Even though I graduated from college, I still didn t want to work

When you can make money, you won't think like that.

In fact, life is very cruel! If you have just graduated from college and do not have a very firm goal, it is best to get a job first, which is always to be faced!

The graduate school entrance examination is just an effort to determine the future direction of life after working for a period of time, and it cannot completely change your future life!

In short, you must have a goal in life, such as becoming a teacher, a lawyer, a white-collar worker, a doctor, and then work hard in this direction.

Otherwise, your life will fall into the abyss of chaos and chaos!

Think about it! This is also a critical moment in life, more important than the college entrance examination!

Going to graduate school is not a good solution. There are many examples of "graduation is unemployment". No matter how high the degree is, it may not necessarily be very successful.

It's just that your IQ is higher, and your EQ is needed for real success and achievement. It doesn't matter if you continue to study or not, it is important that you develop your interpersonal and social skills. Don't make excuses for yourself by reading books, you always have to face this problem, don't run away from it.

Alas, I've been working for two years now, and I still don't want to get employed. But there is no way, if you don't work, who will support you?

In fact, you are very happy, like some people who have to come out to work and participate in work in their teens because of the family economy! But then again, if you don't work now, you have something to eat, do you think you won't work if you don't want to work? Life is so cruel that I don't want to work if I could!

It doesn't necessarily mean college students, everyone is pretty much the same.

As I thought, I just graduated and didn't want to do anything, and I felt that the job seemed far away from me.

In fact, many college students are reluctant to look for a job once they graduate, but life is helpless, because we can't change society, so we have to learn to change ourselves. It's not that others are easy to accept, but there is no way.

I don't know the joy of growing up, and my mental age is too young, so I put some pressure on myself, such as not asking for money for my family for a month or two, and I don't want to think about money.

You are very similar to one of my classmates, I should say that you may not be too positive in looking for a job, or you are not very confident in yourself. However, my classmate had a better opportunity later, came across a good job, and soon went to work, and is in the process of adapting.

If you don't want to take the civil service exam, why just think about starting your own business and doing something, that is, going to work for others, doing something small by yourself, you just set up a stall to sell some income is more than civil servants, college students have it, to stand out in these groups of people depends on their heads and ideas, don't be limited to working for others to earn dead wages, young people, to have momentum, contentment is to comfort the elderly, young should not be content, young is the biggest capital, this time do not toss, when to toss. Don't forget.

After graduating from college and being a fledgling, it is inevitable to have such a mentality.

If you are a girl, you can listen to the opinions of your parents and friends, adjust your mentality and try the next social life slowly.

If it's a boy, if they all graduate, they don't work early, what a wave

How can you marry Bai Fumei if you don't go to work early and walk on the peak ...... life

Do you have this kind of mentality when you step into society? I was like this when I first graduated, but if you think about it, you have entered this dark society, there is no turning back, you can only force yourself to adapt to the society, so that you can have a foothold

If the economy and conditions allow, you can travel first, adjust your mood, and then take advantage of this time to sort out your future plans and plans, it is better than graduating without direction and running around like a headless fly.

Why do you want to kill?

Career and love are not one or the other, don't think too extremely, when you meet the right person, please cherish it! A word goes with the flow!

Don't be discouraged, no college student can get a job after graduation

As long as you believe in your ability and be self-motivated, you will find a job that suits you

And the other thing that makes you pay special attention is not to put yourself in too high a position, which is a common problem among college students these days

In fact, you have to ask yourself this question, because there are also many people who come from a bad environment and can also become talents. Be a caring person!

It may be that he is too accustomed to school life, and the competition in society is cruel, and he does not dare to compete and does not want to compete. It's not just you, it's a group of people. You have to adjust your mentality, it's okay to think like this in the short term, but it's a bit dangerous to think like this for a long time......

Maybe I don't have confidence in myself. I've just graduated now, and I don't want to work, because I don't know what I should do or what kind of work will be more suitable for me. Also, don't put too much pressure on him, encourage him to do what he wants, or you can introduce him to his own choice.

First of all, people will be lazy, if you don't work after graduation, from marriage to pregnancy to childbirth, and then to children without you for at least 5-7 years. In that case, your ability to engage in social work has been reduced, so to speak, exhausted. You have also derailed from society, and you are more suitable for husband and children.

The best thing to do is to grasp with both hands, and both hands should be hard.

After graduating, I first find a stable job, work for about half a year to a year, and marry my partner. Marriage leave plus annual leave, and then take some leave to take 20-30 days. And when you get pregnant, the unit will definitely not be able to fire you, and there will be a lot of preferential policies for expectant mothers, get off work early, go to work later or something.

