I m not handsome, how can I pursue a girl in college? 15

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Compared with boys, pay attention to external requirements such as beautiful ** for girls; Girls are more inclined to boys' inner connotations such as humor, talent, and self-confidence; Come on, there is nothing wrong with love, a man is not a woman, self-confidence is the most handsome thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be polite. Girls will have a good impression of boys who are polite and upright.

    It would be nice if I could be more gentle with girls.

    You have to mingle with the boys in your class, and you have to look like a man when it's critical.

    These are all things that attract girls.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Handsome can't be eaten. As long as you are kind, considerate, and full of sunshine, you can also make a beautiful girlfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Appearance is not important, the important thing is to have connotation and cultivation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be enthusiastic, let yourself be known by the public first, and someone will naturally take a fancy to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As long as you are sincere, she is not a fool and will not be unable to see it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at fate, if a girl has feelings for you, everything you do is right, if you don't feel it, do too much wrong, don't cast a wide net, fancy one, do what she likes, girls are easy to be moved.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To find the desired goal, work hard, and be good to her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you go to that school for two weeks and you can't catch up with someone, then give up, if no one comes to you for a month. Then you are not saved!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Be nice to the girls and have fun with the girls.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go with the flow, why do you have to ask people to pay attention to you?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why haven't I seen a guy who doesn't chase a girl? That's a very real reason.

    First: the economic situation is not good, the reason why the college students who stay in the dormitory are the most "money-saving" are reluctant to fall in love is mainly because they are too "poor", the living expenses of college students are only a few thousand yuan, and the pocket money of most students is only one or two thousand yuan, but whether it is a man or a woman, this money is not enough. Boys live in the dormitory, the cheapest is to play games and study, and if you go out with your girlfriend, even if it is AA system, it will cost two or three hundred yuan, which is equivalent to the living expenses of a college student.

    Reason 2: Girls in reality will shatter men's dreams, in their childhood, everyone will have a good impression of their idols and girls, and in their imagination, girls are so cute and gentle, but in reality, she will make everyone's dreams shattered. Especially recently, many boys like to make friends online, and there are beautiful and handsome guys on the Internet, but in the real world, they will be scared away by these "netizens", so most boys will go to see those beautiful women's **.

    Third: academic tension, no time to fall in love, today's college life is getting busier and busier, especially college students, their academic pressure is not greater than in high school, so many college students don't even have time to fall in love.

    Answer. There is actually a very simple way for college students to continuously improve their abilities. If you want to become an excellent scholar, the first thing to do is to go through your own efforts and practice, such as joining the party, such as getting various certificates, but for a student, the first thing to do is to learn your professional knowledge well, and it is best to get some scholarships.

    In addition, reading more books can also broaden their horizons, whether it is history, history, science, psychology, it is very valuable, so if you want to find a book you like, cultivate your own good habits.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men love women, it's a matter of course, how can you stop boys from not chasing girls.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Handsome guy, if I were a woman, I wouldn't choose you.

    First, you may be really handsome, but handsome is not the only criterion for choosing a partner;

    Second, it depends on you writing this text, either you are not very serious and meticulous in doing things, or your level is limited, and there are many errors and omissions;

    Third, from your description, it can be judged that you are relatively unskilled in pursuing girls;

    Fourth, you should be psychologically immature and have a low AQ.

    1. Adjust your mentality, which is the most crucial. In the world, it can basically be said that the earth will still turn without anyone, you used to feel that she was more important to you, but now it has been diluted, but you can't let go of the past failures, and it is even more to expand the negative influence, which is completely unnecessary. The so-called turnip greens have their own love, everything is fate.

    As a man, he can't even bear this little setback, and it's not worth a woman's life.

    2. Learn more knowledge, improve yourself, and don't waste your energy on unnecessary places. Make more friends and enrich your life so that you don't think about it all day. Appearance, temperament, talent, morality, character, psychological endurance, adaptability, wealth, etc. are all one of the criteria for women to choose men.

    3, that time is not necessarily the age of procrastination, it is not strange that girls have their own choices, everyone will have countless choices in their lives, there are right and wrong, basically the people of the earth have tried to be rejected, don't think that you are special.

    4. Feelings are very strange, there is no so-called best, only suitable or not. And everyone's experience is different, the stage they belong to is different, and their choices may be different. If someone already has a place in their hearts, or for other reasons, or even if your behavior makes the other person feel that you are immature and unsuitable, it is normal not to choose you.

    If there is one, it will be changed, and if there is none, it will be encouraged! If you were real gold, it would be her regret not to choose you. (She's not sorry for your current performance.)

    5. If you are really good, you can wait for the next time that belongs to you and the real fate. Good luck!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be so confident in your looks, girls don't value looks, you have to dress up for an hour a day? I guess any girl will refuse, if you use this hour to do something meaningful and improve your talent, I don't think this result will be achieved. Don't just focus on whether you are handsome or not, whether the other party is beautiful or not, it's too empty, you have to use your sincerity...

    If you use that hour to play basketball and improve your physical fitness, it is also more attractive to girls) (Also,Girls shouldn't like cool guys who dress up very much.,Instead, I love the handsomeness that I don't have any embellishment.,At least that's what I think.。。。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you enter the university, everyone admits that there will be more aspects of the object to consider, and you can't eat if you are handsome, right? I'm similar to you, and I've had this kind of confusion. In the end, I found out that love is not only about appearance, especially in today's real society.

    So you should take a closer look, apart from appearance, are there other hardware and software that can give her happiness and joy?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe it's not the type she likes, or maybe she already has a place in mind. Don't worry too much about this kind of thing, of course it's good to be handsome, but if you're not handsome, you won't be rejected. I think it's normal to dress up properly to go out.

