I hate some people, but I prefer to spend the holidays with them

I've been in this situation before. Here's advice for you: give yourself a mental cue.

It worked very well for me. Actually, I'm worse than you, I was very unhappy with my roommates because of some problems before, and you think about it every day to face a face that you are most tired of living every day, isn't it very painful. I couldn't adjust for a long time, it was very painful.

Later, I figured out that since you have to get along every day, it is actually yourself who hurts when you are angry with each other, and if you hate a person, it must be that there is something incompatible in your relationship, but it is definitely not a person's fault, after I empathized, I found that in fact, it was not as bad as I thought, and my heart was cheerful. Since staying together is a fact that can't be changed for a short time, why not make yourself happy? So, so far, we're on good terms.

Sometimes people look back at the people and things you used to hate, only to find that they are more naïve. Hehe, so, you might as well be like me, try to accept things from a different angle if you can't change them

Turn hateful into liking and accept them as much as possible.

Me too. Dragging? Smiling?

That's all.

Find a book to read, play with your phone, watch TV, whatever you want, and pass the time.

If you annoy them, don't look at them.

Me too, like my obnoxious grandma.

No way. Endure.

Hating others will only bring unpleasantness to yourself, so why bother?

Try to respect everyone and you will find yourself smarter.

Her experience of harm to you shows that she knows that you are a person who only thinks about you and does not dare to do anything. If you are also in harm's way, he will not dare to do anything to you. If your husband really loves you, tell him the truth, maybe he will say that you are careless, but how can you know if you don't try.

Don't be afraid of her, the more you are afraid of her, the more she will ride on the light neck.

You should sit together, you should laugh and laugh, she scratches you with words, if you are not angry, then she must be angry, and she can't say anything, she can only sulk, and you are not angry.

Under the test, if others say cool things, you just pretend to be stupid, happy, she can't do anything about you! If you don't say that you are wise and stupid, you should pretend to be stupid.

As for my husband, don't put pressure on him, he is already suffering from splints As for how people dress up, how is it outside, don't worry about it, it's not your husband who is a cuckold, what should you do.

If your husband doesn't understand you, it means that you don't trust each other, so it's better to leave.

Since you know that she has a lover outside, and you don't care. You've done a great job of that. Why bother with anything else? The heart relaxes and pulls.

Call a few people, beat her up, and then beat her up.

In fact, whether it's a blind date or a blind date, you don't know each other. Now there are many ** who provide services for marriage in the network, and some are doing well. It's all one way.

Now the problem is that the environment around you makes you stressed. But I want to ask you, do you have a desire for love? Are you ready for marriage?

In fact, everyone is different, and there will be someone waiting for you in the world, but sometimes sooner or later. But be careful, be aware of the opportunity, and be careful to cherish it!

Love is also something that needs to be learned, not born :)

For the whole extended family.

You should tell her about having a lover!

It's good for everyone to speak up! Try.

Anyway, it won't be a few more days, so bear with me. Judging from what you wrote, you don't usually have a lot of contact with her. Then turn a blind eye. In a few days, you can go back to your own life! Don't let her affect your own life!

If a woman's words are heard in reverse, she should like you.

If she doesn't like you, she will avoid you, and how can she ask you to hold her hand.

In short, if you have the courage to chase, you can't chase after you.

Look at what she said when she said that! If you say it in a coquettish tone, it's shy, and if you say it angrily, it's hating you....

Because you only use your mouth and don't use your hands, of course you hate it.

Girls like to say that.,Say I hate it.,Actually, I like it.。。。

People are like that, more or less self-centered. In a survey conducted by mobile companies, the most common algebra used in mobile phone calls was "I". Everyone wants the world to revolve around him, but in fact, he can't change anything, in the end, all he can change is himself.

Stick to your principles and go your own way.

In fact, everyone has people who they hate, and I have too, for example, my aunt is very fierce and hateful, right, or just keep silent with the person you hate, and ignore her.

Your heart needs to be praised and affirmed. In other words, you are not a confident person.

You hate other people, but you want the people you hate to talk to and pass the time with you. It also shows that you are a person who is not willing to be lonely and clever.

When you realize this filial piety, you should learn to restrain yourself. Don't let yourself be fake, and don't learn to take your feelings seriously.

That means you still have a certain emotional foundation for him, and now you hate him, maybe he's your former friend or something.

I feel from what you say that you should have a good life. Because tears are generally not fake, they can also be felt. You should give him more trust.

Nuisance. I have something to say. so as not to feel lonely.

No one loves you for no reason, and no one hates you for no reason.

When you feel that the people around you are targeting you, you must be very uncomfortable in your heart, and no one likes to be ostracized. As a result, you are full of displeasure and begin to reject others.

Relationships are like looking in a mirror. Outside the mirror is you, and inside the mirror is the people you say are around you. If you smile in the mirror, the person in the mirror must be smiling at you, and if you make a disgusted expression in the mirror, the person in there must also look at you with a disgusted expression.

However, let's analyze this rejection together, how many people really reject you? How much do you guess others are rejecting you? And how much is because you reject others, so others reject you?

If you don't make an analysis, when you completely blame the current situation on others, you will not be in a good mood, you will be depressed, your expression will be disgusted, at this time, how will others react to you? People have very sensitive senses, and people perceive that you are disgusted with them, how will they treat us?

Every day, before you step out of the house, smile in the mirror and your mood will improve with your smile! Then with a smile, you can face the people around you and see how they will treat you in the mirror.

Hope you're happy!

This world is fake, life is like a play, drama is like life, a play is a life, a flower is a world, go to see more of this kind of thing, combined with experience, I believe you will find the answer you want, in this world, you are the protagonist, everyone else is an actor, you can look at Truman's world, I can only say so much