What does it feel like to be in a sibling relationship? Can a brother sister relationship last?

As the saying goes: "Female juniors, hold gold bricks." Since ancient times, there has been a fine "tradition" of men marrying large wives.

But in the post-80s generation, it seems that "brother and sister love" is more popular, and I asked many friends around me, in addition to the idea of breaking through the tradition, it is more important that "brother and sister love" has more advantages and benefits.

Later boys are more willing to take care of people. Post-80s boys prefer girls to see themselves as men and husbands, and they don't want people to see them as little men and not grow up, so when facing the choice of marriage, they hope to find a girl who is younger than themselves, so that they can take more care of their lives and become her role models and idols, so that life will be more interesting.

2. A smaller girlfriend is more conducive to fertility. "Female junior, hugging gold bricks" is very popular, but today's society advocates late marriage and late childbearing, and their own age is not small, and then find an older young woman, and then marry a few years later and have a few years later, it must be unscientific from the perspective of childbirth, after all, it is very dangerous to be an elderly pregnant woman, and it is not urgent to find a younger girl, and it is not urgent to have a child two years later.

3. Men will be more powerful when they are older. Nowadays, how to get married pays attention to a person who has a car and a house, if the man is too young, he will naturally work for a few years, and he will not have that strength. If you come out to work earlier, earn two more years, and then talk about a younger girl as friends, you will naturally have a certain economic foundation, which is more realistic.

4. Always work harder when it is full of crises. Older men, there will always be pressure in age, the more full of crisis, the more able to work harder, always remind themselves to become better, more strong and confident, only in this way, life will be more in tune, work will be better. It's good for people and good for everyone.

5. Older men and young people are more willing to suffer. In life, men are older, they will be more hard-working, and housework will naturally be shared more, and the advantage of older young men is that they can suffer losses, and they can do more things, so that little girls have less burden, so that for girls, it is naturally a very good choice.

6. Big men know how to tolerate each other better. Little women can make sex, but big men know how to tolerate each other better, if you find a boy who is younger than yourself as a boyfriend, then worry about more things, if it is a big man with a small woman, it will definitely be more compatible.

I don't have a chance to experience it, but I think it will be more depressing, and the psychology will be more disturbed by the outside world, ** are all written like this.

I feel that someone takes care of you, someone will think about everything, and you will do things more comprehensively than you, and the economic conditions will be better, and it will be more painful.

It is that life has both an older brother and an extra lover, giving you double care and respect.

Brother and sister refer to blood or age, the former will be very painful, and it will be difficult to succeed in the end. The latter is a normal relationship.

It's just that there is one more person who hurts himself, the big brothers are very good, and they are very good at hurting people, so you should find someone who is more mature when you fall in love.

It's okay if you're not related by blood.,Boys are a little late.,It's just right if you're a few years older.,It's almost psychologically mature.。

It's a very normal relationship, boys are generally older than girls, and boys are more tolerant.

I don't know, it shouldn't feel very good, because I'm sure many people will be against it, so the pressure will increase to a great extent. It's a really bad feeling.

If there is no blood relationship, it is an ordinary love, and the older party will be more tolerant of the other party, and can exist as a guide.

Love between siblings, like ordinary love, is sweet at first, but as they stay together for a longer time, girls will enter marriageable age earlier than boys. It is inevitable that the elders of the family will urge the boy to get married, and the boy may not be more than 25 years old.

We all know that most parents are not very receptive to sibling relationships. For example, some female parents believe that their daughters will be in trouble, while some male parents believe that their sons will marry an older daughter-in-law and have no say in the future.

For two people who love each other, once one of the parties is not firm in their hearts, love or marriage is prone to crisis.

In fact, in a relationship, the age gap does not necessarily lead to relationship problems, but considering the practical factors, sibling relationships tend to be more challenging than relationships between peers. If you meet someone who is different your age but is similar in other ways, be prepared.

As for friends who are not in love yet, Gen can also give advice, generally speaking, two people can be considered the same age within three years old, and you don't have to worry too much about age.

There are more and more sibling loves, three reasons:

First, the number of sibling love is increasingly indicating that our society is also making continuous progress, and if it were not for social progress, there would be no sibling love. You can look at those developed European and American countries, their marriage and love often start with love, they don't care much about age, in their thinking, as long as the two love each other.

And what our country is now advocating is free love, with the further development of society.

Increasing attention is also being paid to the education of women. Many of them are very capable, so it is not uncommon for them to be together when they meet someone they love at school or at work, even if they are younger than their own age.

Second, women become independent in life and clear-minded. Many post-80s women always think that their husbands are still older, because such men are more able to take care of people. But the post-90s and post-95 girls are different, they clearly understand that it has nothing to do with whether the other party will take care of people and age, but only with the other party's character.

And whether the other person is mature or not is also related to his personality and education.

Many post-90s and post-95 girls commented on the Internet, even if the post-80s women married men older than themselves, they were not treated well by men, but these women took on everything in the family. Therefore, these girls are very sober, and the person they are looking for is not based on the age of the other party, but on their character and character.

Thirdly, because of the increasing pressure in society to make men reliable nowadays. Nowadays, young men rack their brains to find a job as soon as they graduate from college, or go to graduate school, etc., and these people are educated, and their thinking is very mature compared to the previous men, so many girls are willing to give themselves to them, regardless of age.

