What should I do if I am ugly to my classmates? What should I do if I am isolated by my classmates?

Your problem is not to care about giving points, you remember that the relationship should be maintained with feelings, not money and material, you said that you send things and treat guests, but no feelings others will not care, it is better to help them when they are in difficulty, for example, you are a day student, they have any difficult problems to solve at school, such as mobile phone charging, buy something by the way to help, and communicate with him more, that is, chat, pay attention to what they pay attention to, communicate more, he will understand what kind of person you are, Your advantages are also revealed.,Unlike now they only see your bad.,And pay attention to being a boy.,Pay attention not to deliberately approach the female classmates who have "objects" in the class.,This will be counterproductive.,Feelings are to be cultivated slowly.,We will go to school and stay is the enemy.,When you graduate, day school and accommodation are a family.,It's a familiar process when you think about it.,I hope the landlord will do it himself.。

Oh, I'm in a very similar situation with you, and I'm also excluded by others, I think let's regulate and control your emotions first, don't be too affected by this kind of thing, after all, students are academically centered, but having sincere friends is also crucial, so there must be one or two bosom friends of the same sex, who can trust each other, help each other, and talk about their troubles. But pay attention to choose excellent quality, preferably with their own strength, similar to the situation of classmates, and then when interacting with him, you must open your heart (let him feel your sincerity) sincerely communicate with him (such as confiding in each other some troubles), honestly help him, make progress together (such as learning problems together), the way to promote friendship is to go shopping together outside the school, or go out together for a walk, arrange activities, this is the easiest way to enhance friendship, and, When getting along with a friend, you must be careful not to ask the other person to promise you something he is not willing to do, or ask him what he is not willing to tell you (especially questions that hurt his self-esteem), and when you succeed in establishing a friendship, perhaps he will naturally take the initiative to tell you.

For your situation, you don't deliberately approach them or obviously pester them to please them (if this is the case, they will ignore you more, think you are annoying, think that you are a reasonable person, because they think that you will take the initiative to approach them anyway, so they can come and go as soon as they call and go, so as not to pay attention to you) Of course, you can approach them appropriately, and also communicate with them, don't cause conflicts with them, otherwise you will only have to admit your mistakes. Then you can also show them something that they are not as good as you and make them change their opinion and attitude towards you.

The above is my practice, which is my own summary of personal experience.

Finally, I hope you can get along well with your classmates.

I think ah, my classmates don't know about you, and from what I see in the class, I think that the quiet boys, the ones who don't talk are popular. Well, you can do whatever you want, as for giving gifts, I think since you are not familiar with these fancy things, don't make your own, but also be sincere, look like a boy, help girls, you have to do.

Go with the flow, you are what you are, you are not good at communication, if you are deliberate, it is likely to make people feel fake and insincere, you follow your character, but be kind. There will always be someone who will accept you.

First of all, when I was a student, it was usually useless to give a gift to someone, of course, as for you giving a gift and telling people about your nerves, I don't understand, maybe the problem lies in the gift you give and what you say when you give the gift.

I think what you have to correct is the problem of selfishness, it's right to care about your own studies, but you must lend a hand when your classmates are in trouble, isn't it said that the best time to buy people's hearts is when they are at their lowest.

The teacher gives you a nickname, if there is malice, he is cheap, but if the teacher is really malicious to you, it is difficult for you to gain a foothold among your classmates (unless everyone hates the teacher), if the teacher is only for you, and other students still respect the teacher, then you have to buy the teacher, choose a Teacher's Day gift or something (the current teacher basically receives).

Go with the flow, be sincere, and don't do anything deliberately.

Maybe you have a bad personality! Change your personality.

If you are isolated by your classmates, you have to find the reason and change the situation. Let's talk about what to do if you are isolated by your classmates.

How it works: Most of the time, I know what it is for, but sometimes, I don't know it very well, which requires courage to boldly ask my classmates why, and there will always be classmates who will tell you.

Work something out. If it is really your mistake, you must sincerely apologize to your classmates, get the understanding of your classmates, and if it is a misunderstanding, you should also make it clear to your classmates face to face, solve the problem as soon as possible, and don't let the conflict get bigger and bigger.

Take the initiative to show goodwill. Since we have corrected our mistakes, we must change the way we get along with our classmates, and we can take the initiative to show favor to our classmates, so that everyone can see your sincerity and become friends again.

Ask for help.

In order not to be isolated by your classmates, you have no choice but to pretend to be very cheerful. As a result, I always felt tired, but I comforted myself and said that I would cry when I was sad. In doing so, your ego is hidden, paralyzed, discarded.

Find her out first and respect yourself.

If you want to eat chocolate, buy yourself a chocolate and tell yourself that it is your right and that you deserve to have what you want;

It is also your own right to want to study quietly, you have the right to say, 'You speak quietly, I want to study quietly!' ’。

You yourself are part of the relationship, if you don't respect yourself, to fulfill the relationship, and desire others to respect you, in fact, you are unconsciously putting others in a high position, putting yourself in a low position, in order to hope that others will like you. If you don't get it, you start to feel self-pity, and people who pity themselves will not have power.

If I deliberately call you a garbage wreck, living for so many years, you have to scold me, 'You're a trash!' Rubbish! When you stand up for your rights, you naturally have power. It will be a little smoother to have a counselor to help with the process.

