Is my girlfriend suffering from manic depression?

Personally, I don't think it's mania and depression, I studied nursing, I have studied the basics of psychiatry, how cheerful you talk is ironclad it is not depression, and the most important evaluation criteria for mania is whether there is a rush of thinking, high mood and increased language activity.

Thinking rush means that the patient's thinking association process is significantly accelerated, and sometimes he feels that his speech cannot keep up with the speed of thinking, and he talks endlessly;

Elevated mood means that the patient feels that everything around him is very good, and he feels that life is extremely happy and happy, but at the same time, he will be easily irritable, anger and joy will change quickly, and he will be rude to the interference and opposition of others;

The increase in language activity means that the patient is abnormally energetic, the activity increases significantly and cannot be tolerated, and there is no sense of tiredness, and some patients also show nosy and uneven, profligate, frivolous behavior, and aggressive and destructive behavior when the condition is severe.

Your girlfriend doesn't have a rush of thinking and increased speech and activity, even if it's a neurosis, it's a mild elevated mood, which is not a disease at all, and I'm in a higher mood than your girlfriend all day long. So I personally think that your girlfriend has a slight deformity in personality caused by the loss of her mother (whether she is dead or divorced, she has a stepmother anyway), and she is afraid that others will abandon her and has no confidence in herself. These are all kinds of problems, which will occur in children from single parents or divorced families, I don't think it's anything, as long as you can live independently without obvious mental symptoms, you said that her 'problems' can be gradually changed, provided that you should take care of your girlfriend, and gradually and unconsciously change her No confidence in herself, suicide and antagonism with her family, etc., if it were me, I would cherish and love her, because she needs a man to give her a sense of support and security, and finally I wish you happiness!

I don't think she has manic-depressive disorder at all. Just because she lives in such a family, it is inevitable that there will be some negative emotions, which is normal for people. Everyone's problems are different, and the most important thing is how to solve them.

felt that her family cared too little for her, and regarded her as an "outlier", in fact, she was not sick at all. Therefore, what you have to do is to care for her, support her, and love her well.

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Love her as much as you can.

Hello, we are not doctors, and we don't know how to heal. Her behavior was indeed excessive. But it's worth reminding you that he can tell you about the trivial things at home that means trusting you, rather than asking you to give examples of whether her family or character is flawed.

Just like a domestic violence man, vent her emotions to the extreme, inherited and caused by family education, she doesn't change the hurt is always you, you will be tired.

Confirm whether this is a mental illness or a karmic disorder, mental illness can be treated with medication**, karma is more troublesome.

My friend also has such a girlfriend, you may still have feelings for her, and you can't break up for a while.

My advice is: slowly dilute your feelings and finally achieve the goal of breaking up. This kind of person can't be changed; You will get worse and worse, you will have less and less money, and your personality will get worse and worse, and she will dislike you more and more because of this, and she will become even worse.

Only a breakup is good for both of you. You may think she's pitiful, but sometimes it's nice to you. However, if you want to live and have the minimum dignity of being a man, you have to slowly separate.

Maybe it's a little harder when you're separated and for a short period of time. After that, you will feel that what you are doing is the right decision.

I think it's not just depression, it's self-affirming system fragility. This symptom is accompanied by a strong system of self-denial.

The entire spiritual system of a person is supported by the self-affirmation system, and because her self-affirmation system is very fragile, a small denial (failure in the examination) will bring down her self-affirmation system, and the mental system will also be defeated.

Her self-affirmation system is so fragile because it was slowly formed as she grew up.

You have to help her rebuild a correct self-affirmation system, that is, to use any small achievements and achievements in the past to affirm that she is valuable, effective, and capable.

Instead of using everything to deny yourself, it is wrong.

If the goals in life are too big or too few, it would be good for relatives and friends to help her find a few easy goals to help her regain her confidence.

Bipolar disorder is also a kind of depression, depressed patients especially need the understanding and support of family and friends, if the family understands some of the principles of depression, in daily life with the right way to get along with the patient, and help create a behavioral environment that is helpful to the patient, it will greatly help the patient.

Recommend a book "I Beat Depression".

Treat gently, keep a distance, overcome rigidity with softness, move with affection, and take practical actions to win her trust.

It is necessary to communicate well, it is necessary, otherwise it will not be possible to change her anxiety disorder. Everything should be done slowly, not in a hurry! Got it!

Judging from the dialogue, she is more self-oriented, does not think much about the feelings of others, and is very sensitive, like a powder canton, just touch it.

She is a very outgoing person, she can't hide her words in her heart, she is straightforward and fast, and she changes her face faster than turning a book. It's easier to get emotional.

The advantage is that there is no scheming, no small actions behind the back, and no big grudges. If there is anything, it will attack on the spot, and it will be fine after it is sent, the character of a summer thunderstorm.

Find out her temper and you'll be very useful.

If you can't figure out her temper, you'll often be inexplicable.

Brother, you are so familiar with my situation, you can communicate with me.

Your girlfriend** sent it, I'll screen it.