Is it okay to keep a rebellious and school averse child under house arrest all the time?

House arrest at home is not good, that will give the child a psychological shadow, and then ask a psychiatrist to have a deliberate crime and correct the suspicion of mistakes, you can take the child out for a walk, or participate in sports activities or discover his interests, so that the child's attention is diverted from the Internet, more accompany and communicate, even if it is online, it is also online with him, so that the child feels close to his parents and wants to communicate with his parents, which should help the child get out of rebellion and get out of the Internet, Then, in terms of learning, learn little by little, plus teachers and parents communicate more and encourage more. Equipping children with the right values and a sense of social responsibility may be beneficial to their development.

Don't do this, it will do more harm than good. First of all, the child is a human being, he has his own thinking, and children at this age do things impulsively and recklessly. To educate a teenager with problems, it is advisable to be sparse in methods rather than blocking, and to let him slowly quit Internet addiction.

To keep him occupied, being locked up at home all day will only aggravate his bad behavior.

No, you can't!!

First, rebellion is a situation that happens to every child. As parents, we just need to respect our children's ideas and communicate patiently.

Second, boredom in school is common, and learning is definitely boring. The reason why children don't like to learn is because they are addicted to the Internet and like to get short-term pleasure from games.

Third, as long as the problem of Internet addiction is solved, everything will be easy. Here it is advisable to go step by step. Say hello to your child every day and play 10 minutes less. Then let him read more and exercise more outdoors. If possible, you can cultivate a hobby.

No, there is a lot of reason for children's rebellion caused by parents, and you should find a reasonable way to tell your child the importance of learning and let your child fall in love with learning. Talk to your child more often, understand and respect your child. To help children get out of the rebellious period, blind house arrest will only backfire.

No, I hope you can teach him slowly, use some things to influence him, after all, it's a rebellious period, don't make too radical moves.

It's not good, children's Internet addiction is caused by improper parental education methods, and the first thing to change is the parents, so it's useless to treat children like this.

Different measures should be taken in different contexts:

1. If the child is just infected with certain bad habits:

Solution: Be attentive and guide more.

2. If the child is infected with some bad habits, and there are one or two prominent problem behaviors (rubbing, willfulness, etc.).

Solution: Conduct 1-to-1 family education consultation and directly provide parents with tailor-made education methods.

3. If the child is infected with a lot of bad habits and seriously affects social life (school boredom, Internet addiction, suspension of school, etc.).

Solution: 1-to-1 family education counseling + psychological counseling.

4. Children are infected with a lot of bad habits, which seriously affect social life (school boredom, Internet addiction, suspension of school, etc.), and the parent-child relationship is particularly bad (not communicating with parents, frequent parent-child conflicts, and even running away from home).

Solution: Educational counseling or parental attendance is no longer effective, only parents can participate in psychological counseling + children participate in psychological counseling or participate in family counseling.

5. Children are infected with many bad habits, which seriously affect social life (school boredom, Internet addiction, suspension of school, etc.), parent-child relationship is particularly bad (not communicating with parents, frequent parent-child conflicts, and even running away from home), and mental symptoms (suicidal behavior, hallucinations, hypochondriasis, etc.).

Solution: Psychological counseling for parents + psychological counseling for children + psychotropic drugs**.

The overall solution idea:

When there is a conflict between educating children and parent-child relationships, and one must be abandoned, it is education that we must give up, not relationships. That is, nothing is more important in the process of educating children than the parent-child relationship.

When a child has a psychological problem, it is not that there is a problem with his brain, but that there is a problem with the relationship. The parent-child relationship is precisely the core motivation for children's learning and life.

When parents reason, read, listen to lectures, and learn educational methods are all ineffective, there is only one way to help children and families, and that is to participate in psychological counseling.

It takes time and costs:

For families with a relatively complete family structure and relatively harmonious emotions: 2-5 consultations (1-2 consultations per week, 50 minutes per consultation, 200 yuan each time) require a total cost of 400-1000 yuan.

Necessary conditions to solve the problem:

With the participation of parents, parents need to pay not money, but physical strength, time, patience, and the ability to distinguish between real and false "psychological experts".

You can't force it.,Adjust the picture quality to the lowest.,The sound is the lowest.,Delete it after playing.,Play it down.。

If this kind of child has Internet addiction, I think we should help him quit Internet addiction, and he has learned some very bad things from the Internet, so you can just cut off the Internet at home. Then eat or something, don't give him extra money, let him go online, and if he has the ability, he will earn his own money.

If children often have Internet addiction, they should communicate and communicate with their children well, tell them about the dangers of surfing the Internet, tell them the correct way to surf the Internet, and communicate more with their children.

