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You should marry someone who will be good to you, someone who can accept your petty temper, someone who is willing to coax yourself when you lose your temper, and of course, the most important thing is someone who can communicate with your heart to heart.
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I definitely want to marry someone who can be worthy of me, has a sense of responsibility, has my own ideas, and has the same three views as myself, can take care of me in many things, and is very loyal to marriage.
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If you want to marry a handsome person, you will not be angry with this face in the rest of your life, and a good-looking face is beneficial to you and you will be good-looking, and you can look good at a good-looking face every day.
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A mature and steady person, because I like this, I want him to be tall, not fat or thin, the main thing is to be mature, I don't want him to be a naïve child, and I just want him not to be too dark.
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A man, a man, a handsome and dashing man, a talented man, a humorous man, a gentlemanly man, a mature and steady man.
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At least have a certain economic foundation, you can not have a car, but you must have a house, and then have a stable job, you don't want to look good, you can look average, and you must be a responsible boy.
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You must be the person you like, and you can't easily choose to marry him because his material conditions are very good, because in that case, you will have to be with someone you don't like in the rest of your life, which is a kind of torment.
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What you should know is what kind of person you are, if you yourself are a person who loves vanity, then, do you think you will find that selfless man? In fact, you have the answer in your own heart. As they often say, what kind of person you are, what kind of friends you have around you.
It is often said that it is not a family that does not enter the door. As I said on the side, there must be some special similarities between you.
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Yang Zhenning once said: "Marrying someone is a big deal, and what we want to marry is not just a person, but a life."
Since it is life, it is something that you have to face every day, and it is also a daily thing.
What kind of person should I marry? This is a question that haunts the minds of many women, but it is not difficult to figure it out.
As long as you keep in mind the following three views on mate selection when choosing, and do not be distracted by emotion, it can help you screen out a lot of those who are not suitable.
1) Emotional stability
If a person's emotions are not stable enough, then it proves that his mind is not mature enough. In other words, even though he is old, he is still an immature person.
If the other party is an immature person, then you will most likely only get his impatience and accusations, and over time you will feel that your marriage is boring.
Therefore, emotional stability is very important, and a person with a stable emotional situation will not do anything excessive, or the probability of him committing excessive behavior is much less than that of others.
2) Be principled
What does it take to maintain a marriage? What is needed is a sense of principle, an attitude of responsibility for the relationship.
Therefore, when you choose to marry, you must observe whether the man is a principled person.
If he is a principled person, then he will certainly not do something unprincipled.
3) Respect for women
Everything can change, all vows can disappear, and the only thing that doesn't change is the fact that you're a woman.
Therefore, if in the course of the relationship, you find that he has a tendency, speech or behavior that disrespects women, you must bring it up as soon as possible.
The foundation of marriage must be to be able to respect each other and not invade each other's bottom line, if one party breaks this foundation, then the balance of marriage will definitely be tilted.
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Marrying is not only about choosing people, but also about family.
First of all, choose someone:
The selection of people depends on personality.
Secondly, look at the family:
Whether the marriage of the parents is harmonious, the educational philosophy of the parents, and an environment shape the possibility of a person, which may be the case in his marriage.
You can take a look at this article.
Teacher Duoduo: The impact of family education on marriage and family members.
If you want to choose the right person, you must first know what is personality?
Personality refers to the internal tendencies and psychological characteristics of an individual's behavior in the social adaptation to people, things, and oneself. The origin of the family is manifested in the integration of ability, temperament, character, needs, motivation, interests, ideals, values and physique, which is the self with dynamic consistency and continuity, and is the unique psychosomatic organization formed by the individual in the process of socialization. Wholeness, stability, uniqueness, and sociality are the basic characteristics of personality.
Personality Types: Types Characteristics.
Perfectionist Personality The Perfectionist personality demands perfection in everything, is demanding of itself and others, and has a strong sense of right and wrong and morality.
Giving Personality The giving personality is compassionate, helpful, and dedicated, and will always suppress their own needs, which is known as the "good old man".
Hard-working Split-Early Personality The hard-working personality likes to accept competition and challenges, has an obsession with achieving achievements, pursues success and social status, fears being abandoned by society, and often confuses self with job roles.
Romantic personality Romantic personality is prone to sentimentality, easy to do things emotionally, fickle and impulsive, easy to fall into self-absorption, and easy to detach from display.
Exploratory personality Exploratory personality is extremely rational, loves to think, pays attention to privacy, divides responsibilities and obligations clearly, is not emotional, does not get involved in other people's affairs, does not like to socialize, and has a strong sense of concentration.
Questioning personality Questioning personality is always suspicious of everything, making itself anxious, tired, and conflicted; They are afraid of failure, lack self-confidence, timid and hesitant to do things, but they have a spirit of sacrifice and are loyal fighters in the team.
Hedonic personality The hedonistic personality is more childish, easily excited, often gives up halfway, hates restraints, dislikes degrees, and often changes friends and lovers.
Leadership Personality Leadership personality is competitive and dares to challenge life; They are self-motivated, responsible, have a pioneering spirit and leadership skills, and are willing to protect those around them; They are more egoistic, authoritarian, short-tempered, controlling, and power-loving.
Coordinated Personality Coordinated personality is gentle and kind, optimistic, and easily satisfied; Able to take into account the ideas of others, it is easy to be aggrieved.
In terms of personality, I first have to know what kind of personality I have. This can be confirmed with the help of the MBTI personality assessment.
The accuracy rate is still very high.
MBTI personality assessment.
For the man: analyze everything he does with his heart, judge his personality from the details, and also use the MBTI personality assessment to assist in the test.
I would like to recommend a book to you, which can be helpful in identifying personality in love and marriage.
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