What are the signs that the couple doesn t need to be together?

It's 35 this year, plus the time to fall in love, together for 15 years, he has always taken care of his family, and the work at home is rushed, although he often travels away from home, but every day, he will ask me what I eat, let me eat what I want to eat, don't be reluctant to spend money, even if my hand is broken and sticky with a band-aid, he will carefully ask me how to get it, we have two lovely baby girls, my mother-in-law is not around, the two children are brought by myself, we bought two houses, bought a car, Later, I found out that he had a chat record with another woman, I was hard to accept, I cried and wanted to divorce him, he cried and begged that he would never talk again, I forgave him, and the same thing happened recently, I didn't cry or make trouble, I said I wanted to divorce him, but I was reluctant to have two children, and I was in a dilemma, what should I do.

3 months pregnant, 7 days of cold war, this marriage sees through each other's position in the center of each other......Maybe there is no place ......Scold.

Marriage is just a win-win cooperation, and if you can't go together, it's better to let go!

My husband also quarreled and beat people, but when he ran out and came back, he played games on his mobile phone and had no common language! Quarrel as soon as you speak.

He has a small belly and a narrow heart, and he can distort the original meaning of others when he says a sentence or two, especially to say that my parents are like and that, foul language, in fact, it is all his assumptions, the truth is not like that at all, all the quarrels, I endure silently, I can't tell outsiders, let alone my parents! I've really had enough! I can't wait to cut ties with him immediately!

If there was still a glimmer of hope that he would change, I could bear it for the sake of the child, but this time, I really gave up! If the divorce by agreement fails, I will sue for divorce!

Married for three years, my husband was found to be infertile, my in-laws are still the kind of poor and righteous stubborn people, at the beginning, my husband may be because of physical reasons, to me is obedient, but then I slowly found out that he is very stupid, no matter what things are, he has helped his parents with all his brains, and has never distinguished between right and wrong, from the detection of his physical problems to now almost three years, my pressure is also quite great, and I can't sleep all night when it is serious, but their family sees that I am anxious, but calm, No matter whether he asked, he himself was stupid, the money for the treatment was taken to her parents, and he cried poor in front of me, and the more things happened, the more I realized that in fact, the problem with him was not just that he couldn't give birth. No responsibility, no sense of responsibility, no bottom line in doing things, the most important thing is that talking is like a gust of wind, if you don't see it, it's gone, what you say today won't count tomorrow, at the beginning I always thought that he might be because his father was not at home all the year round, and only his mother and sister grew up with him, and his personality was inevitably weak, and it was okay slowly, and the result really made me refresh my three views, this kind of thing happened not to think about how to solve it, but I was like this, how about your attitude, let me collapse for a while. When I decided to divorce, he didn't agree to it in every way, and his parents just do whatever you want, I was really surprised by the family.

Asking what is the situation in the world, what is more terrible than dying alone is:

With someone who makes you feel lonely, grow old together.

Ren and the other party can't find warmth at home, and divorce is a matter of time.

If you don't love anymore, you don't be together, you don't communicate with each other anymore, your life is full of lies, you don't return all night, and you have something unclear with other people of the opposite sex, you can say goodbye.

When I had children and were all at work, my husband said that I had to wait when I was tired, and when my wife said that I was tired and had a hysterical meal, I knew we were finished.

Ignore it and be well!

From getting married to now, I've been arguing every day for 8 years, and I won't quarrel now.

When you get married, you should find someone who loves you very much, because marriage is a process of getting tired of each other, and without love, you will only get more and more annoying.

What if the two people have a good relationship with each other, but the husband is not ideal in terms of his marital life?

I thought that I and he had no common language, so many couples were like this, how I wanted to chat with him after work and talk about the interesting things that happened today, he didn't react at all with his mobile phone, and finally I didn't bother to speak, every time I wanted to speak, I would think that it was in vain anyway, and gradually I didn't want to share it with him, I'd rather say all the words outside and then go home, husband and wife are mutual, and people who don't get a response will disgust each other.

Can't communicate, can't speak well...

It's been 4 months of cold war, and there is no communication, but I don't know how long I can last this for the sake of my children, so tired.

Let's not talk about whether it is necessary to be together, not everyone is divorced, how to divorce after spending too much youth, time and energy? Cramps and bones? Resume? It's all about living together.

