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It's also good to always think about what others are better than you.
As the saying goes, take the strengths of others and make up for their own shortcomings.
But you just think about what others are good about, but you don't want to make yourself good.
You will definitely say that the family was born beautiful, and the family background was better than me when it was born.
But what's the use of that, the so-called acquired factor is very important.
You say that a man is beautiful and puts him in a chemistry lab every day.
Look, it's still over in a few days, no matter how good a person's family is, it's not their own after all.
Maybe one day he will be defeated overnight.
Don't feel inferior, don't be envious, really think he's so good, then think about how bad you are.
As long as you are willing to work hard, no one is an opponent Have you ever heard such a thing?
Only after being burned by fire can the phoenix appear, and the direction of the headwind will be more suitable for flying.
I'm sure you're good, so think about your own excellence, don't feel inferior, and start to be confident now.
You know, confident people are the most beautiful, as long as you are confident, no one will say that you are not beautiful.
It's okay to be envious of others, but don't turn into jealousy, and learn to ask for it in envious classmates.
Turn the envy of others' good into your own trust me, as long as the kung fu deep iron pestle is sharpened into a needle.
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Vanity and low self-esteem are common to all people.
But some people will change themselves because of vanity and low self-esteem.
As for whether it is good or bad, it depends on the individual.
You have the same problem.
You continue to think about vanity, inferiority, and keep thinking
Or do you use these two to motivate yourself?
Others get what they get, their parents give it, and they also work hard to get it.
Since your parents can't give it, you have to rely on your own efforts to get it, are you ready for that?
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No matter what class you are in, if you are optimistic, you can be ridiculous and proud of your natural struggle.
Jealousy, envy is everyone's heart, don't be jealous, those are not their own.
It's best that the most important thing for you at the moment is to be yourself, take care of yourself, no matter how good they are, it has nothing to do with you, no matter how bad they are, if you can't do it yourself, it's boring to care about others.
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It's called greed.
Living in an environment but in contact with an environment that is better than yourself, wanting to change but unable to change.
But if you have never experienced an environment worse than yourself, then there is no such thing as happiness.
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Is there any way to change the established facts, but to enjoy them silently. A person has a wonderful person.
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Read more inspirational books, tell yourself every day that you are the best, you do your job well, others will really appreciate you, and it is useless to keep being sheep dung and eggs.
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You completely forgot about yourself. Be yourself and don't let your soul run away.
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Strengthen self-cultivation, I used to be the same as you, now I am both confident and not vanity, but occasionally I am in a bad mood, haha, no one is perfect.
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Take the path of the mean, call the people who go to the extreme, twists and turns.
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Be true to yourself and leave others alone. Don't care about other people's eyes.
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Me too, and I was about to bring it up and ask me to help me at home, hehe!
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Don't think like that, people are better than people, I don't know how to say it, anyway, don't do it.
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Everyone has a little vanity to some extent, and the same is true for people with low self-esteem. People with low self-esteem are divided into two kinds, one is self-defeating, always likes to compare their own lack of speed with the advantages of others, and feels that nothing is as good as others, no matter how hard they try, they always count and live in the shadow of others.
The other is because of low self-esteem, but self-esteem is very strong, too sensitive to certain things, especially concerned about the evaluation of others, do not believe that they can achieve it through hard work, so they want to hope to get what they want through a quick way, showing vanity is stronger than the average person. To overcome vanity, we must distinguish the boundaries between self-esteem and vanity, and correctly recognize our own strengths and weaknesses; Must be an honest person; You must cultivate your own realistic qualities.
After all, long-term low self-esteem will cause oneself to be psychologically unhealthy, and it will also lead to a physical unhealthy state. It is harmful to oneself and not beneficial.
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This may be because people who regret low self-esteem want to receive external affirmation and recognition to alleviate their inferiority complex. They can gain some self-confidence and satisfaction by showing off their appearance, wealth, or social status to attract the attention and appreciation of others. This vanity may not be true self-confidence, but rather a mask for an inferiority complex within.
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Hello, the relationship between inferiority and vanity, these two are the first to have inferiority before vanity. Low self-esteem arises through comparison, feeling inferior to others and being ridiculed by others. Low self-esteem is caused by academic performance or economic conditions, physical appearance, and so on.
And vanity is the love of comparison, the love of showing off. Sometimes exaggerated bragging. Vanity is built on low self-esteem.
He wanted to cover up his inferiority through vanity. <>
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