, it is necessary to guide the child to learn, talk about the learning content and combine the game so that the child will not get bored with learning. Secondly, the learning content should be applied to life so that the children are interested in the learning content. Thirdly, regularly examine the content of the child's learning and give certain rewards and punishments.

Finally, take your children to the library, reading room and other places where you can read quietly, read your favorite books with a large group of children, and communicate with them so that your children have a strong interest in learning and fall in love with learning.

You can set some rewards and punishments, set a small goal for him for each exam, and then after she completes this goal, what can he get, slowly expand this goal, and he may slowly develop an interest in learning in the process of achieving this goal!

Train your child's ability to "listen". "Listening" is important for people to obtain information and enrich knowledge**. It is very important for students to be able to listen to lectures, because teachers are often teaching children in the form of lectures.

Parents can train their children's attention by listening, for example, parents can let their children listen, listen, and encourage children to use their own words to describe what they hear, so as to cultivate a good habit of listening attentively.

There was a time when our child was like this, he didn't want to study and was lazy, but then I slowly helped him to change. Parents should respect their children, give them appropriate space, and don't fill up their learning every day. Allow children to develop their own interests, pay attention to and appreciate children, and encourage children.

Parents communicate more with their children, do not use nagging, and influence and point out children's thoughts in communication. Parents should grow up with their children and have their own lives. Care about your child's learning, but don't treat it as the only criterion.

Give children moderate care, don't spoil, don't ignore it, treat children, be intimate and independent, and be independent, children will have room for development and be enterprising.

If you want to change your child, you must first change yourself. If parents still follow their own routines in the past, sorry, the children will use new routines to set parents. First of all, you have to change yourself, you have to fall in love with books, love learning, in order to avoid being tricked by children; Secondly, you have to control your mouth and say things to your children over your brain, so as not to be regarded as brain-dead by your children; We must be mentally prepared for a protracted battle, and we must not be in a hurry; The next step is to discuss the plan and roadmap with your child, and work with your child to realize the plan here.

Boys lag behind in the school curriculum as a whole. I once read a book called "What's Wrong with a Boy's Brain", which explains boys from a very professional physiological and psychological point of view, and suggests that boys enter school a year later than girls, which I think makes perfect sense. In addition, the boy's cognitive characteristics are more somatosensory, so it would be better for him to arrange more hands-on learning methods.

For example, science experiments are currently very rich in books on science experiments for children of all ages. He was allowed to fall behind in his cultural classes for the time being, and he would catch up later.

Participate in more extracurricular activities, and tell him some knowledge in books while playing, so that children will be interested, and children will be willing to learn when they are interested.

If you can make your child happy to learn, you can mobilize your child's joy of learning, so as to stimulate his desire to learn. As for how to make children happy to learn, this is a question worth pondering.

Generally, parents can not only have written knowledge, such as literary knowledge can be mixed with some interesting stories, children can be happy, such as science and other learning, to set a stage of small goals for children, when he completes a goal, appropriate encouragement and reward.

You can do more brain games with your child at home, sharpen your knife and cut firewood, these brain games are very helpful for your child to learn the school curriculum better.

Children are not motivated to learn and family education has a lot to do with it, children are innocent and fun, this is the nature of every child, as parents should be correctly guided, do not let children have too much contact with digital products, let them read some extracurricular books to increase their knowledge, as parents should also lead by example.

Preview is very important, let the child lecture is also a good way, for example, let him tell you a few math problems, in order to explain clearly, the child has to make it clearer, after the lecture has a sense of achievement, but also to stimulate interest in learning.

Parents need to have enough patience and determination, and there is no strict correspondence between teaching and learning in family education, and there is no fixed form of education, all thanks to the little things in daily life and the ears and eyes when they are with their families. Even if parents teach their children, even if they are knowledgeable and talented, they can only be induced to enter the children's hearts through the first and step-by-step guidance in daily life.

You can give him some rewards appropriately. This gives children a sense of accomplishment and superiority. Then he will redouble his efforts to study.

Here are some ways you can help your child become motivated.

1.Parents need to lead by example. If both parents are highly motivated, the child will not be too bad.

2.Parents should give timely feedback on what their children are doing. If you do a good job, you must praise, and if you don't do a good job, you must guide. Parents who scold when they don't agree with each other, even if they raise self-motivated children, their children's lives are very depressed.

3.Let your child learn to choose and take responsibility for his or her own choices. Children can only find themselves in the field they like, so as to stimulate their own self-motivation.

4.Grow with your child. Parents should strive to do what they ask their children to do. If parents want to be strict with their children, they must be themselves, otherwise they will not be qualified.

5.Accept your child as he is, break down the task, and make it less difficult. There are differences in the length of the fingers, and the children are different, so do not compare your own children with other people's children.

Instead, encourage children to take their time, grit their teeth and persevere, and move forward one small step at a time. Life is a protracted battle, what is the urgency?

There are many ways to cultivate children's self-motivation, and I am here to introduce many effective strategies as long as you dig hard. Even if your child is not self-motivated now, don't break the jar, as long as the child's habits and character can pass the test, grow up, maybe there is a different world!

1. The child is not self-motivated because he does not have a correct understanding of himself, does not know what he should do, and does not know what he is good at, what he is suitable for doing or what he is interested in, etc., at this time, parents should not scold and criticize the child, but to help him establish correct values, so that he has a comprehensive and objective understanding of himself.

2. In daily life, in addition to letting children learn the necessary homework, they also need to get in touch with things that are helpful and valuable to his life, so that he can understand the world through different aspects, increase his curiosity, and thus be more interested in exploring the unknown world.

3. When you have time, you must take your child to participate in more activities related to social practice, and contact his hands-on ability through his own hands-on, and when he does it, his brain will also carry out some corresponding thinking, so that he will slowly accumulate his knowledge in all aspects, which is very helpful to establish a correct world view.

4. Some children have been protected by their parents since they were young, the wind can't blow the rain, and the food comes to stretch out their hands, and they don't have the concept of fighting for themselves. There is no way to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, this is the eternal truth, let the child exercise by himself, to explore and struggle, is what he should grow up like. Moreover, any protection from the parents does not guarantee his enjoyment for a lifetime.

Then you should tell your child about the importance of studying, for example, let him and his friends have a topic to talk about, let him have a good university to choose from, and he can choose his favorite career in the future, and his life will be better because of his grades.

You can take him out to work for a few days and let him know the hard work in society, so that he will go to study.

As a parent, you should guide your child correctly, encourage your child, tell your child the importance of learning, and let your child understand from the bottom of your heart.