What should I do if I am particularly unhappy that the object is intimate with other boys?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is the legendary jealousy.,I think it's actually a reflection from the side that you like your girlfriend very much.,If you don't like your object, how can you mind her being intimate with other boys so much, right?,Personally, I really think that girlfriends may sometimes do a little too much.,But in fact, sometimes I personally think that girlfriends may have a very intimate relationship with his own family.,That is, his brother and his father.,I think it's also acceptable., It's just that I think you can't be too jealous, and sometimes it can affect the relationship between you, and I think first of all, you can also change your own thinking.

    And then in addition to that, I think you can just talk to your partner about this problem, that is, you don't like him to be too close to other boys, I don't think your partner has any special reason to be particularly intimate with other boys, I think as long as he can come up with a valid reason, you should accept it, but if he can't come up with a valid reason, I think he is wrong, but I think you can't say that people are too close to each other, in this case, it may be that you have a problem. And in fact, I personally think that this problem depends on how your partner weighs it with you, and then the two of you need to discuss the solution together.

    Actually, I think it's normal for you to like your object to be intimate with other boys.,Any boy shouldn't like it.,At that time, I thought that sometimes you need to control yourself.,That is, if he's close to his relatives, I think it's acceptable.,Anyway, the two of you need to find a way to solve this problem.,You can't carry it alone.。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Points, what else can I do.

    I'm a girl.,I don't think there's anything wrong with the fact that you shouldn't be intimate with the opposite sex.,On the contrary, it's your girlfriend.,Why do you have a boyfriend or still have to maintain an intimate relationship with other boys.,Raise a spare tire?,Or is this the so-called brother.,Under the slogan that boyfriends and male friends are different, keep an ambiguous relationship with other boys.,I don't speak well.,In fact, maybe you're one of the boys in this bunch of spare tires.,It's not impossible for this kind of thing.。

    Besides, she is your girlfriend, you have an opinion about her and should have a good chat with her, you have to see what kind of attitude she has, there are a few meanings, if she thinks that it is normal to have a few close male friends, and she may feel that your worry is distrust as a boyfriend, and immediately go to her male friend after arguing with you, then you really have to congratulate you on the green grassland above your head, and you can immediately ask to break up now.

    As a girl, I can tell you very responsibly, if you have an intimate relationship with a boy, unless he is bent, otherwise it must be a feeling for that boy, girls are particularly easy to be touched creatures, you have a close relationship, girls are willing to talk to you about everything, the first thing that comes to mind when there is difficulty is you, after a long time, you will definitely like it, no exceptions, so, if you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and your girlfriend has other intimate relationships of the opposite sex, Then you're ready to break up. But as a boy, you must also be smart and mature, don't beg for nothing, don't stalk, and most importantly, you must make sure that they really have an intimate relationship, otherwise, please don't chase the wind and shadows, don't be suspicious, please keep trust in each other, please have your demeanor.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Definitely, you like her, it's to let go of what you like, no matter how selfless you are, you want to possess it, so if she is good with others, you feel that you have been robbed of your beloved things, which is what is called jealousy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You care about her. You want to keep her to yourself, especially emotionally.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's someone you like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you like her, that's normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For BAI

    The grasp of love: casual fate

    And transform, move with nature, do with the opportunity, dao love to the heart, love to the heart empty, not persistent, not obsessed, do not own, do not occupy, consensual will be carried out, can not be at the same frequency and not forced, in order to make both parties happy and happy as the scale. The more the energy of love is released, the more it will be. Love is a kind of inner joy and selfless devotion with no strings attached.

    Love is to sacrifice oneself to fulfill others, to give full freedom to the object of love; Love is without selfishness, without complaint or regret; Love is a higher spiritual and spiritual enjoyment; Love is selfless devotion without preconditions. As long as the two are happy, do what you should do, life is short, even if you are on the verge of death, you have to dance a tango to your heart's content, so that life can have no regrets, and in this way, it is a beautiful life. So just give your love, and your girlfriend will make her own choice.

    Remember to adopt it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, I can't accept that my partner is very close to my friends of the opposite sex, love is selfish, and I want my boyfriend to be devoted to me, not to have an affair with a friend of the opposite sex.

    I can accept that my partner has friends of the opposite sex, but I can't be very close to a certain person of the opposite sex alone, after all, this kind of thing is not good, in case something bad will be done one day. For example, I can't accept that my boyfriend and the opposite sex go to dinner alone, and chat very closely in private, and if a person of the opposite sex has any problems and difficulties, he has to ask my boyfriend to solve them, which is absolutely unacceptable. I also don't believe that there is pure friendship between men and women, and it is absolutely not allowed to be a confidant, a boyfriend with this identity, it's okay to love me wholeheartedly, since you know that you have a partner, you have to keep your distance from other people of the opposite sex.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If my own partner is very close to a friend of the opposite sex, then it must be unacceptable to me, I think no one can accept such a thing, unless he also has a friend of the opposite sex, and also has a very close contact, unless the relationship between the two people is not so deep. Under normal circumstances, everyone should not accept that their partner has intimate behavior with friends of the opposite sex.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you are in a relationship, you should keep a certain distance from your friends of the opposite sex and be good for both parties. Even if the other party doesn't mind, but be responsible for yourself and the relationship.

    If it were me, I would certainly not be able to accept it. My boyfriend is not allowed to have girls, and after he dates me, his friends of the opposite sex are only his own sisters, and there are no classmates or anything like that. And it's not after I say it.