    You don't have to be so entangled in this matter.,Just because you're good doesn't mean that girls will like you-=.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now is the time to work hard, strive to change and improve yourself, pursue being able to work with people at the top of society, achieve financial freedom as soon as possible, and realize your dreams...

    As for women, you see fate this way, you have met one now, but she may delay the rest of your life, if you don't meet now, then when you become a figure in the upper echelons of society in the future, most of the women you meet are excellent characters, and you are also more capable and attractive to pursue your favorite woman...

    A man does not live for just one woman ...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    is handsome and can't be eaten, handsome guys have no sense of security, this may be the girl's thoughts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Feelings don't just depend on how handsome you are, it depends on fate! It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen! Confess boldly, and the result is left to fate!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Brothers! Listen to me, I used to be unrequited like you, but in the end it was myself who was hurt, and we can only rely on time to slowly forget! Feelings can't be forced! Think for yourself! There's still a long way to go!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You feel good about yourself, and you know that you are not highly cultivated by reading the paragraph you wrote. Be confident but don't be narcissistic, remember.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because you look like Kudo, which means you look like a Japanese, and the chicks at your school are patriotic, and that's it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's possible that you didn't bother to chase it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Narcissism! Can handsome be used as a card swipe? If only you weren't narcissistic!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Junior brother, look at your thoughts, which is a common problem for children who have never been in love. Men usually pay attention to appearance, but women are looking for objects in fact not particularly important to appearance, the age when you want to attract girls through appearance has passed, junior high school or high school girls are still in the nymphomaniac stage when they do value appearance, but when they mature in college, girls will pursue a sense of security and stability, and at the same time, they will be more realistic, which is why most beauties are matched with beasts, from this point of view, your family is not rich is a hard injury. Secondly, when she is empty and lonely, she asks you to play with her, but you miss the opportunity, I think most people should know that this kind of time is the easiest time to start.

    Thirdly, you must show self-confidence no matter what, and you must not have a fear of girls, if you do this, your future relationship will be extremely bumpy. Finally, I hope you will participate in more activities, expand your circle of friends, and contact more girls, and when you meet a more suitable girl, you will look back and find that she is a fart if you say something ugly.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Who doesn't love a handsome guy among girls? However, especially after the sophomore year, or after falling in love, more attention is paid to the quality of boys.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It can only be said that everyone's favorite style is different. Maybe she's seen a lot of handsome, so she doesn't like you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Does the child know the age of Shenma? Do you still want to chase girls with handsome? Childish, right? It's more important than anything else to show sincerity, how handsome are you? Got an Audi A6 and a Land Rover handsome?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I recommend you to study "Love Behavior" because you don't understand what sexual attraction is!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dude, what age, the handsome guy used to deceive the ignorant little girl, and now the children are precocious, the post-00s know that they have to have a house to find a boyfriend in the future, what's the use of being handsome, people go back to the dormitory and other boyfriends buy this and that, they don't have anything, and some are boyfriends with a face. For example, can you afford to spend money on other people's games, the times are different

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You haven't chased it much Come on Show your courage Even if a girl falls in love with you, she won't say it directly I need you to find out slowly Don't give up In addition, don't waste your studies Come on.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Brother, chasing a girl just with a good face is not omnipotent, there are multiple factors, maybe the girl you like doesn't pay attention to appearance, besides, learning to be excellent and playing basketball has nothing to do with chasing girls, you have watched too many TV series, isn't it that girls who are excellent in learning and can play basketball like you, do you understand humor? I want the girl to like you, your inner sense of humor makes the girl feel relaxed and free with you all the time, and secondly, you must know how to chat, you can't speak, no matter how good the girl is, you won't catch up, and more importantly, you have to be cheeky, not thick-skinned, how can you do it when you see her always inferior and shy, you can't forget her for the time being, you will suffer for a few days and get used to it!!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't have money, don't worry about it, maybe he's lying under the crotch of a rich and handsome man now, you can't fight the rich second generation. As the saying goes, a rich man hides a hundred rubs.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Ya, it means that you are not handsome enough to captivate the country and the city!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Pay more attention to her study, life, chat more and talk more about inspirational topics.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Sincerity is good, appearance is external, you must be kind inside.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    1.Everyone's preferences are different, some people like sunshine, some people like maturity, some people like temperament, and some people like non-mainstream.

    2.Although there is only one word for handsome, there are many types of handsome.

    3.Handsome is not the criterion for girls to choose a mate, but appearance is the only way to enter a person's heart. If a person fully appreciates your appearance and thinks that you have a good character, this is in line with being a girlfriend.

    4.For most girls, the inside of the boy is more important, is he kind? Does he care? What is his worldview? That's what a serious girl thinks about (after all, appearances are going to grow old one day).

    This girl said it's not your appearance, it's too arrogant, do you think this girl is smart? How can you say that, just say that it's not the type she likes, and it's OK if it's not suitable. Directly hurts people's self-esteem, do you think she is beautiful inside? I guess she's black-hearted, right? I don't think she's worthy of you from the bottom of her heart.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everyone's aesthetic is different, green vegetables and radishes have their own loves, isn't it, she may not like people like you.

    What's more, there are many kinds of good appearances.

    Some of them are love at first sight, but the more you look at them, the more unbearable they become.

    Some are durable.

    Maybe you're not the one she likes.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    She should think you're narcissistic, don't like it, and want to hit you.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Brother, most women are duplicitous, saying that they don't like it, deliberately making you angry, in fact, it's just because there are many girls who care about you and she's unhappy The reason for doing this is just to want you to pay more attention to her and care about her Since you like her, don't be ambiguous with other girls Make a decisive move I wish you success.

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