Why are some people cruel to those who love them?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No injury. If you like someone, then you will do anything for him. The more flattering you are, the more the other party may not see you, and at first you will feel flattered, but after a long time, he will put on a score, thinking that he is really good, and he likes others.

    Then the day you confess, it will be very painful.

    You can get love. There are women who like a man and do something that finally touches the man and the man agrees to be with her. But what?

    After being together, women have to spend their time trying to please men, because if a man doesn't like you, he won't think of you, and you will suffer from gains and losses.

    Will not break up. You like someone, you have boyfriend and girlfriend with him, but one day, he may ask you to break up. And a person who likes you, he feels that he is very happy to be with you, and he will definitely not get bored with you and will not break up with you, unless you say it first.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    We are always polite to people who are not relatives, for fear of leaving a bad impression. And the family who loves them the most in the world, but they are always impatient, and they don't know the kind of gratitude at all, and their IQ stays at a very naïve stage, which makes people feel very underwhelmed. But I don't realize that I want to change, and I even unconsciously hurt them with words.

    People are always like this, almost cruel to those close to them, but tolerant to strangers. Because people close to you are always kind to you, you know their character, and you know their bottom line. So you may lose your temper with them or yell at them, and you will stay within that limit.

    You also know that they won't do anything drastic to you.

    And for those strangers, you don't know who he is, what he is working at, whether he has an irritable personality. You don't know where this degree is, and you can't grasp it. It is also a person's self-protection (to avoid being beaten).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because they have not yet learned to cherish, they hurt those who love them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because those who love themselves do not leave themselves, they are unscrupulous.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because they take it for granted that others love them, and they can hurt the people who love them (her) as much as they want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because they are still stupid and don't understand anything, and if they understand a little human sophistication, they won't be like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because of his good face, he is good to outsiders, and others will praise him and have vanity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because I feel that people who love themselves will not leave them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal, often the people who can be hurt by you love you, if you don't care about you, how can you be hurt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because they will feel that he will not leave him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People are often like this, because the loved ones have nothing to fear.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't understand human feelings, I don't know what to say.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I.

    He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember!

    The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As the saying goes: those who are favored have nothing to fear. I feel that they love themselves, so they will never leave, so they do a lot of ruthless and cruel things without knowing it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Outside, I have to lower my eyebrows and pleasing my eyes, I have been wronged, and I have become fearless in the face of my dearest people at home, as if this is how I have found balance in my heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    People tend to hurt their most important people because people who don't care about them can't be hurt.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a strict requirement, just hoping that you will become stronger and more suitable for the survival of this society.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because this society is too cruel, if I were kind to her, she would think that everyone in society is so good. So I had to be cruel to her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because they will be more fearless about the people they love and will not pay attention to their feelings.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because they understand each other and know each other's bottom line, they will try their best to regain their dignity in front of their lovers if they lose their dignity elsewhere.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because for those who don't love themselves, it can't be cruel if you want to be cruel, we hurt the people who love us.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because they don't love each other at all, they have no reason to pay for each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because this kind of person only loves himself, not the people around him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because those who are favored have nothing to fear.

    Human nature is actually very indulgent. Everyone wants to live a life that they can do as they want without their brains. But we all know that there is a price to be paid for doing what we want, and our environment does not allow us to do so.

    If we offend others, then they will hurt themselves as well. So everyone will suppress their nature to a certain extent.

    Think about why we were so polite and friendly to strangers. To those close to you, you will indulge your bad temper. Some people will even say: I have a good relationship with you, so I treat you like this, how can others deserve me to treat him like this.

    In fact, many times, you will inadvertently lose your temper with the people who love you, as if they are good to you for granted. However, if one day they leave you, then you will definitely regret what you did before, this is human nature. Always relying on others to love you but hurt each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because it's more dependent, I'm not afraid I'm going to leave. To put it simply, those who are favored have nothing to fear.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because you know that he will not leave your side, it is not right to be strict with him and lose your temper with him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That's because of love, so I want to control the person I love within my own scope, and it will be cruel if I go beyond it a little.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because he knows that no matter how he loses his temper, the one who loves him will not leave him and will tolerate him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because man always has a bad temper with the person closest to him, he knows how to lose his temper, and that person will not leave.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a question of personality, a bit of a long, to put it simply, everyone has differences when they're in different capacities, just like your attitude towards your teachers and your parents is very different.

    Everyone is like this, it's just that after some people put on the mask of the beloved, they show another side of their heart, which is the person's own psychological problem.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because the favored person has no fear, and the person will take off his guard against the person close to him, revealing his bad temper.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because they feel that the person who loves them will forgive them unconditionally, they don't know how to cherish it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you can't do what you want outside, you will do whatever you want to those who love you, and even worsen it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because of hypocrisy, it is not good to show your true self to outsiders, only to those who love you, it doesn't matter, so you treat it cruelly.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because that's what you love....So you will always inadvertently hurt the people who love you, this is love! You should understand!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Love itself is not cruel, it only feels cruel when you can't get it! Love requires two hearts to give together, not one heart to beat the other! When the person you like doesn't like you, then please let love a way out, if you really love him (her), you should make him (her) happy!

    Love is sometimes not possessive! Don't be too refreshed yourself, maybe he (she) doesn't belong to you, but the person who belongs to you may be coming to you! So open your hands and welcome the happiness of tomorrow!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Love is pleasant, sad, intoxicated, emotional, brave, trusting, sincere, considerate, lovesick, nostalgic, sweet, alcoholic, sweet, intoxicated, happy, sacrificial, noble, dedicated, responsible. What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you pray for her happiness and peace, and when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for her.

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in her hand but no matter what, I wonder if she has dinner at this time, whether she thinks about herself as much as she does. Love is, use half a day on the weekend to make a few good dishes by yourself and watch her (her) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (her) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers and want to enjoy them with her or her, love is to walk through the cliffs and waters, and you will think with a little regret: what a pleasure it would be if two people traveled together!

    What is Love? Love is wanting to see her and being afraid to see her, love is wanting to talk to her and being afraid of disturbing her, love is silently wanting to help her, love is an unquenchable desire, love is seeing her, with a look of indifference on his face, but when he passes by, he carefully feels the vibrating air around him, so he can't help but stay still for a long time. Love is obviously away from abandoning her, so that that happiness is not always with the feeling of being together, and the loneliness of the journey.

    Trouble, thanks!

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  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    No. Because of love, it makes people sensitive. The reason why he hurts the other party is because the other party cares too much about his opinion.

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