She loved me, and she separated because her family didn t agree, why?

Updated on society 2024-05-05
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can say that she is timid, and you can also say that she doesn't love you, because love is also a risky investment, and her family disagrees, maybe they are not satisfied with you, but in fact, you can do better. As a man, I have a lot of responsibility, and to maintain this family, economy, appearance, talent, and background are all very important. The family's opposition is for her sake, no one wants their daughter to marry badly, you should understand.

    And what you have to do is to let your family know that you are capable enough to take care of her and love her, instead of blindly complaining, or you are going to bless her, hoping that she can find someone better than you treat her, someone who is more capable of taking care of her, and loving her should hope that she lives a happy life instead of possession, otherwise it is selfish.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a pity that your family doesn't agree to break up, but I don't know which of your parents disagrees? If we really love each other, I don't think there is any force or reason to cruelly separate two people who love each other.

    Young people can have more contact with each other's parents, let them understand you, see your excellence and determination to love each other, they will be moved and will accept you, the main reason is the lack of communication between you. Believe in yourself, and believe in your parents even more!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. She is a last resort, if there is no blessing and affirmation from your parents, your love is meaningless, and it is only hurt to drag it on, and now it is actually responsible for you to be separated from you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    She's in a bad situation, and I'm in that state, and I'm still holding on, but I don't think it's going to be long.

    A girl gives up when she lacks something or a belief that she can support, she's disappointed, it's stressful, or you don't really think about her, but if you give him these, a girl can give up a lot of things for love, you know, my boyfriend doesn't understand either, so we're facing a breakup now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no why, only whether you are willing or not, simply put, how deep the love is.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because love is romantic, life is realistic.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love can never be a matter of two people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How much she loves you, how long she loves you, how she loves you for a month or two, and when the deadline comes, she will leave you. She loves you all her life, even if her family opposes it, it won't help. Are you really in love???

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She doesn't want to share, but does she have the courage to continue with you, because the family doesn't agree, so she feels like there's nothing to be done with you, and she doesn't want to delay you at the same time.

    What do you think about this situation, why don't you try hard. Her family disagrees, there must be a reason, then ask the reason, and then work hard to achieve, work hard to improve, maybe there is still a chance.

    When men and women interact, there are many people who do not agree with each other, and it is normal. Whether they can be together depends on whether the two people are true love. If it is true love, the family can't stop it if it doesn't agree, because the marriage is free, and the family can't control it.

    If we have faith in each other, then there is no possibility of continuing.

    One of my classmates, she is the boyfriend she talked about, and her family is also against it. But she and her boyfriend are still together. Later, they became married and had children. Parents went from disagreeing to tacitly accepting. So it's just an excuse to say that the family doesn't agree.

    Talk about it yourself, and there is very little that the family can accept. Unless the man is very strong. If you don't have the strength, you probably won't accept it.

    As for whether you can be together outside, it really depends on your attachment to each other. If you are true love, you still have the opportunity to be together. If you don't have confidence in each other, then you are probably yellow.

    In short, don't look at what the woman thinks, but what you do, her family doesn't agree, you can go and figure out the reason, and then work hard to convince her parents that you can be together. If you don't do anything, just thinking about what the woman thinks, then Xiao Sleepy Qi is probably cold. There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She wants to break up with you on the surface, but she is reluctant in her heart, maybe it's for your own good, so that you will be less frustrated, then the hail god will not lose his mind in vain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's talk about my personal opinion, maybe there is no good result between you, it's hard to hear, although the sentence she said later, there may be a meaning of insisting for love, but there is no strength at all in saying this, and it won't solve any problems, and it won't help you. It looks like she's still in love with you, but what's the use? She can't convince his family, and she can't persuade her family, in a word, if she wants to be with you, she can stand with you unswervingly, but she doesn't, it already says everything, high-sounding words will be said by anyone, the reason is not me, it's my Lingque faction's family who won't let me be with you, I've been fighting, I will choose not to get married, as a resistance.

