What should I do if my child is resistant to studying, it s only the first grade

Start with the games that the child likes, such as the child likes puzzles, drawing or playing with plasticine, and the parents accompany him to play, "appreciating his drawing very well" and "pinching it very similarly", so that the child feels that he is very capable. Then study with him, and praise the merits when you find them. It's called "Appreciation Education."

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Make a small game with your child, it's called "Correct a Question a Day". Parents do the questions, and the children correct the homework. Changed to the right and appreciated:

Our children will be able to become teachers in the future! The child gets pleasure from the sense of achievement. Then the parents quietly check the child's homework, pick out the wrong questions, let the child correct, and tell the child if the correction is correct:

In fact, if you are careful and check your homework yourself, you will avoid many mistakes, and this question is what you did

After a period of training, your child will be able to check his homework on his own.

First of all, you need to get your child interested in books.

First, it cannot be forced.

Second, we should create an atmosphere of reading.

Third, use the right approach.

Starting from your child's interests, as you said, he is going to go out to play, and if you can find time to play with him and integrate reading into play, it won't be long before he will fall in love with reading. Also, when choosing books, choose some books that he is interested in, for example, now that children like to play Sail, you can buy some for him to read. Tell me about my approach:

I often play games with my child, first find some games he likes, such as, yo-yo games, wrestling, etc., the winner first breaks through the level and then **, the content of the pass is to read, and then find some of his toys to award him. He's always happy to do it, so you can try it.

1. Cultivate an atmosphere suitable for reading. It is very important for children to have a reading atmosphere, if they cannot read in a good reading atmosphere, it will be difficult for children to concentrate on reading. Therefore, it is recommended that you pay more attention to the atmosphere of children's reading in life, so that children can read in a quiet atmosphere.

2. Cultivate a strong interest in reading. When children are reading, it is very important to have a strong reading atmosphere, as the saying goes, "interest is the best teacher". Only interest can make children have a desire for reading, and then help children have a better reading atmosphere.

Therefore, it is recommended that you pay attention to your child's personal emotions in life, and let your child read in a field that interests him when he reads well, so as to help his child read better.

3. Accompany reading. Reading alone is lonely, so at this time, parents should accompany their children well, so that children feel that they also have companions when reading, so that children can have more desires when reading.

1. When the child does not like to read and learn, parents should remember not to reprimand the child, force the child to sit down and read, and let the child calmly talk about the reasons why he does not like to read, so that the parent can use this to eliminate his chaotic psychology and change his negative attitude towards reading.

2. Use TV and computer to stimulate children's interest in learning. If used correctly, televisions and computers can also be a great way to stimulate interest in learning. In particular, it is extremely important to stimulate children's interest in reading and cultivate reading ability.

3. Reminisce about the day's learning life with the child, and praise it clearly when the child understands the more difficult problems. If there is a problem that the child has not yet understood, help the child to think together. This will help to improve the child's desire to learn, improve his enthusiasm for learning, and enhance his confidence in learning.

4. Infer the child's interests according to his own choices, so as to take advantage of the situation and transfer his interests to the learning content. This active engagement often has unexpected effects.

1. Help children make study plans. Children will get carried away when they play, so the binding force is not enough, make a good study plan, and don't be too demanding of the child at the beginning. It can be done in one step.

As long as the child. There is an acceptance process for doing a part of your homework first, watching TV or playing, and then gradually increasing the requirements.

2. Communicate well with children and know the importance of learning. Parents need some methods and communication skills. We can't immediately criticize and blame our children when they see them lazy, so that they realize that their behavior is shameful, but there is no way to solve it.

3. Parents should have a correct attitude towards education. Educating children is not easy. Parents must not be in a hurry, as the saying goes, ten years of trees, a hundred years of people.

Mood doesn't solve the problem. Parents must be patient, punishment cannot bring the child's love for learning, but can only increase the child's rebellious and negative psychology.

