In my boyfriend s eyes, my career is more important than mine, should I want such a boyfriend?

Yes, of course, good man, if you are the kind who will not do anything, and will only be around you often saying dear, you fly slowly. Men are not to be, only.

It's better for a man to fight for a career than to find a lover, okay.

I'm happy to die.

You look for a man who is not ambitious, self-motivated, and responsible.

Your days of crying are yet to come.

If you want, go to his side and support him.

If you can't stand this pattern then you only have 2 paths.

One separates and the other is self-reflection to find a balance.

I think that since you have been able to persist until now, not only do you have an emotional foundation, but also trust in each other, he and you are in a long-distance relationship, don't you put more attention on work, can you put it on other women? :( as long as you love each other and persevere, you will definitely have a bright future! No matter what kind of love it is, it is impossible to be happy without a material foundation.

The happiness that money brings is always short-lived.

So if you value money, keep it up. Otherwise, make it clear to him.

I wonder if you hurt his heart or something, he uses work to avoid you.

You must know that when you look for him, as long as you use the sentence "I don't have time at work" or "I'm too tired and need to rest", you won't be able to find him at all.

You feel fake.

If you are engaged in your career, you feel empty.

There is no man in the world who can have a prosperous career and can make a big deal at home, and the two-person world must also have an economic foundation. If you are poor, you can only open the window and drink the wind, and there will be nothing to be romantic about.

The good woman is behind the silent support of him and encourages him.

Lai women complain all day long.

You like that and choose for yourself.

To be enterprising means responsible, and he is fighting for your future.

I want to give you a happy life in the future!

Don't worry too much, love or not depends on what you say, you have to feel it!

Men should be career-oriented, and we women should also learn to be independent.

You don't want it? Do you want someone who only knows how to stick to you all day long, chase you and run without working at all?

In fact, it's not bad to put your career first, so why do you have to compare?

A man regards work as very important, in fact, it is very good, but it is not right to ignore your feelings, you can have a good communication with your boyfriend, and then talk about your feelings, hoping that your boyfriend can correct it.

If your boyfriend regards work as important, you should support him more, support him mentally and materially, make food for him, cheer him up before going out, and you are lucky to have such a diligent other half.

It depends on whether you still have such strong feelings for your boyfriend, if you really feel that your boyfriend is snubbing you for work, then I think you can communicate with your boyfriend well, maybe your boyfriend wants to make money to support you by working well. In fact, it's better to say that it's okay, don't let there be a misunderstanding between two people.

Men generally take their careers more seriously, which is also a good thing, it may be that you are more sensitive and feel that he does not pay enough attention to you. You can talk to your boyfriend directly about your feelings, and if your boyfriend loves you very much, he will adjust the relationship between work and you.

You can talk to these boyfriends, and you are very dissatisfied with some of his practices, such as treating work as more important than yourself, asking him if he doesn't love him, and taking the initiative to communicate with his boyfriend.

I think it's normal for boys to take their work very seriously. Although you may think that he values you a little bit and thinks that he loves you very much. But if he doesn't do his job well, he won't be able to give you anything.

Personally, I think that if you can really understand his work, he is very busy, then you bear with him, you negotiate with him every day two people say good morning to each other to increase your sense of contact, he is busy during the day, so don't disturb him, and when you go home at night, you can call him ** to talk about what happened to you today, feelings and so on. Although you take the initiative in this relationship, you will have less discomfort or thoughts.

Then it proves that you are not so important, maybe your position in his heart is not so important, and if something happens in the future, he may not be able to stand on your side, others can only give you advice, and it is you who make the decision!

I don't think about it so much, he doesn't love the other than you, and he works hard to support you, so you don't really have anything to say, and you can get rid of this emotion by yourself.

This is a good thing, if a person does not have a job, then he will lose the most basic security of life, you should support him, and then communicate with him slowly.

First of all, you have to communicate with him. Explain to him that in fact, work is to make the life of two people better. The other half is gone, what's the use of still having to work?

This shows that the other party does not value the feelings between two people。Giving up love for the sake of a career may seem like a very great thing in the eyes of a man, but this decision is painful for a woman. There are many girls who cry bitterly after experiencing similar things, and don't understand why their boyfriends for many years have always given up on this relationship, in fact, this can only show that the relationship between the two people is not in place, or that the other party does not attach so much importance to you.

First, the feelings are not in place.

In men's hearts, there will be such a scale, on the left side of their career, on the right side of the relationship with their girlfriend, if this balance starts to tilt to the left, they will think of giving up the relationship. This can only show that the relationship between two people is not deep enough, otherwise it is impossible for a man to give up on you so easily. So there is really no need to be too painful in this situation, because such a man is really not worth continuing to delay his time, instead of crying here, it is better to think about how to find the next true love.

2. Find a reason to break up.

The reason why some men say this is mainly to find a reason to break up, after 5 years of love, men may find that two people are not suitable, but they don't know what reason to break up, so they say such a high-sounding sentence. On the one hand, you can find a little comfort in your heart, and on the other hand, you can also send your girlfriend away, which is definitely a double thing.

