What should I do if my family is not warm when I lose my mom 35

Updated on society 2024-05-08
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In the end, there is only one death. Isn't it fair to say that in the end it is sad to end? When you are alive, whether you overcome pain or pursue the joy of love, or in the end it ends with death, everything is reduced to nothingness.

    So, what are people born for? In the end, it is inevitable that you will die. It was absolutely impossible to fight against such an eternal thing as death.

    The flowers bloom and then wither ...... againThe stars are bright, but the light fades. The earth, the sun, the entire galaxy, and even the universe will be wiped out. Compared to these things, a person's life is like a matter of an instant.

    In such a moment, man is born, laughing, crying, fighting, hurting, joyful, sad, hating love. Then step into death Everything is just a fleeting encounter, and no one can escape the eternal sleep of death! And these have never left the nirvana realm of normality, happiness, self, and purity.

    Life and death are nirvana, and troubles are also bodhi.

    The meaning of human life, simply put, is to reproduce offspring and let the dominant genes be inherited. A person's life is limited, but life can be continued through future generations, so that the whole life can be endless, which is the most basic meaning of life.

    When you die, your descendants come to continue your life, and your descendants have your shadow in every action and every word in their lives. Descending generations and descendants, it's the same.

    I don't know if you read the manga or not, but the manga "Chess Soul", which once made almost all children in Japan start to learn Go, finally understood the meaning of God's existence when it finally disappeared.

    You live for the whole family.

    It's for your own life.

    Don't be a setback in life.

    Just give up hope of living.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Little brother: Any words of comfort in front of you are pale, I hope you can remember a sentence: "Heaven descends on the people, so the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically, so they are tempted to endure and benefit what they cannot."

    There is no threshold that cannot be crossed! Do it yourself! For your father, for your deceased mother, and more importantly, for your own ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I give you the goal. First, take good care of your dad. Second, read well.

    This is the only way out. If you're lucky, after graduating from college. Go to the country as a cadre.

    Determined to improve the medical security system!! I believe that your efforts can make a difference in the world.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take good care of your dad and then find your mom.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ay! What am I living for? Not even a goal to strive for! Dad is going to sell the house, what sense of struggle do I have! What am I going to do.

    What do people live for? I don't think we are noble enough to be in the realm of world peace Let's just say that for the better of our own lives There is no goal You can't blame others What your father does has nothing to do with whether you struggle or not Are you still in school Or don't you study anymore How do you plan to farm well in the future? Or come out to work?

    Or something else? Have you thought about this? Life is your own, and the people here are sympathetic to you, but sympathy is useless, sympathy doesn't change anything, and the only one who can change your own situation is you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The child is very sympathetic to you, and now he doesn't know how to comfort you. In short, you must be strong, the important thing is to encourage your father, and work with him to live a good family, you are not nothing, your mother is gone, your father is still alive, you are not small, both of you are stronger, you will definitely be able to get out of the predicament. The days will definitely get better and better!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. Your dad is a real man! He wants to sell the supermarket and the house, which shows that he regards paying off his debts as the biggest thing. Your father's spirit may also fall, but he does not let his personality fall! Man!

    2. Your dad is fragile now, that's why he drinks. He was a pillar, but now he can't hold on, and he needs you to hold him up! You, to be an iron man, to be a steel man, you have to let your father see hope!

    You have to embody your spirit of not bending over everywhere, and you will not admit defeat to death, and you must understand and care for him no matter how your father drinks. Your mother's death has crushed your father!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Hold on to this time, Dad is already like this, you have to fight even more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your situation is truly tragic.

    But you have to stick with it.

    Actually, if it were me, I wouldn't have persevered.

    I don't think people can be too fragile, and once they are fragile, then there are too many unbearable pains in life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A friend once said, "Heaven is strong, a gentleman is self-improving, and a man should be self-reliant, bear pain, and find happiness."

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to be strong.

    You're luckier than me

    When I was 8 months old, my mom left me behind.

    I didn't have a mother for so many years.

    But I want to say that I'm happy too

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The thunder at home wants to listen to Lao Dou's words, and if you want to be a beggar, you will be a beggar.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pay more attention to each other, pay attention to all kinds of details, don't worry about small things, and learn to be generous and tolerant.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Unite the family to care for the mother and create warmth.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Live in the moment, learning must keep up, so that you will have the ability to live the future life, I have also had such an experience as you, so don't complain. Nian Wei.

    Maybe because of your mother, it has caused you some influence on the conversation, you just learn to be strong, your father is not easy to raise you, you have to learn to communicate with him more.

    You said that you are an ignorant friend, if you feel that it is necessary to make friends, treat them well, and if you don't expect to train friends, you will have less contact, which is good for you.

    I hope you get rid of your troubles soon.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Pampering and humiliation are not shocked, gains and losses are unintentional, everything is as long as it is natural, and there is no need for more external forms of dust. In this way, you can get the natural peace, comfort, comfort and comfort of the body and mind, and a happy life will follow. Going with the flow is often the best way to deal with the world.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is it easy for you to eat and study? Don't be born in the blessings, not only blessings, no one cares about trying. If you don't study well, you can ask for a tutor, and if you have difficulties, tell your father, not only how others know.

    If you have something to do, can you tell your friends that you can't be with your father? Only your dad has nothing to do with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To be honest, I really don't understand, I'll just put it simply, you are dissatisfied with your relatives, and you can't say clearly about the other friend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You kid, they all love you, let go of the baggage in your heart and accept them.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't think too much about it, and you won't have to worry about it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Mom and Dad Singing: Liang Chao.

    No one told me. Nobody answered me, Dad, you're a** no one told me. No one answered me, Mom, why do you have a warm home, why do others have a warm home, why everyone else has a father and mother, why am I the only one who is lonely and guarding an empty home.

    I can't hear him* calling in the morning, so get up.

    In the evening, I couldn't see my father, waiting for my son to come home from school.

    No one asked me about my warmth and coldness.

    No one gave me new hope.

    No one shared the joy of my heart with me.

    No one wiped away my tears.

    Dad, Mom, you're a**.

    But I can hear the call of the child, come back, come back.

    Dad, Mom, you're a**.

    But I can hear the call of the child, come back, come back.

    Dad, Mom, you're a**.

    But I can hear the call of the child, come back, come back.

    Dad, Mom, you're a**.

    But I can hear the call of the child, come back, come back.

    Pander to. Come back, ah. Come back. Come back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Mom and Dad Singing: Liang Chao.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be able to understand your situation. First of all, you have to endure your mother's temper. After a while, I am tired of tossing, and it is estimated that it will be better.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's better to sit down and talk as a family, and if Dad really doesn't have contact with that person, then let's see what Daddy's attitude is. After all, it's all a family, talk to your mother, you are the only relative by your mother's side when something like this happens, she feels that she has lost her sense of security and is naturally in a bad mood, so she can only vent her emotions with the people around her, understand!! Talk to them what you think, good luck and keep up the !!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In the same situation as my family, I have been arguing for several years, and now my dad is almost 50, so he rarely quarrels.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you look at a family: Dad is the pillar of the family, Mom is the carpet of the family, and you are the baby of the family.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Dad is the pillar of the family, Mom is the carpet of the family, and you are the baby of the family.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Daddy is Daddy, Mommy is Mommy, and you are you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    'Warmth' is relatively not absolute! There are many ways for family members to express warmth, and they all vary: if a family looks warm on the outside, it is actually on the inside..., some families look discordant on the surface and are harmonious on the inside....In short, each person and every family has a different way of expressing love, but in the end, it is love!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Create an atmosphere, and at home is a child who plays a role in the middle of the harmony.

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