I don t want to study, I want to work, and I feel annoyed when I stay at home!

The mind is at peace.

Be clear.

1. Whether you have serious consideration for the postgraduate entrance examination?

Now that I'm going to graduate school, I'm not too young. I have been able to make decisions on my own. Take more time to think about why you are going to graduate school, if you just follow your parents' ideas, it will not mean much to you if you are admitted.

2. I want to go out to work. Have you ever thought and planned carefully and systematically? What to do, what kind of goal to achieve. If the idea is mature enough, going out to work will help you to grasp your future.

3. In your twenties, you should learn to make yourself less emotional.

4. I am a female graduate student in the Department of Civil Engineering, and I just worked this year. For graduate school, these people who have worked and come back to graduate school receive the most. They know what they are lacking and where they should work their efforts.

Relatively speaking, those who go directly to graduate school will receive relatively little during their graduate studies. Most of them just got their academic qualifications.

Summary. Even if you go out to work, you won't find a good job. What's more, she is still a minor, and no one dares to use her.

If it doesn't make sense, you can find more people close to her to convince her. It feels like she is young and doesn't know the importance of reading, and her parents should teach her well. After all, if you don't read when you are studying, it's a pity to have a romantic time, and many children still want to read but don't have that condition, but they have been persevering.

Even if you go out to work, you won't find a good job. What's more, she is still a minor, and no one dares to use her. If it doesn't make sense, you can find more people close to her to convince her to show her fingers.

I feel that You Jianhe is young and doesn't know the importance of reading, and her parents should teach her well. After all, if you don't read when you are studying, it's a pity to have a romantic time, and many children still want to read but don't have that condition, but they have been insisting.

These courses learned in school are only means and ways, and the ultimate goal is to improve your cognitive level and cultivate your personal comprehensive ability. Since you can't learn these cultural courses, after work, it is okay to learn and progress slowly in social practice. After all, no matter how many books you read, you must also participate in social practice, apply your knowledge in social practice, and give full play to your abilities.

Second, no matter which road you take, if you want to survive in society for a long time, you must have a serious and careful work attitude and a hard-working spirit. Being able to learn skills without counting the luck is not necessarily related to how many books you have read, how much you have gone to school, and what you have done specifically, but only with whether you have done something seriously. In today's society, all walks of life, as long as you are willing to endure hardships, can persevere, reflect more, and take it seriously, although you cannot guarantee that you will be rich and expensive, you can ensure that you can live a worry-free life.

Study hard, dear, reading is the only way out.

Everyone who is about to face a job has this idea that they don't want to work and want to continue studying. Because once you choose to work, you will:

1) Facing from society, work, and even urging marriage.

2) I don't know much about society, I have no contact with it, I am instinctively afraid and resistant, and I want to maintain the status quo.

3) The competition in society is fierce and cruel, especially in the first few years of society. The following picture is more vivid.

But we all have to enter the society in the end, and we have to live on our own, if you want to make achievements in academics or you have a good opportunity for development, and you have the ability, and your family also has the financial ability, then you can also continue to study.

If you are trying to escape the pressure of employment and your family's economic conditions are not very good, you should choose employment.

It doesn't matter if you don't want to work now and just want to study, it's good to learn more knowledge while you're still young, and use the knowledge you have learned in your future work, and make more contributions to yourself and society.

Hello. It's good to want to study, but when you reach a certain age, you will definitely have to look for a job after graduation. If you want to study very much, you can strive for the postgraduate entrance examination, during which you will take the certificate, and there are also subsidized scholarships for graduate and doctoral students.

But after graduation, you must join the work, just for yourself.

If you want to find a good, lucrative job, you need to have a good diploma! It's not easy for our parents to feed us! Parents want us to be literate! We should study hard! Get a good job in the future! Earn money well and repay the kindness of your parents!

Evading responsibility, it turned out that I didn't dare to go to work, and I also wanted to go to graduate school, and my mother kicked me out of my home to work.

Be ambitious! Calm and patient! It's not easy! Enough for the head! Have ideas and opinions! It will be a great thing!

The work is self-fed, and only the living can read and write, or not. Nothing.

If you don't want to study, you can learn a technology, and it will be much better to be employed in the future.

Congratulations on having a well-off family and not having to support yourself.

Then read it all the way to the postdoc.

Do your own business.

Start small!

Why don't you learn something you've always liked but haven't learned!

Learning to repair the computer is convenient and really pays the whole money without learning to make software in February.

It may be that the pace of study, work or life is constantly accelerating, which brings you great mental pressure, and you feel that you can't keep up your spirits all the time, and you need to adjust your mentality to make yourself physically and mentally healthy.

Adjust the time for study, work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, often relax your mind, and relax your tense nerves.

How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

2 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

15 minutes, and after that, you'll feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.

You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

I believe that I will be able to reduce stress, cheer up, feel comfortable, and be healthy, so that I can enhance friendship, learn and progress, work smoothly and live happily with a good attitude!