Today's marriages are all caused by mobile phones.

The turtle cushions the foot of the bed, and survives!

In the whole middle, there is nothing to say, each hugging his own mobile phone to play.

There is no trace of affection, only boredom, I don't want to divorce, I don't want to toss anymore! It's just a mix!

I spent 15,00+ in January, and I was exhausted and bored.

After the husband and wife are together, it is not only the relationship between the two people, but also the relationship between the two families, if the two of them have children, they should also be responsible for the children, so although the two of them have no feelings, they still have to live together, because they are responsible for their actions.

It may be that both of them are soft-hearted, both of them are traditional people, afraid of other people's jokes, especially concerned about other people's feelings, afraid that their children will grow up in a single-parent family and affect their children's lives.

On the one hand, it is because the two people have been together for a long time and there is no way to give up, and on the other hand, it is also because of the children's reasons or family reasons, this situation will happen.

In order not to let the children be harmed, I don't want to be talked about by others, because we are both responsible, and the cost of divorce is too great, and I didn't meet someone who deserved to divorce me.

It means that such a married life exists in name only.

If two people don't even want to talk, then it is conceivable that two people basically have no feelings at all, and their married life must be precarious.

Married life requires two people to maintain together, and mutual communication and exchange is the most basic, so if it really reaches the level of zero communication between two people, it is better to separate each other is a relief.

It means that two people are not loving each other On the road to marriage, husband and wife live together, and two people stay together for a long time, then two people will have conflicts, and there will be marital cracks; So between two people, from the initial love, to the end of no love; When two people don't love each other, then one won't care about the other, and the other won't care about the other; Because in the other person's heart, the lover is an unimportant person; As a result, two people in life will not talk to each other, and between two people, they will become zero communication and strangers.

It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, you have zero communication as a couple, which means that neither of you loves each other; Although it is said that when you first started, the two of you were very affectionate and lived happily; But when the two of you live together, many things happen in life, so that the love between you becomes less and less; There are more and more contradictions between two people; At the end of the day, you don't care about her, and she doesn't care about you; No matter what, you all do your own thing, if you don't communicate with her, she will have a hard time paying attention to you; This is a sign that two people no longer love each other.

Yes. Husband and wife can be regarded as husband and wife if they have not received a certificate and live together. A real couple is a high-level summary of love and affection, so in addition to love, there should also be loyalty, the courage to never give up, and the tacit understanding of not talking.

When people talk about unhappy marriages, they tend to think of domestic violence, betrayal, the Cold War, and so on. It seems easy to ignore the misfortune of "no affection between husband and wife", and it is generally believed that marriage can only survive in name only if there is no affection between husband and wife. <>

In fact, if there is no communication between husband and wife, the marriage has already existed in name only! What's more, communication is the foundation of feelings, and the death of all feelings is often the natural death process between husband and wife from communication reduction to zero. Feelings also need to be maintained.

There is no one-size-fits-all thing, and you have to maintain it regularly. The best way to maintain is to identify the problem before it happens. To do this, it is only through communication that you can find out where the problem lies.

If we want to improve the credibility of our couple, the first thing we need to do is to trust each other unconditionally and not always be suspicious. Naturally, when the other party feels your sincerity and trust, he will also reciprocate you with the same trust. In fact, whether it is a husband and wife relationship, or in life, our friends must trust each other so that you can get a sincere friendship and a sincere love.

If you have a distrustful attitude towards the other party, you can let the other party have a reasonable explanation, and you can listen carefully and calmly, which may make the other party feel that you really want to understand him and trust him now, then naturally he will not have the heart to lie to you. Trust is paramount for married life, and communication is crucial for couples. If you have both, it is enough to prove that you are happy in life.

If you feel that the consequences of not communicating between husband and wife are serious, and you don't want two people to come to this point, then we must learn to communicate with each other, learn to understand, learn to care for each other, learn to cherish, and learn to manage your married life well.

Yes, if there is no communication in life, there will be an estrangement between two people, and there will be some cold violence in life, and in the end, two people will divorce if they can't hold on.

Yes. If there is no married life, it will be very difficult to live, and there is no communication between the two people in life. And in the end, there will be quarrels and fights over some trivial things.

Of course, an unhappy marriage is the hardest, and two people will slowly cold each other and eventually go to the point of divorce.