People are very fixed, they think that men and women cannot fall in love, they should get married when they are old, and the husband must be older than the wife. But with the development of society, what is now advocated is free love, and more young people value the feelings of both parties, as long as the two love each other, then age and others are not a problem. Because in their thinking, if the two have no feelings, there is no need to get married, and the purpose of marriage is to find someone who will accompany them all their lives and love them.

Two people without a trace of affection, even if they get along for a long time, it is difficult to cultivate feelings. And now, the emergence of sibling love means the further development of society, which indicates that men and women are truly equal in society now, and marriage is mainly around love.

Brothers and sisters should have a sense of caring for each other, supporting each other, and understanding each other.

As siblings, they share many common experiences and emotions when they grow up, such as spending their childhood together, sharing the joys and troubles of the family, and facing the challenges and difficulties of life together. Therefore, they should see each other as one of the closest partners in life and develop a deep emotional bond with each other.

The most precious family affection in Shengbi's fierce life:

The emotional bond between siblings is one of the most precious kinship relationships in life. A relationship of mutual trust should be established between siblings. This trust is based on mutual respect and understanding, which means that siblings can confide in each other, share joys and sorrows, and do not betray or hurt each other easily.

At the same time, siblings should also support each other, whether it is in the small things in life or in the big things, they should try their best to help each other and face the challenges and difficulties of life together. <>

We all know that the generation of brother-sister love is actually a deformed loveIf brother and sister are in love, there will definitely be different ideasThis kind of love will definitely not last long, but also to give up family and friendship, it is very worth the loss, I hope everyone can treat feelings rationally, only to find their own other half, in order to make themselves happier, brother and sister love in the society is not recognized.

1. How to keep yourself sensible about a relationship?

We all know that everyone wants to have a happy love life in life, but it is very normal to have feelings because of long-term relationship, if we want to treat a relationship correctly, then we must refuse brother and sister love, if we feel that there are signs of love, then both parties should be separated as soon as possible, only in this way can we better ensure our reputation, I hope everyone can realize this, and we need to pay attention to the fact that if there is a brother and sister love in life, then we must stay away, because we all know that regardless of the shackles of the world, we will not get the blessing of everyone around us.

2. Why do you want to reject brother-sister love?

We all know that people are social animals and must communicate with people, no communication will make you feel lonely, if you talk about brother and sister love, it will make us suffer a lot of verbal violence or Internet violence, it is likely to affect our lives, and the impression of love is definitely not worth encouraging.

3. How should I get out of the brother-sister relationship?

We all know that a relationship must have a beginning and an end, if the other half you like is related to yourself, then you must support it in time, only by accepting a new relationship can make our lives more beautiful, I hope everyone can look at it rationally, and we need to pay attention to the fact that in life we should learn to go up every day, only to make yourself better can you meet a more suitable other party.

It's definitely going to happen, because everyone thinks differently, so it's also a very normal thing.

There will definitely be a big gap in the age of the two people, the ideas are different, and the circle of friends is different. It's hard to communicate.

I think it's possible. Because it is possible for two people to think differently.

Your relationship is not that of brother and sister, but what you do is better than that of a true brother and sister.

The fact that he will call you little sister or little fool shows that in his heart he prefers to treat you as his sister, because affectionate titles are generally subconscious thoughts deep in his heart. Which brother and sister with a good relationship will not get along well if they quarrel? Which good brother is more accountant than the cost of going out with his sister to eat cracked rice?

What good brother wouldn't make his sister happy? And physical contact and mutual liking between siblings are all normal.

In fact, you know that he does like to whisper to you, but his liking is the liking of friends, brothers and sisters. Judging from the words you stated, you are more concerned about whether you have failed the other person's wishes, or perhaps deep down in your heart you are more inclined to be a lover with him.

Judging from the fact that he is more willing to talk to you than others, he is a lonely person, but in his heart there is a safe haven, gentle township, that safe haven, that gentle country is you. You can even reach the point where you know everything. (I envy you).

You don't have to worry about whether you have failed the other person, you just need to accompany him through this lonely period is the greatest reward for him.

But if you want to go further in your relationship with him or don't want to stop being friends with your brother and sister Qi Yinming, don't be afraid to take the initiative to tell him

I don't want to be just your sister friend, I want to be your lover! ”

Remember that the most important thing when getting along with each other is not to be afraid or inferior to express your true heart to the other person, in other words, to be brave enough to express your thoughts and be your truest self.

Are you telling the truth or are you admitting it? There is a difference between the two.

There is the same blood between biological brothers and sisters, and there is family affection. As an older brother, he will naturally protect his sister and don't want others to bully her. I think of my sister for everything.

As for the younger sister, she will be proud and happy to have this brother. It's a real feeling.

If you recognize the brother, it's different. Recognition is always recognition, at most is not to let others bully you, maybe after a while to forget you. That's what it feels like to be bland.

Of course, it is not excluded that they recognize them like relatives. In this way, you may like it a little, but it's nothing, it's normal, because in your heart, this brother is very good.

I'm the only child in my family, so I've wanted to have an older brother since I was a child. Therefore, I recognize many brothers who are old ants, and they are all very good to me, really the same as their relatives, they think of me in everything, care about me, protect me, and love me. I feel very happy to have some of my brothers buried in this stuffy way.

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So I hope you.

I'm happy too. (*

Hee-hee......