What do you most want your partner to know?

Updated on society 2024-05-24
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, for me, I most want my other half to know that it is my three views and my value orientation, because I think it is very important for two people if they decide to become a couple and become the other half of each other, then whether their three views are in line is very important. Because how to say, if the two of you have the same three views, then your views on many things will be more consistent, so there will be no differences, but if your three views are very different, then in the treatment of some sensitive things, your ideas are simply very different, so how can you still live happily together? There will definitely be a big dispute, and something as principled as the three views cannot be retreated, and it is difficult to retreat.

    Secondly, I want him to know my personality traits, because everyone's personality traits are different, they are all very different, he has his personality traits, and I also have mine personality traits, so I hope he must know what my personality is like, so that he can know what I can't be touched. Because everybody has some forbidden places, that is, things that he can't mention, and if he mentions them, then the scene becomes very awkward, and if he knows me well enough to know my character, he will know that at this time in this place he shouldn't mention these things to me, and he shouldn't mention things that I don't want to be mentioned.

    Also, I hope he can know my interests and hobbies, because I think two people should have at least one thing together, your common hobbies, because if you have common hobbies and common preferences, then you can have a topic to talk about in daily life, if everyone doesn't have the same favorite things, he likes you and you like the same, if he doesn't like what you like, and you don't like what he likes, then you must have to quarrel. You're going to argue with each other over what you like, so if he knows what I like and what I love, then he should find something about that to talk to me.

    Finally, I also hope that he knows what my life ideals and beliefs are, because everyone should have a blueprint for their own life, have an expectation, if he knows, he will be willing to help you achieve this ideal and help you achieve this wish to struggle, if he doesn't know, then he doesn't know why he should work hard, and who he should work for, if he knows, he will understand that many things I do are just to achieve my wishes, So I think this can reduce a lot of disputes, so that our feelings, avoid a lot of mistakes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think everyone has privacy, there are some things that I don't want others to know, Xiao Huang's things, I should know that I know, what I shouldn't know I don't know, so to speak, I haven't felt that he has something to hide from me, and there is nothing I'm curious about, except for the last time he told me that there was a girl in their school who liked him and kept chasing him, I was already with Xiao Huang at that time, but this girl kept insisting on not giving up.

    I'm more curious about the girl's appearance, I want to know if Xiao Huang has ever liked a girl, what kind of person is that, just out of curiosity, there is no purpose. Strange to say, the elementary school and junior high school are in the same school, why don't I have an impression of him? Maybe I was a good student at that time, I didn't ask about the world, I wanted to know what he was like in the past, was he naughty, and what was the state of class like?

    Wait, I'm curious. I know that Xiao Huang has a ** dream in his heart, his ideal is to be admitted to the ** college in Guangzhou, although I don't know what his clear goal is, but I can only choose to support his choice. People with ideals are always more combative than people who have nothing to do, if I can, I want to witness his growth all the way, this is the thing I want to know about him the most, there is no one, I want to know what he will be like in the future, and whether there will be many girls chasing him in the future.

    Xiao Huang often says that I am stupid, but I don't know how smart I am, but I like him to act a little stupid. No one knows what will happen in the future, but I know that if you don't persevere, there will be no future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The most important thing I want my partner to know is that I've been working hard and I'm not playing.

    Every time I am working hard, my partner always thinks that I am playing, that I am not taking care of the children, that I am not taking care of the family, and that I have a straight face every time. I have all this in my heart, and I just hope that my efforts will be rewarded soon, so that I can put this reward in front of him and let him know that I am not playing and that I have my own things to do. I've had enough!

    He kept a straight face every time I was working, and then he lost his temper with me, saying that I was not responsible for my family at all, and I felt that he was irresponsible to me.

    In the past, when I was taking care of children, he said that I had no fighting spirit, I was not motivated, and he felt that I had no money, and he was too tired to earn money alone. When I decided to help him share the burden and make money with him, but he hated me for not taking care of the family, I wanted to tell him that I am not omnipotent, don't always feel that I have to work and take care of the family at the same time, no one can play themselves so perfectly, unless I am exhausted. I'm still young, and I don't want to make myself so tired.

    So when I'm working, don't keep a straight face on me, I'm not stupid. You know, I'm trying to do my thing, and I'm not getting any worse than him for my efforts. I figured out that I wasn't playful, and I was working hard for my life.

    Don't feel that I won't be recognized for my hard work, and I won't appreciate my hard work. It makes me feel very tired.

    The thing I want my partner to know the most is that I have been working hard to pave the way for my future life, I am not playing, I am serious about work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I want my partner to know that I love him very much, and I want to be good to him for the rest of my life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I most hope that the other half can know my little temper, understand my little emotions, when I am angry, just coax me, in fact, I am very easy to be soft-hearted.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I used to watch the prank kiss, which was the Taiwan version of Ariel Lin and Zheng Yuanchang, in which Jiang Naoki had a line:

    Xiangqin never knew how much I loved her. ”

    When I was a child, I felt very sweet and poignant, and now I still feel very sweet, but I also feel a little abusive in Naoki Xiangqin's love, always Xiangqin shows more love, and Naoki will make Xiangqin more insecure relatively speaking. In their love, it is enough for the other person to know that I love you so much. Probably I was more influenced by such sweet idol dramas, and watching romantic fantasy idol dramas since I was a child makes me feel that I just want my other half to understand that I really like him.