Besides, work is first for the family, and second, I also have an economic **, which is also a good economic independence.

Work can at least regularize your life, so as not to give birth to a child and slowly become fat.

Anyway, everyone has their own aspirations, it depends on whether you like to be a traditional woman with a husband and children or a strong woman. From a medical and social point of view, women between the ages of 22 and 28 are the best period, whether they are physiological, psychological or other aspects, they are in the best condition, and the children born are relatively smart! Theoretically, a woman's fertility peaks around the age of 25, after which fertility begins to decline, the risk of infertility also begins to rise, and the probability of developing uterine fibroids and endometriosis also increases with age.

In addition, the risk of pregnancy also increases with age, and the incidence of gestational diabetes and gestational hypertension has a lot to do with age But it still depends on fate, fate comes, and you naturally want to get married This is a society where the law of the jungle eats the strong, if you are willing to be plain, it is not nothing, and the good or bad of life depends on the state of mind.

For your family, for the people who care about you, you have struggled, you have succeeded, you have been brilliant, and everyone can live a life that others envy, but whether you are happy or not, only you understand.

Not getting married and having children? It shouldn't be a big problem, it's nothing more than the end of your family, and if your parents don't put pressure on you, it's good to live alone. Of course, the premise is that you don't have a beloved, and if you have a beloved, you will get married, and you may not have children.

First: I tried to work part-time, but I couldn't change my life.

Some young people are full of ambition when they first enter the society, and they want to do something big, and they may have been planning since they were in school. It's a pity that the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny. Stepping into the society and entering the workplace, all the experiences and encounters shattered their dreams in an instant.

In this era of extremely high cost of living, if you want to make a fortune by working part-time, it is purely a fool's dream. Unless you're the kind of person who is very sharp, that's a possibility. But how many such people are there?

The vast majority are ordinary people, and they are ordinary people without any experience. They tried to work part-time, but they couldn't change their lives, so they felt that they couldn't survive the chaos at all, and it was natural for them to choose to give up.

Second: being too picky about the work.

There are too many industries in the society, 360 lines are the champions, and young people have just entered the society, and they are generally very picky. Don't do it if you don't pay much, don't do it if you work long hours, don't do it if you want to work overtime, don't do it if you don't like it, and don't want to do it if you're too tired. After putting together a series of requirements, the final conclusion is that there is nothing to do but sleep at home.

Young people who have just entered the society will always find a job that matches them well, and they will slowly be lazy, unwilling to work, feel that they are wasting time, unable to make money, and are very tired and unnecessary.

Third: too lazy.

Today's young people have not suffered much when they are pampered. When I was studying, the stars held the moon, I was the treasure of the family, I was taught by teachers at school, and my classmates helped me, and everything changed except for society. In contrast, they are certainly reluctant to step out of their comfort zone.

It's hard and tiring to go to work, and I don't get paid much, so I don't bother to go to work. Isn't it fragrant to have food and shelter at home, don't you have to think about things, and live on the help of your parents? In this way, the "gnawing old people" were born, and they were unwilling to struggle, and laziness overcame everything.

Fourth: I don't want to work, I don't want to be controlled by others.

Nowadays, society advocates freedom in everything, freedom in love, and freedom in life, so that young people slowly begin to take such concepts and are unwilling to accept the control of others. If you go to work, you need to abide by the rules of the company, be led and managed by your boss, be constrained, have no freedom at all, you can't do this, you can't do that, and it will be difficult to get used to it for a while. Zhou Liqi's attitude towards life of not working has actually resonated with many young people, who hope to have a freelance job.

For example, being an anchor, being an Internet celebrity, sharing some interesting things every day, no one is restricted, you are your own boss, you can still make money, what a good life. Unfortunately, not everyone can make money.

Actually, you can, it mainly depends on your own wishes and ideas.

First, the industry lacks development prospects.

For example, the person concerned has entered the sunset industry, and the gap between his income and development and that of his classmates is getting bigger and bigger.

Second, there is no room for growth in the enterprise.

For example, when I graduated, I chose a random company, and I didn't think much about it because the salary was good at the time, and I found that I had no room for promotion after working for a few years. The immediate boss is the director, and the director is young and energetic, and the work enthusiasm is very high.

3. You can't learn anything.

For example, I chose this job because it was easy, but when I came in, I found that it was really easy and I couldn't learn anything. I've been working for two or three years, but I haven't grown at all, and I'm afraid that if I stay any longer, I'll be "wasted".

Fourth, I can't get along with the leader.

For example, the leader has a low education, poor level, and a great temper, and often picks his nose and eyes at himself, feeling that he is a good young man who is both hard working and positive, and cannot show his real ability in the company.