Have parents ever thought about or encountered what to do if their children don't want to study? How should parents deal with this question when their children ask it?

I remember that I didn't like studying very much, but one time I studied hard and suddenly got into the top 10 of my class, and I have been very interested in learning ever since. You may feel that you don't understand something, your grades have declined, and you are afraid that others will say that you are so diligent and that you are not good at the exam, and people will say that you are stupid, so you have no motivation to study.

First of all, you have to have a good attitude and don't use avoidance to face problems, because even if you can't escape for a while, avoiding will only make things worse in the end. The best way to face the problem is to solve the problem that is stressing you. Maybe the process of facing the problem of not being able to do it will make you very scared and afraid, but only by completely exposing the wound can we find a way to ** them, and when we have conquered them and they reappear, we will not be afraid.

Or even rejoice in their appearance.

With the mentality right, the next question is the method.

In fact, it is necessary to listen well in class. Are you getting a little distracted in class? I used to do this a lot, thinking that I should listen carefully, but I didn't listen carefully when he talked about what I would, and when he talked about what I would, I missed it again.

Depressed... But then I reflected on it, as long as I follow the teacher throughout the process, I will deepen my impression, I will not listen carefully, follow the teacher's questions step by step, and think about what the teacher will do next, and if the teacher does not do that, you will be vigilant.

Be sure to listen carefully, and don't expect to make your own reference books after class, because you are likely to find the key point when you read the book by yourself, and it is better to save time by learning it in class. (I'm a lesson from the past).

When solving the problem, you must grasp the joint point of the problem, do you often do a lot of reference books, but the grades are still not high. The problem is that you may only do the questions you will do, and not have a good grasp of the ones that you will not do.

I used to have a classmate who had good grades, but her family conditions were not very good, and she never made any reference materials after class. But she often did very well in math. She said that she just listened to the lectures in class and understood all the homework assigned by the teacher.

For example, in this unit, there are 30 types of math questions, maybe you will do 20 of them, but there are 10 kinds that you will not do, what you need to do now is not to keep practicing the 20 kinds of repeatedly, but to find out the 10 kinds of question types that you don't know, and then master these 10 types of questions one by one, which is efficient and time-saving, and you will also find that learning gradually has a clue, and the wrong question books prepared by those students with good grades are actually what it means. Come on listen well in class, you can also find information on the Internet, almost all questions on the Internet have to be answered, much luckier than I was at that time, don't wait for others to tell you, but take the initiative to find it yourself I wish you progress in your studies Come on

Just stay at home, enough to go.

Compared with other activities (such as games, TV, play, etc.), learning is inherently boring and boring, and it is easy for people to lose motivation to learn. So, what do you do when you don't want to learn?

1. Recognize the importance of learning, list the benefits that learning may bring to you, and what are the harms of not learning. Then set yourself a suitable goal, and constantly adjust and improve. Use various methods such as incentives and rewards to implement and complete plans and develop study habits.

2. Master efficient learning methods, and obtain achievement and satisfaction in learning. In the process of learning, if the method is not appropriate and the learning is seriously frustrated, you will become less and less interested, and even have a nasty mood. Learn to master the ability of speed reading memory, and through training, realize the improvement of reading speed, overall perception, comprehension and memory, and concentration.

At the same time, the learning time has been greatly shortened, and the learning tasks that usually take a few hours to complete can now be completed in dozens or even ten minutes, the efficiency has been improved many times, the sense of achievement and pride arises spontaneously, and the interest in learning will naturally improve a lot. For specific exercises, see "Elite Special Whole Brain Speed Reading Memory Training", with software practice, more than an hour a day, a month's time, you can double your reading speed, attention, memory, comprehension, etc. will also be improved accordingly, and finally improve reading, learning efficiency and interest.

3. Be the master of learning and experience the joy of learning. In the process of learning, you should communicate and discuss with teachers and classmates to cultivate your interest in self-learning. Knowledge should complement each other, ideas should resonate, and learning and discussion are also very important, which can not only enliven the learning atmosphere and concentrate attention, but also enable students to exchange information and adjust their thinking.

If you don't want to go to school, you can come out to learn a technology, and now it is easy to find a job with technology, and the salary is also high, but you must find a popular industry to learn technology, such as pastry, coffee, and bartending.

Learn a skill, have a skill, and you won't have to worry about employment in the future. Now the development of the auto repair industry is very good, the salary is also very good, and the development of auto repair has a good future.

Watching TV and playing games Does home let you read?

You don't want to study, and no one is stopping you.

Solution: Listen to ** and relax your mind; Take a nap and give yourself some space; Take a walk along the riverbank and let off steam; Play ball and release your irritability. Do some things that can accumulate mind, such as chess, yoga, handicrafts, etc., as well as more physical activities, if you are really irritable, it is recommended to travel, change your mood and place, and meet different people and things at different times and places will make you have an experience of life.

Finally, you can find a book that you have wanted to read for a long time, and it is recommended that you learn to read a little prose, poetry and other articles.