Is friendship equivalent, or is it the one who always gives less?

In fact, I'm at a loss as you now, and it seems that I'm always accommodating her when I'm with my friends, but the sincerity must be sincere, otherwise your friend is not worthy of being treated sincerely, as long as you think it's worth it, or you can communicate with him more directly, it will be good for your friendship, do you think?

If you don't pay attention to the principle of fairness, report or respond to the other party's contribution in a timely manner, no matter how deep the friendship or even love, it will collapse and collapse.

Friendship can be said to be equivalent or not, it is a group of two or more people getting along, for example, you are good with one person and you are friends. But one day, suddenly one day there is a person around him who is on par with you in his (her) heart. The two of them go out to play together or do it together, you will be psychologically unbalanced, at this time, friendship in your heart is not equivalent to you, because you will think about how good you and him (her) usually are together, and you are considerate of him (her).

But if they come back and buy you your favorite things or bring you dinner or something, you will think that in fact, I am still very important in his (her) heart, at this time friendship is equivalent, equivalent and unequal is also between your thoughts, not what others do can change, equivalent or not equivalent is your inner thoughts, so it is very unnecessary to think about these, treat good friends around you and believe that they are true. This is all my own opinion, and I hope that friendship will no longer be measured by equivalence or non-equivalence, friendship is priceless.

Equivalent exchange is the medium of human relations. It's a tool. Friendship itself is an equivalent exchange.

The two are not opposites, but two expressions of the same thing. Of course, what is exchanged here is not only material, but also one's own inner feelings, that is, value, not **, nor peer-to-point, and dynamic over a period of time. A few relationships are just a few of them:

Husband and wife relationship, parent-child relationship, friend relationship. If two strangers are well understood, because there are no other factors involved, I help you, you help me, equivalent, become friends. The parent-child relationship, your parents spent material and spiritual resources to raise you, it is the social identity of tens of thousands of years, and it is you who accompany him through a period of life, so he feels happy and you can grow up.

It's the same with you and your children. The relationship between husband and wife is an equivalent exchange, starting from acquaintance, don't care who chases whom, like each other, and their inner satisfaction is the biggest benefit. In a class society, two people grow up together, and once one person falls behind (material or spiritual), the gap is so big that they cannot communicate, that is, they cannot carry out equivalent exchange, and they will inevitably divorce.

There are several concepts here, for people, the core of all relationships, is the relationship between husband and wife, followed by the parent-child relationship, and then other relationships. The tragedy is because of the confusion in the order of relationships.

Classmates, in fact, I want to say that the pay and return in friendship are not necessarily equal. Just because you really give doesn't mean you will get more. For example, last month, I was also "betrayed" by a so-called "friend", and the so-called "betrayal" is just my own feeling, because she never treated me as a friend.

While being sad, I also understand that in the world of friendship, how can you gain as much as you give. You paid, did someone force you? No, right, you want to be sincere to her, but did she say that she would be true to you?

I don't have that. I understand that you want to gain sincerity if you give your heart, but this can't be guaranteed! If you want her to be rewarded, then ask her at the beginning:

Do you really want to be friends with me?

If you just want to be nice to her, don't ask for anything in return

But in fact, I think that such friends should not be not! Right, if I can only help you solve your problems, and you are annoyed to listen to me, then, what is this kind of "friend" going to do? Waste my feelings!

When something like this happens, it can also help you recognize a person and see clearly that this kind of person is not worthy of deep friendship, which can be regarded as a blessing in disguise

Remember: some people are destined to be passers-by in your life, but they are passers-by, so why should I be uncomfortable? There are people who are destined to be your best friends, and these people really care about you!

I believe that the landlord is so kind, he will definitely be able to find a real friend! ~~

Didn't you also say that some people may think that you are wordy and don't take you seriously, and some people give him a little care, and they may remember you for the rest of their lives.

Between friends and friends, playing is also exchanging, and exchanging friendships is exchanging each other's weaknesses. The number of friends of a person is directly proportional to the number of his own shortcomings, and people are willing to accept friends with shortcomings, this is man, not God. If you want to make friends, you must first hand over your handle.

Therefore, the name of friends in the world will always be: fox friends and dog friends, confidants of wine and meat, and embarrassment.

The friendship between gentlemen is always as light as clear water, and there is a lively call for friends between villains.

There is no equivalence or asymmetry, it's a very vague concept. Generally speaking, if you have to pay, you will definitely get it, but sometimes it doesn't have to, it depends on what kind of person you pay for......The so-called varies from person to person.

It's not reciprocal, you must make friends sincerely, don't have too many friends, make friends who can help, observe carefully, exercise your words, and be cheerful.

I don't have to think about these things in return, it's not that I'm naïve, friends are friends, and I'm happy together. You don't need to be too clear in some aspects, and that's not good. You just have to be honest with everyone around you, and as for what you say, you just ask her for clarification or just leave her, and there's no need to be like this for such a person.

Friends are things to share with everyone, and it's not bad to pay too much affection, even if we don't gain it, we just have a clear conscience y( o )y so many friends don't need to care about this and that. In general, pay is pay, return is return, are two completely different things, you know what I mean.

If you think that you must be rewarded for your efforts, then the world is too unfair to you!

