What should I do about emotional matters in the future?

I really sympathize with you brother when I see this.

Because it's really similar to your situation.

You've done enough with her, and she's indifferent and dead set on the other guys. She doesn't like you anymore.

You gave up, congratulations. You've made the right choice, congratulations, a good start is half the battle.

For four or five years, she's tired of you, realistic. These are all normal. Don't take it too seriously.

Of course, the relationship of four or five years is certainly not something that can be let go, but don't lose confidence because of this.

You've just graduated and you're still young. The business is just getting started. Now all you have to do is work hard and not be depressed.

Remember! Say to yourself "I worked hard, I have no regrets about this relationship, I don't want to be tied down anymore" and then full work, happy work, busyness and time to forget all sadness.

Now that we know the reality of society, as a member of society, we must first strive to improve our own value. Second, keep faith in your feelings.

It can be seen that you are a very emotional person, you care about your girlfriend very much, and you are also very responsible. These are far more than the value of owning a house and a carBelieve in yourself and keep improving yourself! Make yourself better! Face your feelings and face life with a positive attitude.

You will definitely meet someone who likes you and genuinely believes in yourself!

I really hope that you can get out of this haze as soon as possible and rebuild a new life! Good luck!

I've had a similar experience with you, but I'm not as clumsy as you, it's actually very simple, because I dare say that he didn't like you the moment he agreed to have a relationship with you, and over the years he learned what liking is. Also, you must have had a boring life in the past few years, and you must be a person who doesn't know how to create novelty and romance. Get used to finding someone who likes you

The pig said to the mother pig: Mom, I am out of love

Mother Pig said: Do you love her?

Piggy said: I love her very much

Mother Pig said: Then does she love Ling?

The little pig said, "She loves me."

Mother Pig said, "That is a happy thing, but she has lost someone who loves her, and she has lost someone who loves her deeply."

Think for yourself.

What do you love about him?

Loved her with great affection.

Still in love with her snobbery.

She's not stupid, you've been asking her out, and she must have known that you had to apologize to him.

It's just that she's determined to leave you.

Obviously, she found another one.

Think about it, and see what is more terrifying than that.

Career is everything.

One day you succeed and she'll give herself a slap in the face with such a snobbery.

Hehe, buddy, you've probably been ignoring a little bit so you can't think about it.

I ask you, what can you give your girlfriend? Love? Can love be eaten?

In fact, the woman has already told you the answer, quoting your original text (she asked me what I could give her, do I have a house and a car?). )

Yes, you can't give her something material, you can't satisfy her vanity.

So he dumped you.

Maybe, I mean, maybe, she likes you more, but she can't eat it. When her friends were driving cars with expensive cosmetics, she was still worried that she couldn't afford cosmetics. Can you blame her? (just for example, not really can't afford cosmetics) can only blame you for not having money.

You have to remember that reality is not wrong, what is wrong is that you don't remember reality! That's what this society is.

Now you don't have to redeem anything, because there is no need, even if it is redeemed, the woman will have a second time if she has the first time.

Hehe, although this is not authentic, but people who are not authentic can only mix in this society.

Her feelings for you have changed, and it is impossible for her to forget you for 5 years, and beat that man violently.

Then he said to her very handsomely, do you want to come back? The man wanted to be ruthless, but she refused to kick the man more hard before leaving

When you leave, it's not a sad look but an angry look, just grind her to death...

In fact, what she said was also right Why didn't you make it clear half a year ago What kind of anger did you get angry at that time I didn't explain the reason for my anger half a year later It makes anyone uncomfortable Now that people are looking for it again, you can relax your heart and work hard.

Your misfortune is not to lose love, but to lose yourself, the reality is so cruel, since you have lost your confidence, put it down, remember that you are a man.

Too much of this world is just emptiness, not love.

First of all, you should be aware that you are experiencing an emotional impulse, but this impulse may not be realistic because he has his own family and responsibilities. Therefore, you need to control your emotions to avoid unnecessary annoyance and awkward situations.

Here are some tips for controlling your emotions:

Keep your distance: Avoid excessive contact with him as much as possible and do not initiate visits to his office or communicate with him frequently. This can help you reduce your emotional dependence on him and reduce your emotional swings.

Divert your attention: Focus your attention on work and other hobbies, which will make your life more fulfilling and regretful, so that you can reduce dependence and emotional investment in him.

Seek support: Talk to someone you trust about your feelings and emotional impulses, they can help you get a more objective perspective and advice. If you feel a little emotionally distressed, you can also seek help from a professional psychologist.

Recognize the reality: Realize that he already has his own family and responsibilities, and your emotions may not be realistic, accept this fact and let go of the emotional obsession in your heart.

Most importantly, you need to be persistent and disciplined, control your emotions and behavior, and avoid causing unnecessary harm to yourself and others.