Do I want my boyfriend and I to go down and get married? I m going to be twenty six soon

It is better to demolish a temple than destroy a marriage, and the issues related to the happiness of your life still have to be considered by yourself, and you can also discuss it with your parents, after all, they are from the past and have rich experience, and they can also help you relieve the pressure in your heart! No house is very important, although it is said that love is supreme, but the practical problem should be taken into account, how to live happily without even a nest of your own? Sometimes happiness is built on money, even if you don't want a mansion, you have to live in a family of three!

If you get pregnant before marriage, maybe he really wants to marry you, but as a woman, you still have to get pregnant after marriage, and you are responsible for yourself and your children! Since you haven't broken up successfully for a year, and you love him so much, you can consider being together, but let's have a home first, otherwise there will be conflicts after marriage! It is still important to talk to your parents and listen to the opinions of the elderly!

I wish you happiness.

Divide it, he's not for you! He doesn't have any true love for you! A lifelong event, how can you take risks!

He doesn't treat you like he used to do now, and there is less contact, since you know why you insist on it, do you value feelings, and you can't let go of it after a long time. If he really loves you, he is willing to contact you, he will respect you, and will not alienate you because of this, it is not sex that has love. Marriage is a lifelong thing, think about it and then make a decision, you can talk to him well, let him say his dissatisfaction with you, your requirements for him, and now it is always good to solve the problem.

If you can't feel his sincerity, be decisive. If you still love each other, let's face the difficulties bravely and go on.

Think about it with your heart Whether he loves you or not We don't talk nonsense If you feel happy and it makes you feel down-to-earth, get married Feelings are to be carefully considered Don't miss out on giving yourself to a man who loves you all your life I wish you happiness.

Since he treats you badly, don't marry him, you should find someone who loves you.

Be serious! Find someone who truly loves you, and you will be happy for the rest of your life!

Do you love him? If you love him, marry him!

The key is to see if you love him and whether he loves you.

Hehe, it's better not that I don't know where you've got, so unreliable.

Communication .........Oh yes......Just ask mom and dad, they're very wise.

If there is a problem, you have to find a way to solve it, otherwise it will be more painful after marriage. It is recommended that the two of them talk calmly together, in order to be able to live together and stay together, you have to change the temper of this young lady, and he must also learn to be gentle and considerate.

It's been more than three years, always quarrelling, and you have problems.

Everyone's patience is limited, and after three years, after a long time of tolerance, he will not coax you like the first quarrel.

If you continue to quarrel aimlessly like this, and you ask him to coax you, then you will definitely not be able to get by.

After a long time, he will lose patience, men are also vulnerable and helpless at times, they need your comfort, you can't keep arguing, and then make him apologize, and be sensible yourself.

I hope you understand, let's talk to him.

Men should let women, and women should be more tolerant of their husbands.

After all, it's not just that whoever cares a little more, you have to tolerate and understand each other, that's it.

Otherwise, how can you live? Maybe it's not love at all.

In fact, you said so much that the key is one sentence, "The life of husband and wife is not harmonious". I think it's normal to be noisy and noisy in life, but this is something that no one can get over in the end, three years is not a short time, and it's a bit abnormal that you can't be happy. If you love each other very much, go check it out together, otherwise it's better to divide it, otherwise the next time it will be a second marriage.

You are not ready to live after marriage with him, it is recommended not to get married for the time being, otherwise it will be an unhappy marriage. Now you have to think about the happiness you want, can he give you it. He doesn't coax you when you're angry now, and then apologize when you're sulking enough, and when you get the certificate and you get angry again, he may not even bother to apologize for the last apology before.

You really have a lot of problems, you have to be careful. I bless you.

I think when you ask this question, it shows a point, at least it is not appropriate for you to get married now, because you can ask such a question, it means that you have doubts and uncertainties, if you are not very firm that you want to go with a person for a lifetime, then you should stop and think about what you really think in your heart, marriage is a lifelong event, don't do it in a daze.

If you can accept the rest of your life with him, you will get married.

If you want to be with him, don't be too picky, but you need to be tolerant and understanding with each other. Afraid of danger, I postponed the wedding for half a year. Consider carefully before making a decision.

