When your mother in law, who ignored you when she was young, is old, will you raise it?

Even when I was young, my mother-in-law didn't care about me, but when my mother-in-law was old, I would support her, after all, I was an old man, and it was the duty and responsibility of every citizen to support the elderly.

I won't raise her, since she doesn't love me anymore and is unkind to me, don't blame me for turning my face and not recognizing people.

If my husband loves me enough and we have a good relationship, I will definitely raise her, because she is my husband's mother after all, and no matter how bad she is, it is her business, I do mine, I have a clear conscience.

Of course, he will raise him, because after all, he is the mother of his husband, and every child has the obligation and responsibility to support his parents, so he will be raised, but it is only at the level of the law, without any emotional factors.

For me, I will not raise, I am a person with clear grievances, and I will not do unnecessary efforts and sacrifices.

will take proper care, but will not be too dedicated, after all, she still has her own son, she didn't treat me as a daughter at the beginning, so why should I be my mother when I'm old?

I think I will raise, because the most important thing for people is filial piety, although my mother-in-law didn't care about me when she was young, but I also want to repay my grievances with virtue.

I will raise it, after all, she is her husband's mother, and if she is not raised, there will be problems in the relationship between husband and wife.

I will do my filial piety, after all, filial piety to my parents is my obligation.

No, because children have the obligation to support their parents and cannot abandon them under any pretext, they cannot fail to support their mother-in-law.

If you don't support your mother-in-law when she is old, it is illegal in law, so this practice is not feasible.

The fact that the in-laws do not bring their grandchildren does not mean that you do not have to support them in a legal sense, and there is no law that stipulates that the in-laws must help take care of the children, but the children have certain maintenance obligations and visitation obligations to the elderly.

When you are old, you will definitely not be able to live with your son and daughter-in-law. Because the daughter-in-law has been troubled by her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law is old, and the daughter-in-law is naturally reluctant to get close to her mother-in-law, this contradiction is irreconcilable, and the mother-in-law can only live alone.

When they are old, they will also have daughters-in-law around them to take care of, after all, they are elders who still have to support the elderly, but the attitude will not be very good.

When they get old, the fate of these mothers-in-law will be very miserable, and they will not get the filial piety of their daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law will not take care of such a mother-in-law.

As a result, when they are old, they have no one to take care of them, because their daughters-in-law are very disappointed in them and will especially refuse to take care of them.

When you get old, you will have no one to support, and you will not be treated sincerely by your daughter-in-law.

When those mothers-in-law are old, their daughters-in-law will not take care of them, they will be very difficult, life will be very difficult, and there will be very bad experiences.

They don't feel that they are at fault at all, they are afraid that they will be old and no one will support them, it's as simple as that, my mother-in-law is scared to watch Douyin now, saying that I want to work hard to be good to you now, and you will be good to me in the future, I want to say what did you do earlier, her nature can't be changed, and you can see the details of her usual life.

When they are old, they feel that their behavior is very incorrect, and they also feel that they are very mean to their daughters-in-law, and they live very lonely and lonely when they are old.

My grandmother is the same, saying that I am not good for the public, every time the yin and yang are weird to say that I am when no one is around, and she also eats inside and outside, she is good to her granddaughter and other people's people, she speaks very gently, she sees them smiling all over her face, she is very kind, she sees my granddaughter, she has a straight face, she yells at me, she tries her best, she scolds me a few times when she has nothing to do, she works hard like a slave, I wonder why, why do I listen to her so much, but I don't live like a human being, and I sprinkle all the anger I received outside, I don't owe her, mainly because no one understands me and my parents, and my grandma is too good outside and makes too good an impression on others.

These mothers-in-law have no one to take care of them when they are old, so they can only stay at home by themselves, which is very lonely.

Lonely and old, no one cares.

won't serve her, she has been married for a year and has no children, she scolded me for not being able to have children and told me to get out, and scolded me for renting a house after two years of marriage, saying that my daughter-in-law who can't have children will have to get out. I was pregnant after three years of marriage, she never showed her side, and when she gave birth to the child, she disliked being a boy, quarreled with me and left, and never saw her. When she gave birth to her second child, she didn't even come to the hospital because it was a boy again.