There are many parents who want their children to receive cultural influence from an early age, although school teaching can allow children to learn a lot of cultural content, but if you want to expand your children's knowledge, you need to let your children read more. But some children don't like to read, so if parents force first-graders who don't like to read to read, will it be effective? What is the specific reason?

Primary school students are very fond of playing, they like to go out with children, and they also like to do what they like to do alone, if parents force them to do things they don't like, they will be more repulsed, but after the child goes to school, learning is his main task, even if they don't like to learn, parents will try their best to force them to learn, if the first grade primary school students don't like to read, they are forced to read by their parents, they think it is useful, because primary school students do not require them to be able to understand, just want to increase their reading, so when parents force their children to read, they do read it, even if they don't understand the meaning, but after reading it, they can also leave an impression in his mind. Then this way of forcing children to read is also useful.

It is not realistic for first-grade children to let them learn some knowledge from books, after all, they are still young, and they may only know that they will read these books, even if they are finished, they will not think too much about the truth contained in the book, after all, some adults may not know what the book is talking about when they are reading, so parents let their children read when they are young, not to let them learn the content of the book, but to let them develop a habit of reading. There are many children who are reluctant to study when they are young, but under the pressure of their parents, they also have to go to school to receive education, and they also know that it is their task to go to school to study for a long time, just like parents forcing them to study.

Useless. First of all, first-grade primary school students are not able to learn well on their own, and it is normal for them not to like reading, and parents and teachers should develop their interests, and forcing them to read will only make children more and more disgusted.

For what the child doesn't like, it is difficult for us to force it to work, because the child is very lively and scattered, and it is difficult to keep it in the mind if he is not interested.

It is useless to force children to read, because then children will not learn knowledge at all, and will have a rebellious mentality, and will hate reading even more.

1. Empathy: Because Bai can't read the question, it may cause unnecessary loss of points, which will be a pity.

2. Specific DAO: Can you give an example of the specific performance of the child's inability to read the question? Is it careless reading the wrong question? Still can't understand the requirements of the question correctly?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

Solution: Carry out corresponding concentration training, such as Schulte** games, visual tracking exercises, meditation connection, etc., to gradually cultivate children's ability to concentrate and read questions carefully. And keep encouraging your child by giving positive cues such as "You're getting serious!"

Your ability to observe is nuanced! Instead of blindly criticizing and labeling children as "careless and not serious".

b Child's limited language comprehension ability: Could it be that the child has not developed the interest and habit of reading books, and has limited ability to judge and express language and language? As a result, you will often understand the requirements of the wrong questions.

Solution: Improve your child's language comprehension. Cultivate children's interest in reading and language learning, and develop the habit of reading more and loving books. You can encourage your child to read more books that he likes to read, and gradually improve his reading and comprehension skills.

To tell the truth, children do not like to read, are willing to play and watch cartoons, etc., parents should pay attention to guide their children to read, supervise them to study so that they can watch cartoons after completing their homework, in addition, parents supervise their children when they study can not watch TV and play mobile phones to watch them complete their homework, at the beginning is like this, develop a habit and do not need to watch.

It depends on how parents persuade their children, to coax, today's children are more willful, and try to make him interested.

Adults take some time to read and write with him, and it will get better slowly; Don't scold or intimidate! Children from kindergarten to primary school are also a bumpy child, there is an adaptation process, just be patient

I think he should be asked to read more books such as villain books, small picture albums, etc., and he can also tell stories to gradually cultivate his interest in reading. Of course, we should also pay attention to the cultivation of interest.

Then develop his other skills, such as musical instruments or calligraphy and ......

1.This needs to be encouraged when there is progress in ordinary times.

2.Some learning activities can be done without being at the desk, and can be done in the time of other activities (e.g., teaching the words you see when you go out, doing oral arithmetic, practical problems, etc.) when you play.

3.Don't say things you can't do (material rewards, promises, warnings of punishment, etc.).

4.Don't compare your grades with other students, slowly study for a long time, this is just the beginning. But make sure you make progress every day.

5.Parents should be calm.