    Instead, he consciously dissolved the relationship between the opposite sex around him. I once asked him if it was worth it? To lose me, he is to lose the whole world.

    He actually called me stupid, he said how could we be separated. In his eyes, I saw self-confidence and our future.

    All in all, there is no pure friendship between a man and a woman. If one party thinks it's just that you don't find out that they like you. Who would be nice to you without a reason? Except for their own loved ones.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I can't accept it, I think there is no room for sand in my eyes when I am in love, and if my lover and the opposite sex act too intimately, most people will think about it. It's not that this person doesn't love you. Don't believe in the so-called pure friendship of the other party, there are no real friends between the opposite sex, there is always one person who likes the other person, even if you are not, but the other party is not sure to like you.

    Do you allow your lover to be with your rival in love, and you and I don't have any ideas? Any relationship that really gives true affection is cautious, that is, it will be jealous to say a few more words with an irrelevant person of the opposite sex, not to mention that you are friends? So, I really won't accept that my lover is too close to other people of the opposite sex.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't accept it, the intimacy of the relationship is easy to produce contradictions, so I think most people will not accept their boyfriends, or girlfriends and the opposite sex are more intimate, not that there is a saying called fire prevention, theft and girlfriends, everyone should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex between love, otherwise, even if the trust is good, it is impossible to maintain a long-term relationship.

    So sometimes even if the other party doesn't mind getting close to the opposite sex, you should keep a certain distance, because people are emotional, if the other party doesn't mind, sometimes we feel that he doesn't care, and we may feel that we don't like you so much, so we should still keep a certain distance to ensure trust in both parties.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I can't accept that there is no pure friendship between men and women in this world, and if my partner cares about me, he won't have too close contact with the opposite sex at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can't accept it, I don't care how good their relationship was before, but after we are together, we will be responsible for our relationship.

    After falling in love or getting married, it is a duty and responsibility to keep a certain distance from the opposite sex.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on intimacy! If you don't think it's acceptable, just say it! Don't wait until things get out of your way, and it's even harder to solve!

    Don't care what people say, the main thing is whether you can accept it in your heart! You can't die, you have to live to save face! People must learn to establish their own character!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Unacceptable, you ask her if she would mind if you were intimate with the opposite sex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course it's unacceptable, as long as it's contact with the opposite sex, we should guard against it, if it's a bit too much if it's more intimate, such behavior must be nipped in the bud, my girlfriend will be very strict with me, if there is a beautiful woman chatting with me, he may be unhappy all day, the same is true for me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Can't accept it, there is a saying called fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend family even girlfriends need to be prevented, then other people of the opposite sex also need to be prevented, if you don't pay more attention, friends of the opposite sex don't know which day it is possible to take their place.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    To be honest with you, if a guy really cares about you, he will definitely mind a lot, if he doesn't mind, he definitely doesn't care about you, sometimes you can't have both, if you and your boyfriend are well developed, you will definitely be more or less alienated from your male friend, but if he is really your buddy, he will definitely understand, if he doesn't understand, it means that he is definitely not just a buddy in the general sense, if your boyfriend is really good to you, you can grasp your love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Interpersonal communication is normal, why should you be so self-contained.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should tell the other person what is going on in your heart.

    du!Because the other party's behavior has made you feel the signs of a bad version of the dao! While expressing the right to trust the other party, you should also be tolerant of her:

    I don't mind if she has friends of the opposite sex who chat well! Since she is a friend, she can also be introduced to you! There's no need to hide it!

    will make you feel that she is ambiguous with the other party! ”

    If your one still reacts like that and is unwilling to reveal and explain to you, it proves that she really has a problem! Maybe it doesn't feel as good to you as it used to be!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'd already say goodbye to that kind of woman.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Turn your head away and then hit him to break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She may have her thoughts, but contact you or leave her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't find a good house, I'll use you first, so as not to have to buy cucumbers.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is recommended that you leave him, and the long pain will not be the short pain.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you're careful enough, you'll be able to spot the signs that she's courting another, more difficult boy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Lava of **, green from head to toe.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A boyfriend is a boyfriend, as for male girlfriends really don't exist, cherish it if you have a boyfriend, and don't have entanglements with other men.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This kind of thing, I feel like you can tell him from the bottom of your heart.

    First of all, you have to have a clear idea in your heart, who do you love? There should be a clear explanation for the other party. You can continue to be good friends, but you have to cut off other thoughts.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After having a few objects and being with other boys, cut who is not angry, and spend more time with your boyfriend.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you find a partner, you should be self-respecting, and you shouldn't always be with other boys, so that your boyfriend will misunderstand.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You have an object, and you play well with other boys, which means that the boy who plays well is your friend of the opposite sex, you have to think clearly which is your object and which is your playmate, so that your thinking is clear, it is much easier to get along, and you will be clear about yourself without saying much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Love freedom, find good boys, and work together, or be realistic, it's better to break up with the object of online dating in other places, there are too many painful things in long-distance online dating, and it will be you who will suffer in the future, 18 years old is less than the age of marriage, and the marriage law stipulates that women reach the age of marriage at the age of 20, and the development of boys who play well is reliable.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now that you have a boyfriend, you're very.

    If you like him, don't be with other boys.

    If you have a relationship, you should tell something else.

    Boy, you have a boyfriend, or you.

    My boyfriend will misunderstand if he finds out.

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