My girlfriend who took the initiative to break up in the past comes to pester again, what should I d

I think she just doesn't want me to be happy, maybe she didn't find her ideal partner, and she was a little uneven! "Since you have said so, then don't pay attention to her, you ask this question, it actually means that you still love her, you are going to get married, you want to choose happiness or pain, the final decision is still up to you.

She left you so ruthlessly at the beginning, and now she sees that you are doing well and comes back to you, such a girl is not worth your nostalgia again.

Tell her directly that you are getting married, and ask her not to bother you again. If it doesn't work, it's as if she's transparent, and seeing it is the same as not seeing it!

Cut through the mess quickly, think about what you want most, and go on! ~

You just have to be resolute, ignore her, she herself will find it boring after a long time.

If you still like him, you agree to get back together, if you feel that you are fed up with this life, then don't agree, long pain is better than short pain, it is better to separate all at once.

In this case, we should take the initiative to forgive the other party generously, after all, this is the other party's impulsive behavior, and we should not worry too much about the other party, but should be more tolerant of the other party.

Many girls will have vexatious situations when they are in love, generally not very mature and naïve girls will often be vexatious to their boyfriends, which is what we usually call "doing", in fact, girls sometimes make a little bit of it, it is still okay, it can improve the freshness of boys and enhance the relationship between two people, but if this work is over, it will become vexatious, and it will make boys can't stand it and propose to break up. Some girls especially like to break up unreasonably at every turn, and when they really break up, they will regret it and get back together with boys, what should they do when they encounter this situation?

But if you're completely fed up with your girlfriend's behavior and vexatiousness, exhausting you, and feeling that the relationship doesn't need to go on at all, then you don't have to choose to get back together with herAny relationship is based on respect between two peopleOn the premise of loving each otherIf you can't do this, there is no need for this relationship to continue.

I think you should refuse directly, but you have broken up for such a reason, which shows that this girl has a big personality problem, don't let yourself fall into such a fire again.

should take the initiative to refuse, since the two people broke up, it means that there are some problems between the two people, and if they are with each other at this time, they will only make themselves more unhappy.

I think you can think about yourself, and if you still love your girlfriend, then she asks you to get back together, and you can agree.

Be sure to stick to your own ideas, don't be confused by the other party, be sure to stay sanity, and don't change your mind easily.

In a relationship, the most difficult thing to solve should be the differences and disagreements between the two parties. Under normal circumstances, once there is a disagreement between two people, it will eventually turn into a violent quarrel, at this time, both parties hurt each other, and what they say is a kind of hurt to the feelings of both parties. Constant quarrels will not help your relationship in any way, but will only eat away at your relationship, and eventually lead to a breakup.

Love is a process of running in with each other, two people get along with each other, understanding is essential, differences of opinion lead to quarrels, in fact, the most fundamental reason is communication problems. Inappropriate communication will completely distort what each other wants to say, and sometimes even because of inappropriate communication, the content of the argument between the two people will be shifted, from the original difference of opinion to constantly picking out each other's shortcomings and constantly attacking each other. Many people are in such quarrels, and their feelings for each other gradually disappear.

The first thing you need to do to avoid such a quarrel is to know how to accept each other's opinions and perspectives. Generally, people who quarrel when they have a difference of opinion think that their point of view is correct, and they both want to make the other party accept their point of view, and if both people think like this, then it is inevitable that the quarrel will eventually lead to a quarrel. Only let yourself learn to accept different opinions and respect the other party's different suggestions and opinions.

Only by doing so will you not let the other party think that you are making trouble unreasonably and avoid arguing.

It can be seen that the boy is a boy who dares to love and hate, and is very decisive and attractive to emotions.

Seeing his ex-girlfriend helping his comrades-in-arms guide the movements, there is physical contact, the boy will feel uncomfortable and sour, which means that he has not completely and completely come out of the previous relationship.

Let the past pass, put aside and let the wind go. Everyone has their own life, and life is a process of constantly choosing to understand while walking, and I believe that over time, the boy's heart will gradually calm down.

It is probably because you have a strong possession, so even if you don't like your ex-girlfriend, you don't want others to be good with him. Personally, I don't think you should be like this, after all, everyone has nothing to do with you.

That's your possessiveness, and even if you don't like it, you still don't want your ex-girlfriend to have contact with other people. But personally, I don't think you should think too much about it.

After all, they were once together, and the remnants of possessiveness continued to keep their distance and were okay with each other.

Keep it up, it's over when it's over, there's nothing you can't get over, you have to remember that you have a better one now.

After breaking up with your boyfriend, he made up his mind, he looked down on this boy, he wouldn't pester him, because he was disgusting and angry after seeing her, he didn't pester her boyfriend anymore, girls who don't pester after a breakup can generally be divided into two kinds, one is that she doesn't like her ex-boyfriend very much, the two are together, it may be that the man pays more, and the girl is more passive, since she doesn't love enough, the breakup will be neat and tidy, and she won't be entangled. There is also a situation where girls love boys very much at the beginning, but they are hurt by boys again and again, and break up after breaking up, they will be very resolute, never look back, and will not entangle. First of all, this kind of girl doesn't break up easily, they have their own insistence, they know very well what they want, and their bottom line is in**!

Secondly, when she knows that the breakup is inevitable, she will let go decisively regardless of whether she has feelings for the other party or not. Even if you will miss it in the future, you still don't look back, and it's impossible to entangle! In the end, she really doesn't love it anymore and sees it clearly, so there is no reason to entangle, and it is all broken!

This kind of person is relatively old and independent, but correspondingly speaking, he always thinks that he has the ability to control a lot of things, and at the same time, he does not need others to help him, although this kind of person is said to be very cold on the outside, but over time you will also find that in fact, he is a relatively different person, but he is not the same way and method of dealing with things, but compared to his own problems and difficulties, he also needs help from others. After a breakup, if a woman does not entangle, it means that she is a reasonable and understanding person. This is the best, so as not to annoy men, as the so-called good horses don't eat back grass.

This is also because she sees clearly that this man is not worth being nostalgic anymore. In short, according to the actual situation, do what you should do, learn ways and empathy. Demonstrate self-worth.

Isn't the current non-entanglement exactly what you want? Suddenly no one really pays attention to you anymore, is it a little lost, or even a little missing? You start to pay attention to her slowly, only she's no longer there.

Once, when you were together, you knew very well how happy she was and how much she cared about you. But you always feel that no matter how good she is to you, the more you hug you, the colder it gets, others are not half good to you, but your thoughts grow like weeds. A man's heart never knows how to stay.

Once I got it, I thought about leaving. But what about her, sensitive and fragile, I have seen the way you love her, how can I not compare your indifference later. She thinks you don't like her anymore, so she wants to break up to prove or awaken your concern and attachment to her.

But it's right in your hands.

What are you entangled? Do you think you are famous, rich and handsome, or a local tyrant.