Why do the people you like still change, and why do you like each other more and more?

Dear landlord, I am glad that your question makes love have a long and tenacious vitality, and it really requires both parties to be careful, patient, and careful to manage. When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as: understanding, understanding and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish. Here's another trick: if you want it to last, you need to keep it fresh all the time, that is, you need to find something to deal with the impatience between each other, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue and other fatal ones"Killers", can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into the kind of mutual affection and dependence on each other like family affection"Compound"Affection.

Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time. When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

People are fickle, or try to change them! Or just forget about him.

The growing affection for each other may be due to the following reasons:

1.Discover more and more advantages of the other person: When you find more and more that the other person has many advantages, such as personality, work, hobbies, etc., you will feel more and more that the other person is a very attractive person, so you like the other person more.

2.Get to know each other more and more: When you get to know each other more and more, you may find more personality charm in each other, which also makes you like each other more.

3.More and more experiences together: When you go through more and more things together, such as going through some difficulties or challenges together, it may make you feel more intimate and acquainted, and thus like each other more.

4.The relationship foundation is getting stronger and stronger: As you spend more time together, the relationship foundation will become stronger and stronger, which makes you more comfortable to rely on and trust each other, and thus like each other more.

In short, the growing liking of the other person is due to the common use of a variety of factors, including the discovery of the other's strengths, the deepening of mutual understanding, the common experience and the strong foundation of the relationship.

The truth is this: because people will influence each other together, couples will be together for a long time, and their behavior and habits will learn from each other, and slowly they will be more and more similar. Because there are more and more of the same bacteria in the stomach and intestines, most of the locations that block the meridians are becoming more and more similar, and the accumulation of garbage on the face is becoming more and more similar, and the appearance is becoming more and more similar, which is caused by the same lifestyle.

Because people will influence each other together, couples will be together for a long time, and their behavior and habits will learn from each other, and they will gradually become more similar. Meals will also be together, and your tastes will become more and more suitable for each other, even if it is said that girls like to eat meat, boys do not like to eat meat, but over time the two of you live together and affect each other.

According to a report by "Life Science", in daily life, it is not difficult for people to find that some couples who have lived together for a long time are often very similar in appearance, which is what people call "husband and wife".

Because you like this person, you like this person's temperament, then you want to learn from him, and slowly you will have the same temperament, for example, a person just doesn't lose his temper often, is a more emotional calm person, but you are a temperamental person, then appreciate his emotional calmness, you will slowly learn from him.

Another situation is that if you kiss a lot, then your bacteria will exchange with each other and have a common flora, so that you will become more and more alike, but more and more similar in appearance.

Because people will be affected by the surrounding environment, two people will become more and more similar when they have been together for a long time, from their living habits to the moments of talking and laughing. Besides, when you like someone, you will inadvertently want to understand him, like what he likes, and slowly the personalities of the two people will be more similar.

There is a theory that the two parties often kiss as a result. In the process of kissing, we will exchange bacteria in our bodies, it is said that up to 80 million, the more we kiss, the more we will be modified, and eventually the phenomenon of assimilation will occur, so the longer we are together, the more similar we are.

Two people will become more and more similar when they are together, and this "likeness" is not a long-looking image from my personal opinion. This "likeness" should refer to two people being together, playing together, living together, for a long time, two people can be said to be: completely know each other's thoughts, a look, a movement, and already know what the other party is going to do without explanation.

Because people are all composed of materials, and the difference between people is just that the environment and the composition of the material are different, after living together for a long time, the material and environment that make up the body are similar, and naturally the two people will become more and more similar. I think it's the result of mutual influence, and if you like someone, you'll naturally look up to him.

People who live together have the same eating habits and eat the same things over time, which is also the reason why husbands and wives are similar. Couples who live together have the same climate temperature, and the influence of the environment will make the ** situation between couples similar, if two people live together in a very hot place, then these two people will also turn dark together, and there are reasons why two people look more and more alike. There are some people who like to choose someone who is a little similar to themselves when choosing the other half, there is an old saying that it is not a family that does not enter the door, and two people can see it if they are not matched with outsiders, but there is not much research to prove this.

However, it doesn't matter if two people are not happy in life, as long as they have each other in their hearts, life will become happier and happier.

Psychological cues. The two have lived together for a long time, and we have memorized each other's happy and sad expressions in our minds, and the other party's living habits are also clear, and then we can't see what is different about each other, and over time you will feel more and more alike. In fact, you can look at the peers you know very well, and after watching them for a long time, you will also feel that the other person has some similarities with you.

Of course, there are very few existences, the two of them are born very similar, and they feel more and more similar after being together for a long time.

Over time, we learn from each other. Language application, hobbies complement each other. Ideological understanding.

Human temperament, as the saying goes, follow who learns from whom. So when two people go a long time, it will change. It's all the result of mutual influence and adaptation, let alone between lovers.

Two people are together every day, because they are together every day, so the tacit understanding between two people, as well as the love for each other, will affect each other's lifestyle, living habits, and all kinds of things. And then let other people feel that these two people are more and more "alike".

Hello, there are two factors in my history that led me to delete the people I liked, and that was the communication problem and the different direction of growth.

The first factor is the problem of communication. When two people are together, communication is the cornerstone of a stable and healthy relationship. If both parties are unable to communicate openly about issues and feelings, the relationship will start to have problems.

In my case, I've found that people I like are always reluctant to communicate with me, especially when I'm trying to talk about something deep. He often avoided talking about it or just gave me something simple. This caused me to feel neglected and helpless, while also hindering further communication and development between us.

Eventually, I decided that there was no future for this relationship that lacked communication skills, so I decided to cut him out.