First of all, we have to find the reason from ourselves, why the classmates isolate themselves, whether they are not doing well enough, or other reasons, the first thing to do is to calm down and go to the reasons in their bodies, and correct them, if we really don't know, we need to ask our classmates why they isolate themselves. 2/6

After finding the reason, the first thing to do is to apologize to some of your classmates, let them know that you recognize your mistakes and are willing to correct them, and at this time they will also help you to correct them. 3/6

If we are isolated because of our personality, such as withdrawn, stubborn, some are formed from childhood, these things are difficult to change, but we must learn to recognize our mistakes, and then carefully change ourselves, we can tell the teacher, let the teacher also help to change. 4/6

When interacting with them, don't always think for your own interests and not consider the feelings of others. When we communicate with our classmates, we should take care of other people's feelings, so that when we communicate with them, they will think that you are a person who takes care of the overall situation and can be friends, and no one wants to find a selfish person to be a friend. 5/6

We are in school, sometimes there will be problems when you can't do it, if you can, you have to take the initiative to help them, don't be afraid that others will also learn to give you the first place, remember a sentence, sharing will be happier. Although we have paid, we will reap the truth. In the same way, if we don't want to be isolated, we have to learn to share what we have.

6 6 Finally, when we find ourselves isolated, if we don't want to change, and it has no impact on our lives, there is no need to change, maybe the change will make you less and less aware of what kind of person you are, just be yourself, but this premise is that you are a different person from other people.

I've lived in an isolated world since I was a child, and now I really want to beat up those people I want to say that if you are isolated by your classmates, you must first reflect on yourself If you are really not wrong, then there must be someone who wants to harm you, so please report to your bosom friends and parents at this time I really didn't have anyone to help me at that time, including my parents also scolded me in turn, but I was cowardly, and there were few bosom friends, and they were all blinded, so I was really helpless at that time, and I already wanted to try suicide in elementary school So I want to say, if you have my shadow at this moment, don't be afraid! Be strong! Don't think it's just a moment I say something bad Innocence and kindness will only be trampled on Of course, it is not to persuade everyone to abandon kindness You can't have the heart of harming people and you can't have the heart of guarding against people So when you encounter a problem, you must tell your dearest people Tell them your pain Let them pay attention I'm a Libra who is not good at expressing Me won't express it at that time, I will only cry Cry all the time It's useless!

Many people are isolated, which is the result of a long period of accumulation. It's not like something happens and then you're isolated.

Rather than being isolated, you think about something that will make more sense for your future.

Reflect on yourself first, are you not doing well enough in what area? Isn't the speech too impulsive? Is it not taking into account the feelings of others? What do you usually do wrong? Who did you offend? What are some things that aren't doing well enough?

If not, first seek help from teachers and parents, and secondly, sit upright, ignore it, and insist on yourself.

Also, if you are bullied or otherwise behaved, do what you can and decide whether to resist head-on or ask for help.

Don't cause trouble, and don't be afraid of things. Elevate yourself, stay kind, and be brave enough to resist injustice.

I have encountered this kind of school bullying incident, this kind of thing, in fact, there is no good solution, the most fundamental reason is that the students are still young, not serious, reckless, but the more they explain themselves, the more they are ridiculed and abused, in fact, no one listens to your explanation.

I didn't have a good solution, so I didn't get a good solution back then, it was the school that my parents made trouble, and the school punished them so they didn't dare to do anything, but they were still unconvinced, and they would still humiliate you in private, and other classmates would still remain indifferent and couldn't solve the problem fundamentally.

If I change to me, I think, like the kind of short-tempered people in the class, people don't dare to provoke, and there is a very good study, directly take the grades and despise them, and then there is a strong heart, if according to the analysis of the landlord's situation, it is estimated that it will not be the kind of temper, whether the study is good or not, it is estimated that it is also medium, otherwise I will not put my mind on this, and the study is very good and will not be involved in this kind of thing, generally beautiful girls and good temper, The last one is the most important one I think, maybe you are still young, it is not easy to do this, for example, if you are a girl, others say you J, you are justified in scolding them, I am J, about your hanging, I probably mean this, that is, don't doubt yourself, have self-confidence, and know that no matter what the reason, it is unfair for them to be more than one.

However, being in this environment every day is actually very bad for your physical and mental development, the most direct impact is that you are unhappy, unwilling to walk around the classroom after class because you have no friends, and feel that your classmates who walk by everywhere are whispering that you are not, and secondly, it will affect your learning, and even make you have a psychological shadow or physical injury.

All in all, this kind of thing is treated coldly, not only will they not find it boring, but it will become worse, or that sentence, people are good at being bullied, persimmons are also soft pinch, you must have confidence, and do it with them with confidence, your parents, your hair is small, your brothers and sisters, and the majority of netizens with similar experiences will support you, you must know that you are living in an Internet era, and you can also see the vast and wonderful world outside the campus, I didn't have a smartphone when I was in school.

Finally, a wordy sentence, because they have no seriousness, you must not run away from them, pay attention to their conversations, once any gangs and scumbags from other schools come to the school to beat you or bully you, you must tell your parents as soon as possible, you can not study, life is the most important, it is useless to tell the teacher because there are too many irresponsible teachers now, when necessary, you don't need to ask anyone for leave, go to the principal's office to need protection, hit ** or go home immediately.

For the time being, I can only think of so much, oh yes, if the situation is serious, I will transfer to another school, because when they were students, they didn't realize how vicious their behavior was, and they didn't think it was an escape, and they should go when they endangered their own safety.