3. Give up decisively.

In either case, the girl should choose to give up decisively, because it proves that the boy does not value you. Maybe I have a very deep relationship with a boy in the heart of a girl.,But these are just things that I take for granted.,Or it's wishful thinking.。 Giving up decisively is the best choice for both yourself and the other party.

When we don't know how to decide, we might as well look at the whole thing from an outsider's point of view, and maybe you will get a different answer.

Be more considerate of your boyfriend, work is a man's economy, how can I have the courage to fall in love with you without a job.

It is advisable to break up, or talk to a boyfriend. It's understandable if your boyfriend is a workaholic or really dealing with important things, but often doing this can also greatly affect your daily life after marriage.

I feel that I should carefully consider the relationship between the two people, see if the boyfriend loves him, and if not, it is better to leave as soon as possible, so as not to be hurt again.

In this case, you should break up, why are you waiting if you don't break up?

For a girl, what is she looking for a boyfriend for? Is it to offer him every day like his ancestors?

I think that one person's liking for another person is the state of two people's first acquaintance and love, but then it should slowly become two people, like relatives, and more should be two people taking care of each other, trusting each other, and relying on each other.

Especially for girls later, it should be to find someone who can take care of themselves and make themselves feel secure enough.

At least I think that for two people, if two people want to really fall in love, two people will go through a lifetime, then for this stage, they can't be said to be the most important person in each other's life, but in your case, if your boyfriend sees everything as more important than you, then I think he may really not like you that much.

In fact, true love, I think the power is very great, it can cause a person to become not like himself, and may do a lot of actions that are not like his own.

Then I think in this case, you may not have met real love yet. When a person has true love, he will have weakness and armor, which is really a great state.

I think for girls, they should still find a boyfriend who is good to them, and they should put themselves in the front position, not first, but it should be a very important position.

I'm also a girl, I think in this case, you should still break up, and don't hesitate because of other things, if you plan to break up, make up your mind and be ruthless.

I've been in a relationship and had similar experiences. I'm a more decisive girl, and I say that the wind is the rain. My ex-boyfriend gave me such a feeling, he was with me every day at the beginning, and the two of them were sweet.

We happened to be together after graduating from high school, and then went to college, and I didn't quite adapt to the free life of college, so I often pestered him, hoping that he would talk to me more and relieve my anxiety. But he happened to be very busy during that time, in short, he didn't seem to take care of me every day, and there was less contact. I have such an impulsive character, so I decisively broke up with him, and he scolded me for being too casual in dealing with feelings, and I didn't think so, anyway, it was the kind that was completely unreasonable.

A relationship just ended in my mess around. I did regret it and reflect on it. If I had calmed down a little bit and understood him, I wouldn't have been so stiff.

So, I think you have to think about it, does he really not care about you?

Every relationship is not easy, don't give up easily, and don't compromise on everything.

I asked my boyfriend, who is more important in your heart, friends or me, he said that friends are more important emotionally, I am more important intellectually, I am not happy, and then he said do you want me to lie to you, friends have known each other for more than ten years, or you find a nerd, stay at home every day, you will be the wife of a Nobel Prize winner in the future... I'm starting to think it's nice to have a lot of boyfriends, but!! I often quarrel when I don't have time to spend with me, and he thinks that he is usually at home, and he has to go out on weekends, and I may not be inconsiderate of him.

But usually he is very busy at work, and often works overtime, and often does not come back to eat, if he has a little time after eating, he has to go to play billiards, and he does not accompany me on weekends, he has to play with friends on Saturday and Friday, and he has to go home to accompany his parents on Sunday, and he has not gone out to play together on weekends for several months. And he often takes care of my friends before I take care of me, for example, I am sick to see a doctor, but he first went to send money to my friends, and then came to pick me up, as a result, I went to see a doctor myself, drew blood, and even the person who took the bag did not come, so I waited for him in the wind, I thought what was the life-saving money was very important, and I didn't say anything at the time, and then I knew that there was a person who played mahjong without money, and called him to send it over, the key is very far, I asked why not find someone else who was present to play mahjong to borrow, He said that because his friend felt bad, I was in that mood at the time... I actually thought about integrating into his circle of friends, I think playing with him will solve the conflict, but we are not a circle at all, it is difficult to blend in, I am the kind of good girl who has studied hard since childhood, he has been growing up with friends everywhere since he was a child, for example, I am not a person who hates smoking, I don't have many classmates and friends, and the men who smoke are a minority, and his friends don't say that the men don't say, and the women have never seen anyone who doesn't smoke.

Anyway, it gave me a feeling that I didn't know how to deal with them and didn't know how to get acquainted with them, and he took me there at first, but after the first time, I was a little repulsed and didn't want to go, and now I feel that no matter how difficult it is, I have to try to integrate into them, but he doesn't want to take me there anymore, he doesn't think he can play together, so he won't deal with it.