    I'm not a very straightforward person, but I may not like to be coquettish and clingy like some girls, and I will even dislike this kind of intimacy a little, that is, sometimes I am afraid of such intimacy as a couple, so since we met, he is always confessing that he is happy and he is always making me happy. I think I like him, but sometimes when I think of him inexplicably, I suddenly feel a little sweet and poke my heart.

    I've never been in a relationship, and I don't think I can make a good girlfriend, but sometimes this inadvertent heartbeat makes me feel like I like him, I like him so much, and I want him to know about it. I also want to be able to hug and eat the dishes you cook when we meet next time, and you always say that it is too wasteful to cook alone, so I will accompany you to eat in the future, if you want.

    If you want, I am willing to accompany you to learn and exercise together, I am also willing to learn the language well, I am also willing to see the meaning of freedom of speech that you want to say, you are willing to accompany me to climb the mountains and walk, I am willing to accompany you to open up the wasteland and build a house, but the premise of all this is, I want you to know.

    I hope you know that I like you too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people say that his only wish is to hope that his other half can have the same heart as himself, so that the two can fall in love with each other, and this kind of love can last longer. This answer is actually very much agreed by many people, and it can be seen that many people's biggest requirement for their other half is to hope that there can be love, so that this relationship is worth it and can be relied on.

    Many people feel that their love is worse, probably because of the long time, the relationship between two people will fade, and even some people may not have the idea of falling in love to maintain this relationship at the beginning, just playing, such love is bound to not last long, and it will also hurt many people's hearts, so people hope to get a true love, get a relationship that can last long, or even a good relationship for a lifetime. So, a lot of people are very hopeful about that.

    Some people also said that what they wanted to say to their future partner the most was to hope that he could arrive sooner, because it was too hard to live alone, and in the days when they lived alone, they experienced a lot of things, and even some made them very anxious and painful, but no one comforted them. And I have always met the wrong people, making me feel that there is no warmth in this world, and I have lost confidence in love, so I hope that my true love can come as soon as possible, so that I can regain some enthusiasm for this world.

    It can be seen that such a person is also very miserable, and he must have had a hard time alone, and then he may have been in love before, but he met all bad people, and he didn't meet one who was really suitable for him, and he didn't meet someone who was really good to himself, so I really hope that the other half I met by that time can come earlier.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My biggest expectation for my significant other is not to disturb my personal time and living habits.

    We are only in a romantic relationship, two separate individuals, and even if we form a family, we are two complete people. I want to eat, drink, and sleep, and don't have to wake me up to eat when I'm sleeping, and don't have to let me go to sleep when I'm working. As an adult, I have the right to choose when I eat and sleep, and not to correct my living habits in the name of love, although I can list a lot of reasons, for the sake of my physical health, but in fact, for me, it is just a disturbance and constraint, I will eat when I am hungry, I will sleep when I am sleepy, no.

    Remind every three or five minutes.

    And the current network is so developed, you can check it at any time.

    If you have something to say, you want to say the time and place, don't flash my screen in a mess, I'm busy, I'm too busy to reply to you.

    Two people are very happy when they are together, and they are separated for the sake of missing and getting together, you can't wait to brush up on your sense of existence every minute for 24 hours, and you don't even give me the opportunity to miss, so how can I look forward to the next reunion.

    If the price of spending a life with a person is the loss of self and freedom, it is better to be single for a lifetime, the lover is not a private property, let alone plasticine for you to knead, I live.

    It is impossible to change the habits of life in twenty or thirty years for another person, if you are together, you will get together and you will be separated, and respect is more important than love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I have a lot of expectations, like being able to be honest with each other, being able to give enough space, and being able to support my career. At the same time, I also hope to be able to rely on each other for a lifetime.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Well, the other half can be responsible, able to afford the responsibilities of a family, able to honor both parents, raise children seriously, and be faithful to marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    **I have seen too much, I always hope that the other half of your life is a fairy of your dreams, omnipotent, but in real life, there is no perfect person, so the expectations cannot be too high, otherwise the disappointment will be greater in the future, my expectations are:

    1.You can not be good, but you must be kind, you must be loving and filial!

    2.You can do no housework, but you must be able to run the house!

    3.The other half must be generous, supportive and tolerant of my work and life!

    4.You can not have a job, but you must keep your home in order!

    Everyone's expectations of their significant other may be different, but it's a must for two people to support each other!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you are in love or marriage, you should still maintain your independence of thought, maintain your own social circle, and don't lose yourself because of love or marriage.

    Two people make themselves better because of each other's existence, usually pursue their own work ideals or career development, and share and communicate together when they have time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as he has a certain amount of responsibility for the family, he can take on the responsibilities of a family. Be able to trust and tolerate each other. It's good to have filial piety to your parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Gentle and considerate, up to the hall, down to the kitchen, can take care of my feelings, as long as the appearance is clean.

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