The second factor is a different direction of growth. When two people are together, they are separate individuals, and during dating, they communicate and share in all aspects of their lives. However, sometimes we find that we may grow in different directions and we have different ideas and plans, which makes it difficult for us to be together.

In my case, there are significant differences between me and the person I like in terms of career planning, lifestyle, and long-term goals. His plan seems to be more focused on pleasure and the pleasures of the moment, while I am more focused on self-growth and future planning. Even though he is a very interesting and charming person, I think that if we continue to be with him, we may have differences in the future, which eventually led me to delete him.

In conclusion, even if the person you like is attractive, the key is to recognize if the communication and growth direction between you are compatible. If there is a problem with these two aspects, then it will be difficult to maintain such a relationship. In my case, I chose to cut out the person I liked, and although it was a painful thing, I thought it was to find a better relationship and future for both of us.

Good luck.

Summary. My dear, if the person you like has changed, do you want to continue, if the other party has changed, it depends on the degree of her change whether she can accept him, under normal circumstances, it is not a matter of choice, you can continue to get along.

Dear Feng Bei, the person you like has changed, in the end, do you want to follow the silver faction to destroy it, if the other party changes, it depends on the degree of her change whether she can accept him, under normal circumstances, it is not a matter of choosing envy and selectivity, you can continue to get along.

We talked for two years, lived together for a year, and my parents met, at first he was very good to me, and he would not dislike me for a long time, and then he would beat me up, go out to play and lie to me, and would dislike me to play ** annoyance, and when I saw the message, I could not answer it, and I was more important to play friends than I also pointed out the number of brothers.

He's changed, he wasn't like this before, and now I'm insecure and don't trust him.

When did he start to change......

In April of this year.

He's going to be fierce with me and think I'm nothing good.

I don't want to go on anymore, I'm tired.

My dear, what did the other party change, did you have a ...... that you didn't do well?Or is it that the other party's temperament has changed inexplicably.

He has someone he likes.

I like to accompany someone with silver.,I should tell you.,Why do you still beat people.,It's too bad to beat people.,It's not recommended to bury it in a fight.,Since the stupid other party has someone you like.,Then let it go.。

In our daily life, many things can cause the person you like to become the person you don't like, and eventually choose to delete it. Among them, there are several reasons why this can happen:

1.Inconsistent behavior: People who like it often behave in a way that is unacceptable to them, such as saying and doing nothing.

1. Capriciousness, dishonesty, etc., which may lead to the transformation of people's likes into disgust.

2.Incompatible personalities: The personality of the person you like is not compatible with yourself, and being together for a long time will cause contradictions and conflicts, in which case it is also possible for people to choose to delete them.

3.Different values: People have different values and ideas, and when the two are in conflict or inconsistent, they may also make people delete the person they like.

4.Hurt feelings: People will hurt themselves because of the other person's words, deeds, behaviors, attitudes, etc., and then emotional changes will occur.

In general, the deletion of "favorite person" may be due to various secular reasons (such as family, career, etc.), or due to the personality, concept, communication style of both parties, etc. But in either case, people usually need to take responsibility for their lives and make rational choices.

I miss you like a flower, and I miss you like a tide.

We all know that learning how to get along with others will greatly enhance our personality.

And smart people, no matter who they get along with, will pay special attention to keeping their distance from each other, because they know that even if a relationship is good, it must not cross the line, and the relationship will become messy after crossing the line.

And it will also make two people feel very uncomfortable, and even destroy the relationship between each other because of this.

However, the world is impermanent, especially for the aspect of feelings, even if a person is usually careful to pay attention to getting along with the opposite sex, it is inevitable that there will be cross-line behavior.

Psychology: As soon as the relationship between men and women crosses the line, these subtle changes will occur.

1. It will feel unnatural after meeting the other person.

The reason why men and women can get along without fear is mainly due to the fact that two people know how to keep a distance from each other, and there has been no cross-border behavior, but once there is a cross-border behavior between men and women, when two people get along, they will feel very awkward with each other.

But no matter how it is disguised, it is still obvious to outsiders.

This is obviously mainly manifested in when two people meet, it will feel very unnatural, before this, if two people meet, they will greet each other cordially, but after crossing the line, after seeing each other, they will feel very embarrassed, and even walk by without saying a word.

2. Fear of meeting each other.

When the relationship between men and women is still in a normal state, they do not worry about meeting each other, and if they meet by chance on the street, they will greet each other cordially, and even exchange a few words of greeting.

When men and women cross the line, they will tacitly agree with each other to avoid it, because they are afraid to see each other, so as not to be embarrassed.

Because after meeting each other, they gathered with each other to remember what happened before, so they could only try their best not to see each other.

Although this is a way to escape, it can't solve the problem at the root, but many people will choose to force themselves to forget this matter in an invisible way, maybe when time comes, each other will see the things that cross the line, and the relationship will return to the previous state.

3. I won't let my lovers meet each other.

In general, most of my friends and lovers are very familiar with each other, and in normal times, we will have a meal together, meet to play together, and so on.

Because the relationship between himself and his friends was still in a normal state at that time, even if it was his friends of the opposite sex, because there were lovers with him, the lovers naturally didn't think much about it.

But since crossing the line, it is difficult for the friendship between each other to return to the previous state, because they both know each other, and most people will ask their partner not to meet each other.

Because I am afraid that once two people meet, the other half will know about the matter between themselves and their friends, and even seriously, it will affect the relationship between themselves and their other half.

Conclusion: In ordinary life, we must pay attention, especially when getting along with the opposite sex, do not easily cross the line, otherwise in the end, it will only embarrass two people, and even affect their own lives.