When parents choose a school for their children, they must visit the school to see if the school is a regular school.

In addition to choosing a formal school, parents should not always focus on their children's weaknesses and compare their children's weaknesses with the strengths of other children. When contacting children, parents should try to find out as much as possible about their children's strengths and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

Although I have not seen a real Internet addiction school, it can be seen from the revelations on the Internet that the militarized management only forcibly suppresses the children's desire to go online, and some even use corporal punishment, abuse and detention to make the children submit, causing extremely serious psychological trauma to the children. I don't agree with militarized management to quit Internet addiction, I have also been a soldier, complete militarized management is not suitable for everyone, I still think that people with Internet addiction let psychological counselors to counsel, the most important thing is to pay more attention to children's learning and life, and cultivate children's independent life ability. I think that children have Internet addiction, to a large extent, because they lack the love of their parents, do not have a clear life goal, and have the right hobbies.

Also, don't trick your child into going to those so-called Internet addiction schools, even if the correction is really successful, it will be at the cost of family affection, and it may also cause psychological damage, and the gains outweigh the losses. I know you're either asking this because you don't have time to correct your child, or you're dragging on the addiction school, but I'm still thinking you're the former. Take more time to accompany your children to study, travel, let your children do more housework and then give pocket money, and set a time for work and rest.

It's better to be sparse than blocked. . .

It is recommended to find a remote transformation institution like Dezhi Teenager, according to their way, parents can subtly change their children in their usual relationship, why send them to a terrifying place like an Internet addiction school.

My brother is also in this situation, and then he was sent to Shenzhen Xinyuan Education, and now he is still studying there, these times to see him communicate with the letter at home, I feel that it has indeed changed a lot!

In life, when faced with a serious Internet addiction in their children, some parents like to forcibly stop their children from playing with computers, or directly consider sending their children to Zhaozhi Middle School to quit Internet addiction. Because the child is addicted to the game computer for a long time, the child directly abandons learning. For most parents, when educating their children during adolescence, parents realize that their children are very difficult to control.

Therefore, because it is difficult for parents to control their children's play with computers, they have to consider sending their children directly to an Internet addiction school.

For some parents nowadays, when they see their children going to school, they don't want to go to school hard, but skip class every day to go to the Internet café, but because they want their children to study hard. When children study hard, children will always skip class and go out to play games in Internet cafes during class. Because the child is addicted to games for a long time, the child's studies are wasted.

Parents want their children to be able to quit Internet addiction immediately, so they will consider compulsorily stopping their children from playing with computers.

Today's children like to play games when they come home from school, and most children will feel that the Internet speed at home is relatively stuck, so they will prefer to go to the Internet café. Nowadays, children have a high chance of going to an Internet café to play games, but parents don't want their children to waste their time playing games. Some children can also see their children's intelligence when playing games, but parents think that their children are not using their intelligence to do their business.

When parents have no choice but to do so, they will consider sending their children directly to an internet addiction school. The so-called Internet addiction rehabilitation schools are full of parents of some undesirable elements in society, and in order to let their children study well, they can only consider sending their children to closed schools. Children who stay in closed schools for a long time will want to study hard, but parents should take a look at how their children are doing in the school for Internet addiction.

It is because parents know that Internet addiction is a special horror for children, and once a child has Internet addiction, he may never be able to quit, and the child's life may be ruined, so parents will forcibly send their children to quit Internet addiction.

Because parents don't understand education, they think that only in this way can they help their children quit Internet addiction.

Because parents feel that they are unable to manage their children and are unable to do so, they will use this method.

You can send it, but you have to communicate with your child in advance and don't make him more rebellious.

What to do if a high school child is rebellious and addicted to the internet and doesn't go to school.

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Hello, what should I do if my child has been off school for almost a year in his first year of high school and still doesn't want to go to school?

Children are addicted to the Internet and are very dependent on mobile phones.

Now I work outside, do things during the day and play with my mobile phone at night.

Hello, it is a pleasure to answer your question, regarding your question, I think there are several ways to do it:

1.First of all, communicate with the child's teacher and ask about the child's specific situation, hoping that the teacher can observe and care for the child.

2.Have a good talk with your child calmly, and hope that he will take responsibility for his life and continue to go back to school.

He knew the truth, and we talked to him, but he was very dependent on his mobile phone, and he felt that he would still not be able to read, and he was unwilling to change.

When I first took a break from school, I promised that we would come back and continue studying, but now that I don't want to study, can I send it to a school for teenagers who are rebellious?

You can send it, but you have to communicate with your child in advance and don't make him more rebellious.