No matter what you think, face the reality, besides, whether others need your contribution is not necessarily, how to talk about the equal relationship between giving and getting?! ～

This love, you just put it in your heart, find the right opportunity to confess, don't think too much, everyone is still young, many things are not fixed, continue to keep your pay, the reward will sometimes come when you don't expect it! ～～

Relax, she'll be back.

There will always be such things around.

So two people together.

Whether it's friendship or love.

It's all one party that pays more, and one party pays less.

The personal experience is to get used to it.

It's the fear that her reaction won't be as expected.

Of course, it's family affection! From before you fell to the ground, there was a group of people who began to look forward to your arrival, and fell in love with you before they saw you. Later, I finally met you in anticipation, whether you are beautiful or ugly, they love you unconditionally for no reason, and want to give you the best things in the world, even if you do this, you will have nothing.

They are your relatives, watching you grow up step by step, loving to give without expecting anything in return. Family affection is not equivalent, think about your own efforts and you will understand.

A sincere friendship is precious, but now the society attaches too much importance to interests, and it is fortunate that it does not harm you. I believe in true friendship, but I'm lucky enough for everyone to find it. This relationship is also unstable and will be destroyed by the intervention of some people.

How pathetic. Love is just the spice of life, dispensable. If you can't meet it, don't force it. When love and family conflict still have to be cautious, a person who has been in love with you for more than ten years and more than a dozen people who will love you for a longer time will never change!

Give up your loved ones and choose your lover, then you have to face the sense of security he gives you. Will he change his mind, he may not be as good to you as before, you have to endure all this. Because it's your choice.

was bullied, and there was no one to support you anymore; No one can put up with your bad temper unconditionally. Maybe you don't regret it and break off your family relationship, but your family still loves you in their hearts, cares about you, and waits for you to admit your mistakes and turn back. This is family affection, which never needs to be reciprocated.

Love must be two people who care for each other, friendship, I have also met some bad people, making them friends is definitely not good, you must be able to talk to you, there are good things to share with you, when you are in trouble, he will also help you, such friends are real.

Family affection, it depends on whether you understand it well or not, whether your family takes care of you or hates iron and steel, this is true, if it is not so, then it is not true

Family affection is the truest, after all, blood is thicker than water

But they are often deceived and used

Friendship is not very real, often fake, as long as you are not too committed, love depends on your faith

It all depends on who you meet in your life

Every kind of love must be true and false!

Everything is dripping with each other! What others do to you, you do to him!

Whether it is family affection, friendship, or love, these things are inherently fragile and need to be cared for, and if they are forced, these things do not exist at all, and they cannot mention anything at all. In general, if a society is unrealistic, then people will not grow, after all, people always have to grow up.

The money in the pocket and the money in the bank, as well as the house and the car are real.

Be sincere, first of all, do not get involved in the relationship of interests.

Then two people get along well, have the same hobbies, and can get along considerately.

Whether it's love, family affection, or friendship, they all have the same place.

I think family affection is the truest emotion in the world.

They have the same blood as you.

Love and friendship depend on how you run it.

I put family affection first, friendship second, and finally love.

Family affection can never be parted, friendship will face betrayal, and love will become family affection in the end.

Feel every bit of affection with your heart. I believe you will definitely find true love, friendship, family ......

This situation everyone has, a very common phenomenon, they feel attentive, with feelings, and the payment in the relationship, etc., will feel that they have paid a lot, an idiom says that the heart is compared to the heart, after their own pay, they will measure the friendship of the other party with the equivalent or even the self will exceed their own pay mentality, this is normal, but it is still said that the heart is compared to the heart, the other party may not necessarily take their own good, such as they feel that they have done good things The other party does not necessarily think that they have done good things for themselves, In the same situation, I measure the other party by the mentality of exceedance, and the other party is judged by the mentality of reduction, so a large part of the relationship between myself and the other party is actually a bubble, which is to see how much affection there is when something happens.

Hello dear.

Whether it's friendship or love, it's built on trust, and without trust, there's nothing.

Life is fair, and if you give, you will gain. It may not be what we envisioned, or it may not be what we hoped for, but there will be a harvest. We sweat and get paid; Give time, get knowledge; Give sincerity and get love; Pay the price, get the experience; Pay hard and grow.

Life is not an equivalent exchange, don't worry about everything.

There is some truth to this, and it mainly depends on the person you are committed to love and friendship. Most people must pay more in love, because many times, love will blind your eyes, only his existence in your world, his sweet words, his thoughtfulness to you, let you pay 100%, especially he may be the person you will hold hands for a lifetime in this life, so your contribution to love will be far greater than friendship, but friendship, is like a cup of tea, you taste slowly, you will find that the longer the time, his influence on you will be greater and greater, and your relationship will become closer and closer, He is the person you usually talk to, and there are some things that you can't say to your other half, you can discuss and study them with him.

But these are prerequisites, you must make a friend and love partner who is worthy of your deep friendship, if you make an unworthy love partner, but you are too focused on love, resulting in ignoring the existence of friendship, which will inevitably lead to the inverse proportion of love to give and get. But if your friend is also a person who is not worthy of deep friendship, even if you pay a lot, you will get more harm than good.

In fact, you should relax, instead of thinking about how much you can get, if you are thinking about these things from the beginning, then your own purpose is not pure, and what you get will be discounted. So you have to not only look at people with your eyes open, but also look at them with a heart that doesn't care about what you get.