I hate being alone I ve put up with it for a long time, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Try to do a good job and improve your ability Even if you can't be promoted, but at least let everyone see it and let him see that his subordinates are not worse than his boss Just lack of opportunities Of course, if you really can't get used to it, find out his mistakes on the premise of doing a good job and point out his mistakes He himself feels ashamed and won't be so arrogant In fact, there will inevitably be unpleasantness in the process of getting along with colleagues, but don't forget that the purpose of your going there is to work Unnecessary friction is better to avoid as much as possible Work hard and ignore him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There are many such people! Otherwise, there will be no right to distinguish between her, no matter how much she looks at no one! No matter how arrogant she is, as long as she doesn't make a mistake in her work, whatever she wants, on the contrary, she affects her work because of it!

    Naturally, someone will deal with her, and under normal circumstances, she still has her value in business

    You should put your mindset right! Don't let her actions affect your work! You have to try to do well, too! Or just get promoted to her head!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't pay attention to him, don't be like him, let him lose face when you let other colleagues surround you, he will definitely collapse!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should treat this matter with a peaceful mind, if you are promoted, I think you will become similar to him, doesn't the size of the official position represent responsibility? His rulers are greater than yours, and his responsibilities are greater than yours. So you should forgive her instead of complaining, everyone has times when they want to be impressive, maybe she wants to be like this, in fact, it's good to have survived this time.

    In fact, another way is to quit the job you are doing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Jealous? If you feel that you are not convinced, surpass her. When the time comes, you can do whatever you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are like this, and their temperament changes with their status.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Flatten him, don't be too heavy, don't call the police

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Stabilize it first, it's hard to protect yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Calm. Sweep the snow in front of your door?

    If you don't have anything to do with it, don't worry about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

    Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your beautiful memories in the heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but Qi Rensui don't let himself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as he thinks he is happy, he will always be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love. This thing.

    Not really. You want to do it.

    You can't do it. Not really.

    You did. He or she can understand.

    Or gladly accepted.

    Like what. Morning, noon and evening, each pose a **.

    Maybe. You'll find it annoying.

    Right. Old man.

    Let me tell you about my experience.

    When I was in college.

    I was in my classmate's dormitory.

    Accidentally fell asleep.

    Suddenly felt. Something pressed on his body.

    Confused, I opened my eyes and looked.

    It's a classmate.

    Covered me with clothes.

    That's it.

    Then we became good friends.

    Though. The relationship was also relatively good before.

    They all attach great importance to each other.

    So. Care about this thing.

    It's best to have no regrets.

    Silently giving.

    Things don't have to be.

    How great. Just cover a garment.

    Maybe. Someday.

    The other party felt it.

    You care about him.

    It is impossible to find a fan stove.

    You can't deliberately hide it.

    Or acting. Remember.

    Don't be deliberate. That's it.

    You yourself will be tired.

    Maybe the other party will also find it annoying.

    Just do it. Shh

    It's okay to Sui Zen.

    Got it?? Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Accept the facts. The person you don't like isn't inherently bad. The reason why you can't get along is because you have different values and different standards of judgment.

    Once you accept the fact that you won't like everyone and everyone won't like you because of differences in values, your emotions will become extraordinarily calm. Even, you can get along better with people you don't like by accepting differences.

    Do not ignore, do not abandon, tolerate.

    Of course, you may be afraid of someone's constant criticism and disgusted with their bad jokes to the point of gnashing your teeth, but disliking people is not the worst thing. Robert Sutton, a professor of management at Stanford University, said, "From a performance standpoint, the people you like require more effort and are more difficult to deal with than the people you hate."

    Be polite. No matter how you feel about someone, they will be highly consistent with your attitude, behavior, and feedback to you as it is. If you are not inferior to them, they will surely repay you with rudeness.

    Therefore, the responsibility is on you. Always be fair and calm!

    Check expectations. It's not uncommon for people to have unrealistic expectations of others. We may expect others to behave and behave like us, or to say what we would say in a certain situation. But that's not realistic.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to suggest to yourself, to accept this person, to be tolerant enough to do it.

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