    Look at it! It won't be long before you will see or hear the news of the other party's love, a little personal understanding and opinion, I hope that the year will be enough to help you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are two scenarios.

    First, if the two of you get married and especially need the support and approval of both families, then in this case, it is better for you to separate, because it is not the two of you who control your marriage.

    Second, if you don't have the support of your families, you still have the courage and perseverance to go on, so you dare to be together. Life is your own, not those who oppose you.

    Life is difficult, and you have to think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since this is already the case, the key is that the family does not agree, not blessed, such a marriage will not have much effect even if it is tried, the woman does not want to divide, and dare not fight, such a verbal disrespect to the dust wants to divide, the effect is not great, it is better to gather and disperse, because the road after the god of Ila is still very long, to get along for decades, especially interpersonal problems, if not handled properly, there will be more and more troubles, it is better to be fine, break up peacefully, and find a suitable other half for yourself. Her opinions will dissipate as her parents wear out, so it's better to cut through the mess quickly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My girlfriend's family didn't agree with him and he did his best, and you feel that he still loves you. In this case, the two nuclei will be separated for a while. Then call the hole to find another opportunity to talk.,If it still doesn't work, you should let go with the grind.。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She doesn't want to share, but for the sake of her family, she is also forced to do it, if you still love her, I hope you don't give up, for the happiness to come belongs to you,

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She still has you in her heart, but due to the pressure of the people in the family, maybe she feels that the marriage needs to be blessed by the family partner, and you will not receive the blessing of the family together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Brother, it's not a question of whether she wants to or not, what we need to do is to do our best to make the other party's parents approve, not that her parents don't agree to read the answer, and then you ask her, so that all the pressure is on your object, the man Zen Gao or want to resist the pressure on himself, come on, work hard, let the other party's father and mother recognize you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In this case, I don't think it's a good way to do your best, so you won't have too many results together, so in this case, I think it's better to give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It feels like sometimes it's accurate, and sometimes it's not round, in fact, you can learn about her current situation through her friends around her or her recent work, I'm just Zheng Lu, an Internet person, and it's not easy to evaluate the relationship between you, and you can also try to communicate with her parents or communicate with her, but I think she may not collapse and don't love you as much as you think, If she really loves you, she will choose to marry you instead of choosing to escape from reality.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She wants to break up, my wife rented a house and married me at that time, if she only wants to be with you, nothing can stop her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is already the state of separation. She also acquiesced to nothing. But if you don't want to give up, you'll have to convince her parents.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I remember the saying that if a boy loves you, he will go to you and wait for you at all costs. If a girl loves you, she will also try her best to persuade the stool to say that the family agrees with your affairs.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You are right, he still loves you, but he also decided to break up, but he can't bear to bring it up with you first.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I guess she also persuaded her family, and she said that she had changed her mind a little, or she could be impatient, or she might have a new idea. Brother, let's start a new life!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I am a woman, you empathize, you are her parent, there is no parent in the world who harms her children.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She also tried her best, but she couldn't be together or wanted to break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It wasn't his family's willingness. The second is that he doesn't love you at all in his heart. There is no grass at the end of the world, don't worry about the road ahead, leave her, and go to find someone who loves you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I feel like he's hanging on you, and if she really loves you, she'll join you despite your family's opposition, which means she doesn't love you very much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After weighing the pros and cons, he decided to leave Yujing with caution, you have to recognize one thing, she doesn't love you enough to hide Li, or after weighing the pros and cons, he thinks that he will have better, so you have to redeem it?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give each other some time, and then make an appointment to meet her, or Potato Ye deliberately waits for her somewhere, only by meeting can people better solve the problem, warm up the relationship, and then find a solution together.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    To love someone is to give selflessly, to pay without asking for anything in return, since you love her, you must pay selflessly without asking for anything in return. She loves you, but with another man, maybe she thinks of him as a substitute for you...Parents don't want you to be together, she loves you and doesn't want to be difficult for you, so find a new one and let you give up on her.

