How can you refuse each other without hurting?

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love. Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.

Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him. This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.

Ask her to go out to a secluded place, and both sides calm down and have a good talk. Although the emphasis on academic work will be regarded as an excuse, it must be said. Then just don't reject too directly, just say you're another ta, and then say two words that froze her, at least let her know that she's not rejecting him because he's not good.

We can still be good friends, but don't like me anymore. I don't want to hurt you. Then take out a fruit orange or something, drink it, and you'll feel much better.

Prepare a pack of paper towels. Before leaving, pat him on the shoulder and hug himSay you can find better people.

Send her home. Whatever you do, you'll see for yourself. - Although the plot is quite rough.

But it might work.

If you have a clear answer, then you should show your purpose. Refuse harshly, don't have the slightest hesitation and soft-heartedness, that will only make the other party feel that they still have a chance, and you still have room for further development.

Giving one's own emotional respect is the best explanation to the other party. Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and refusal should be simply decisive, if you are not ruthless, it will only bring more harm to the other party. So what kind of rejection can completely stifle the other party's thoughts?

Respond cleverly with these five sentences, and it will definitely not be embarrassing.

1. "I have no plans to fall in love for the time being."

Find an opportunity to invite the other person to a meal and tell them about your ideals and pursuits. For example, you just want to work your own ability and work hard for your future for a few years, and falling in love will delay too much time, and you don't have this plan for the time being.

2. "You're really nice, but I only treat you as a friend."

Before refusing, you can praise the other person, take care of the other person's face, and then clarify your true feelings. For example: "You're really nice, but you're not my type, I just see you as a friend."

Tell the other person that you cherish your friendship very much, so you care about his feelings, and you don't want to deceive him, and you don't want to hurt each other because of this incident.

3. "I'm not actually your ideal object."

You can put yourself in their shoes and make them realize that you are not a good fit, for example, by telling them your own shortcomings, "I am not actually your ideal partner", and you will not be happy together.

4. "I can't forget my ex-boyfriend."

In everyone's heart, there will be a love wound buried, especially for those who have loved deeply and lost them. You can talk to them about their relationship experiences, saying that they still have a lot of nostalgia for the past and still haven't forgotten that ta, so they don't have any thoughts about the present and don't want to start a new relationship.

5. "I already have someone I like".

If you are reluctant to compromise on feelings, then the best way to refuse is to tell the other person bluntly, "You already have someone you like", and don't let him have any illusions about you. Let him accept this fact, after all, the relationship is barely coming, and it is impossible for you to be together.

Epilogue. A truly high-level person must be both gentle and ruthless, with both the charm of attracting others and the ability to reject others.

Each of us should face up to our own feelings and bravely express our inner thoughts and feelings, which is the greatest respect for each other and our feelings.

Make it clear to the other person that you should tell the other person what you fear the most, so that you can refuse to get hurt.

Then you need to talk about a perfect love, be pampered and cared for in love, and learn to meet each other in the relationship, understand each other, communicate more with each other, don't put yourself in your heart when you encounter problems, and say it to solve the problem of being pure, so that you can reduce the injury in love.

It must require us to pay a lot of enthusiasm, as well as time, as well as sincerity Liang Yin, as long as Kong Zheng pays his sincerity, even if he is rejected, we will not be hurt. I just don't regret it.

When you have love, you should have an independent circle of friends, have finances, and stay calm when you are in love, so that we can avoid getting hurt.

You must keep yourself, you must have your own income, and you must stick to your own principles no matter what the situation, so that you can better protect yourself.

When you are in love, you must keep your sanity, don't give too much, focus on getting something, and don't put all your thoughts on love.

Nothing is perfect in the world. In other words, you can't refuse the other person's offer without hurting the other person. In fact, you can think about this situation by yourself.

If there's a guy you like very much, but he doesn't feel anything about you. And then he rejects you, what do you think of yourself? Your first feeling must be very sad, very sad.

Then you will slowly come out of your sadness or sadness. Similarly, if the other boy is very fond of you and you reject him, then he will be very sad for the first time.

So if you want him to be so sad that he doesn't swim back, that is, to let him be relieved and let him come out of his sadness. You should explicitly reject the other person and then tell the other person why you rejected him. It's a good idea to tell the other person what you like.

Long pain is better than short pain, and it is better for you or for him.