She also called my husband ** and said: I am used to bear problems, people give birth to children alone, and I have never heard of someone to serve them. Now the eldest is five years old, the second is three years old, she seems to be missing, I don't know what has become of her, I haven't seen her for five years, all in the same city.

She occasionally called my husband ** and asked her to take the children to her house for dinner. As for me, an outsider, I must not enter her house.

My mother-in-law too, don't help me take care of the child, take care of her eldest son's family, take care of her eldest son's family of three, give birth to a child and serve me in the hospital for a few days, and don't face us, I am not as good as her nephew and niece, it stands to reason that when I am old, I will not take care of her, and I will not give my child money, give birth to my worm millet, but, when the time comes, I will not take care of my mother-in-law, yes, but I can replace my husband, after all, our small family still has to want it, and I can't exhaust my husband, I will go for my husband, the kind of care that takes a hand, will not be taken care of from the heart outward.

Personally, I think they will take care of the elderly, after all, they are the grandparents of the children, things are one yard to the other, angry to angry, they are old and their hands and feet are not good, they can't just watch it and ignore it, we are the youngest generation can't be entangled because of such a thing and don't let go.

Filial piety comes first! To be filial to the old, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, anyone will say, some rely on their old age, rely on the old and sell the old, do whatever they want! You can do whatever you want, and you can make people angry!

You have to endure it again, and when you say it, you have to worry about her and are not filial! It's good to be a daughter-in-law! I know that there is a saying that your attitude towards others is the attitude of others towards you!

It's hard to say, according to reason, she hasn't helped herself, and she has a son and daughter, so she can't take her turn. But my mother-in-law, three sons and three daughters, built a house for them to get married and take care of the children, and it was our youngest turn to be poor and white, with nothing, the house was built by ourselves, and the children were brought by themselves, and they had been taking care of her for ten years, because no one else was willing to take care of her, and it was pitiful to look at. I cooked for her for ten years, and she gossiped about me when I contributed money and effort.

Her eldest son was in a good mood one day and gave her a morning porridge, and she praised everyone she met. If I think about it and make me angry, forget it, she's old, how many days can she live, what do you care about her.

Yes, because she helped me with my confinement, my mother-in-law treated me badly, even if she was not good, but she served me during confinement, if one day she was sick or couldn't take care of herself, I would still serve her, my request was very simple, as long as I didn't let me go to her and get in touch with her, because she didn't accept what I did before for the rest of my life.

My mother-in-law didn't help me with the children, so I didn't have any deep feelings. But for the question of whether I will take care of her when she is old, it depends on whether my husband treats me well or not. My husband is good to me, then I will take care of it.

After all, this is his mother, Aiwu and Wu. But if my husband treats me badly, then I'm sorry, she has given birth to an enemy to harm me, I am not so virgin, it would be good not to hate her.

Look at her attitude towards me, politely, I will serve her, if it is a bad idea, I will only give her a ride! Ben is a stranger!

Why do you want to seek trouble for yourself and pull hatred in plain proportions? The mother-in-law helps to take care of the child to see her son's face, what does it have to do with the daughter-in-law? Don't put gold on your face, if you marry someone else and have children, will she help you bring it?

Indeed, being a daughter-in-law is indeed a little easier, so for the mother-in-law who helped her, the daughter-in-law should be kind to her and buy more things that the mother-in-law likes. In addition, the mother-in-law gave birth to a son, and it is a legal obligation for the son to support his parents. The daughter-in-law's mother is old, who will serve her?

Son-in-law? If the son-in-law doesn't serve, then why ask the daughter-in-law to serve the mother-in-law! Serving the mother-in-law, the first to bear the brunt of the front is the mother-in-law's own children, and the daughter-in-law rushes to the front to offer which family's hospitality.

If the son doesn't know how to serve the old lady, then ask a nurse.

I will serve her, my request to my mother-in-law is not to help bring it, don't say cool words to interfere with me with the child. If you don't help and intervene, my temper will not be good. After all, I don't want morality to kidnap her, and she doesn't want morality to kidnap me.

