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I'm not an expert, but I have an internet addiction Why, I'll summarize it below.
Life is depressed, and children don't have this.
It should be a hobby, a hobby of learning, a hobby of playing, a hobby of online games, and an online game is new, and you control how long he can control it, and he will still be in contact with it sooner or later.
Instead of playing in front of your so-called adults, it's better to go to an Internet café to play.
In the past, my parents just beat me, and it was useless, but now that I'm older, who can control me. It's only now that I feel like I'm wrong.
But I think you should find out what your kids like about online gaming.
The main thing is that boys like guns and like martial arts from an early age.
All online games can satisfy their fantasies, understand, can't be satisfied in reality, it's fantasy in disguise, our fantasies.
You can shoot and kill, you can be a hero, you can make simple friends.
Fantasy in disguise: What you have to do is to get him to like and accept something else, such as enrolling in a tutorial class (which he likes).
For example, computer animation can be learned by a child, and maybe his hobby of computers will change.
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It depends on what your child plays, it's easy to play games, you spend some money, find a few people to guard the corpse professionally, as soon as your child goes online, chase and kill him, let him go online for 10 hours, 9 hours and 55 minutes in death, so that he can't mix in the game circle, and then it has been induced.
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Go out on a trip with him, you will see a different him, and then you will understand what to do.
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Don't talk to them when they're online, wait until they're done and then tell your child that it's not good to do that, and let him finish his homework before going online.
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You can tell your child that this is very incorrect, and if you do it often, it may affect your child's future, and may even affect your child's thoughts for the rest of your life.
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Communicate with your child in a gentle tone, let your child know the dangers of Internet addiction, and listen to your child's thoughts.
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In this case, it is useful to understand the reasons why he likes to surf the Internet, and give corresponding help to control, change this wrong habit of life, and parents should play a role in supervision, and limit the time he spends on the Internet every day, because he has a corresponding impact on his future success and work for a long time, and it will also hurt his eyes.
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I think psychological counseling is very useful, as long as the control of this aspect is strengthened, and parents should also play a positive and correct guidance in the daily life cultivation of the cave, so that children can realize that there will not be too much hair in the Shen Chakra fan network, which will also have a serious impact on their future health.
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Useful can help children quit by understanding the reasons for their internet addiction.
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<> Internet addiction, to a certain extent, may also be a product of a lack or failure of family education. Children at home, by their parents' side, but do not feel love and companionship, and even, only scolding, blowing, and being recognized and respected, this is a human instinct. Because there is this lack in the heart, there will be this need and psychological motivation.
In the illusory world of the Internet, he can gain a sense of existence through free choice. He can get a kind of psychological pressure release and relaxation through online games. Let him find a good feeling.
Therefore, when children become addicted to the Internet, parents should first self-reflect. Whether it is because of the pressure of livelihood, ignoring the companionship and care for children. And whether there is something wrong with your own education method, and it does not make the child feel warm and safe.
First of all, it is necessary to adjust. But those families who spend time with their children every day and accompany their children attentively, the growth of children is generally smoother. For those children from left-behind families, there are generally more problems.
Children who are addicted to the Internet are generally more introverted, and some even have low self-esteem. The character of this banquet companion is generally related to the high-pressure education style of the parents. The parents' recognition is not enough, and the requirements for their children are relatively high and strict.
Let the child live a depressed or aggrieved life. And the Internet search can help him relieve this pressure. And some children who are addicted to the Internet do so because they lack the necessary attention.
In order to get attention, he uses this more out-of-the-ordinary behavior to get the attention and attention of his parents. In the network, he can also get companionship, attention, and even respect from his peers. This is also the reason why they are addicted to the internet.
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The first is to accompany the child, communicate with the child, solve the child's problems, the second is to understand the cause of addiction, prescribe the right medicine, and the third is to guide the child in a timely manner, do not force the child!
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Children should be given a time to play with their phones, so that's fine; Let the child divert his attention, usually be sure to encourage the child more, let the child communicate with other people, so that the child can get rid of Internet addiction.
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It must be to let him work, that is, not to let him be idle, and you can usually encourage him to let him study.
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House arrest at home is not good, that will give the child a psychological shadow, and then ask a psychiatrist to have a deliberate crime and correct the suspicion of mistakes, you can take the child out for a walk, or participate in sports activities or discover his interests, so that the child's attention is diverted from the Internet, more accompany and communicate, even if it is online, it is also online with him, so that the child feels close to his parents and wants to communicate with his parents, which should help the child get out of rebellion and get out of the Internet, Then, in terms of learning, learn little by little, plus teachers and parents communicate more and encourage more. Equipping children with the right values and a sense of social responsibility may be beneficial to their development.
Do what you like, focus on what you do.