    For your parents do not agree. All I can say is that parents will always be your parents, but what about girlfriends? Now it is, but if you don't know how to cherish it, if you don't know how to fight for it, you may really become someone else's wife in 1 or 2 years.

    When the time comes, the intestines will be green.

    It is recommended that you ignore your family's opinions, continue to pursue, continue to be with the person you like, and prove that you are happy together with your actions. What parent doesn't want to see their children happy, as long as you're happy. Sooner or later, your parents will understand and will agree.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    But you break up, and the person you want to love can't be together, so you have to bless her!

    You can't give him happiness, but you have to allow others to give him happiness.

    Do you want to watch her think about your tea and food, but you don't get anything... Why? If you think about it, it's clear!!

    Love is about sacrificing oneself!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Just imagine who proposed to break up at that time? You love each other, why is it so easy to give up because of your parents' opposition? If it's you who proposes to break up, it's your fault first. If she had proposed it, it would have been understandable.

    Now that you see that she has a new boyfriend, you should be sad. Human nature is like this, not everyone can be broad-minded and happy to face their old girlfriends and newcomers. People also have their own possessiveness, which used to be owned by themselves, but now it is someone else's, and it is certainly not a taste in their hearts.

    But on the other hand, is she really willing to be with the current person in her heart? Or is it because she's just as uncomfortable as you are, so you choose a new relationship? You should think about it for her.

    If you really love her, you shouldn't have broken up in the first place, even if your parents didn't agree. But now that things have come to this point, we shouldn't regret it either. You have to remember a sentence: the road is your own way, and if you choose it, you will face it. Moreover, the road is to be looked forward.

    If you miss it, you miss it, if you are sad, you will be sad. Now all you have to do is be your old self. You have to tell yourself that the past is gone, that she is happy, and that you will be happy.

    Take your time, it's sad for a while, but don't expand it. Now, in addition to being your old self, give yourself a task, which is to focus on what needs to be done.

    A word for you: love needs to be giving. When the effort is reached to a certain extent, the return will appear.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    After a breakup, remember ten words.

    1. When love is not there, please say blessings to him, after all, he once loved.

    2. When it's over, don't tell him I hate you.

    Love is a matter of two people, and everyone is responsible for missing it.

    3. After leaving, what comes to mind must be a lonely picture, please forget it.

    A person must always have a new beginning, and don't let the past tie you to the temple of sorrow.

    Fourth, don't say who you love the most, life is still very long, and no one can predict tomorrow.

    Maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second.

    Fifth, don't make a noise when you break up, after all, the two have been together for so long.

    He will also be sad to break up, but he is wiser and does not want to bind you or his tomorrow.

    It's good to get together and disperse, and we'll be friends in the future. Everyone has their own helplessness.

    6. Don't talk about grief, everyone has their own story.

    To live is not to remember yesterday, but to wait for hope.

    Let everyone see that you are strong, and you can live well without him.

    7. After leaving, tell him loudly that I love you and have nothing to do with you.

    Love is your right, say what you want to say.

    Remember your past calmly, and then cry.

    After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it.

    8. When you think of him, think about his goodness, his smile, and remember that you once loved someone.

    Don't care who started the betrayal in the end, just have fun.

    9. Be yourself when you break up.

    A person's world also has moonrise and moonset, as well as beautiful moments.

    Classify him as a memory.

    10. One person's world always needs another person as a foil.

    He's gone, and that's because he can't stand up to you.

    Believe that you will have a better tomorrow!

    It is not as easy as you imagine to say goodbye to a life, no matter how dissatisfied you are with the person around you, once you want to leave him, you are reluctant, the reason why he does not leave you, maybe like you, he does not have the courage to accept a new life. We accept the new life sometimes out of helplessness, it is the original life that does not want you, it is not that you do not want him, not everyone has the courage of revolution, so the dull life has become a kind of guarantee! You at least have the courage to revolution, you know that it is not suitable, why turn back!

    Adapt to your life without him and believe that you will have a better tomorrow!

    There are more men in the world, and the next one will be better!

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