The point of view of our generation is that two people are financially independent and have their own jobs, as for the parents-in-law and parents-in-law, they are all in charge of their own parents, take a step back, if the woman is not financially independent, or has no job to take care of her in-laws, it depends on whether the woman is willing to take care of it, taking care of her in-laws is love, not taking care of it is duty, after all, the in-laws did not give birth to us, and they have their own children, do not be bound by ethics and morality.

Now it is: No! When she is really old enough to walk, she may not be ruthless enough to ignore her. Let's see.

Will be filial to her, but will not serve herself, in fact, the child is still good to bring by himself, I can only say that the children brought out by the old man will have more or less problems

My mother-in-law from my pregnancy to the birth of the baby, on the second day of the baby sent a meal, the baby was born the day after the mother-in-law asked the mother-in-law to help change the diaper, people said that the arm pain can not be changed, the confinement has not been taken care of, the reason is that when she was confined, her husband's grandmother is her mother-in-law did not care about her, the in-laws and where we live 6 minutes walk, the baby is now three and a half years old and has never taken the initiative to see once, a yarn has not been bought for the baby, every day and night to play cards, in-laws are old I will not take care of, but I also do not object to my husband to take care of, for the in-laws I have no obligation, let alone affection, how they have come over the past few years only I know best, the in-laws at the age when they can help, but they choose to stand by the side or even fall into the well, they themselves said that now they don't help us, and try not to trouble us when they are old, I hope they can do what they say.

I often say that raising children and honoring your in-laws is a normal thing, and you can't escape it in life, but try not to live together when you are young, and you understand that you are older. You can choose to take care of her, as for him taking care of the child, it doesn't matter, he has already taken care of his son, his task is completed, and there is no need to help me take care of the child.

It depends, if the mother-in-law is not too partial, if she does it too much. Several sons and daughters-in-law take turns to serve, so I will serve her as well.

First of all, we must understand a truth, the mother-in-law has no obligation to take care of our children, but we have the obligation to support the elderly. After all, it is an old man, we must not be too concerned with her, the so-called respect for the old and love for the young, or the mentality should be calmer.

will also serve her, because it is normal not to help me take care of the children, after all, my mother-in-law is not obliged to help her own children.

I don't think so. Because my mother-in-law didn't take care of herself, of course I was angry in my heart and didn't want to serve her.

It's not that everything should or shouldn't be, but it's more ruthless than the heart, and whoever is kind suffers. Regardless of the age or age, parents are eccentric, and there have been cases since ancient times.

First of all, I'm a man, so I can't experience this as a real daughter-in-law for the time being, but I've never seen a pig run and I've eaten pork, so now let's assume I'm a girl, what will I do?

The answer is definitely raised, and here's why.

1. My mother-in-law has no obligation to be good to me, and her son has been occupied by me, so it's already good if she doesn't hate, and she has to be good to me, so I can understand that I didn't care about me when I was young. It's a favor to be good to me, and it's a reason not to be nice to me.

2. Know how to be grateful. My husband was raised by her hard work, without her, there would be no husband of mine, just by virtue of this, she shouted that I should raise her when I am old. Moreover, my husband also has this obligation to support her, and I, as my husband's woman, I am sensible, and he loves me even more.

3. Do your part. The bottom line of my life has always been that people are good to me, and I am better to people. People are bad to me, and I keep the bottom line for people.

For my mother-in-law, although I didn't feel that she was good to me, I should also do what I should do, and honoring the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which is my bottom line. If I do this, the whole family will be affected. No one dares to say anything if my mother-in-law treats me badly, but my daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law badly and is easy to be gossiped about.

Therefore, for the sake of the overall situation, you must do your part.

In fact, everyone has a temper, and the mother-in-law who originally felt that she should be good to herself did not treat herself well, and felt wronged in her heart, which is human nature and belongs to a reasonable and normal reaction. In the same way, it is precisely because people have feelings, so when you do your duty and be good to your mother-in-law, one day she will feel that you are good and ashamed of her cold attitude towards you, and then, she will be better and better to you.

The conclusion is that no matter how you analyze it, it is a very beneficial thing. Filial piety comes first, and cannot be lost.