It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, since you can't bear it, why divide it, don't think about it, be your bride happily, I wish you a happy marriage, hehe.

Can you imagine a happy life with him in the future, if not, don't get married, and getting married won't change the current situation.

This should be the Cold War period, it is a trough, there are always fluctuations in feelings, if he has a good character, you can get married.

If you're not sure about marrying him, you can postpone the wedding a bit later and make a decision.

Lack of affection, postpone the marriage period and exchange feelings more.

No, when it is broken, it is broken, your soul is rejecting him, saving you.

Marriage is not child's play, think clearly before getting married.

Now that they're all married, why haven't you thought about it before?

If it were me, I would break up decisively, two people together are not just feelings can live a lifetime. You are willing to live such a bumpy life for him, can't he do anything for you? Can you guarantee that your feelings for him will not be worn out by a boring and hard life.

What's more, if you have children in the future, you will definitely have to settle in a city, and he can't go home often, isn't it very hard for you to be alone, even if you have a family to take care of you, it will definitely be different from your husband's care. The child does not see his father several times a year, and it is not good for the child. Judging from the situation that your family disagrees with, if you can't get along with him in the future, who will you talk to?

Everyone else has advised you, and you finally chose this path. It's really not suitable, let it go. You're still young.

Life is realistic, and when you really marry him, he can't coax you for the rest of his life, and his feelings can't be eaten.

And you just graduated and tied yourself to death, have you seen how big the outside world is? How many men have you been through?

So what you call love now doesn't mean that it's necessarily the most suitable for you.

Instead, it's your family, who watch you grow up every day and know better than you what you need in life.

It's really troublesome to not have a fixed home, my classmates who used to do engineering are now gone, it's really uncomfortable to always float outside, are you really ready to live like that? It is recommended that you discuss it carefully and see if you can change jobs, if he really loves you, he will consider it, and if it stabilizes, everything will be solved.

First of all, I am also a civil engineering graduate, but I am not engaged in construction now, and I understand your situation very well.

If you love, love deeply. I don't care about the surroundings, I don't care about the gains and losses, just for love.

If you don't love it, please let it go, avoid wandering, be by your parents' side, find a good condition, and live a comfortable life. Besides, you're not out of school yet.

How deep is your love for him?

With your current situation, it's better to think about it before making a decision, it's really useless for others to talk more, only yourself.

Graduate and work hard! This society will make you understand a lot!

Although it is not right to lie to people, does love really have a lot to do with academic qualifications? College and high school, I really can't see anything when I come out. When you were in college, he was already exposed to society.

That is to say, you have been in college for 4 years, and he has been in society for 4 years. These four years are very important for a college student. It's just a short certificate, is it important?

As it turned out, the certificate was useless. Have a common language, have a good income, love you, care about you. You also feel good about him, and you feel that it is enough to entrust yourself to him.

The center of love is people, not education, not income. I wish you all to grow old together and give birth to a noble son early.

Everything else is secondary, but deception is unforgivable.

Whether you are happy or not is not determined by hard indicators such as academic qualifications and economic ability.

After two people really live together, you will find out that the real problem is in**.

First of all, there must be a sufficient economic base in order to facilitate the construction of the superstructure.

It's true that academic qualifications are not an issue, but it is important to have differences in interests due to academic qualifications.

I'm afraid of being relatively silent day after day, and there is no common topic at all.

When the time comes, it's too late to get back to anything, so let's start dreaming about the same bed.

This man lied to you at the beginning, and it cannot be ruled out that he was telling a white lie because he really loved you.

But whether lying is the norm for him, you know better than anyone else, we don't know.

Think about it for yourself, think about what you want, and it's easy to make a decision.

You are a person who cares more about form. He likes to look at the present and the future in terms of external and past things. So you often live in contradiction and insecurity.

I see your problem in your short text: you have a small heart and don't trust the other person very much, even though the other person is better than you are in your current life. And you prefer to think about the whole love with something that doesn't make sense at all, such as a diploma.

Advice: Change your mind, trust and be a tolerant person. So that you can be happy.

Otherwise: you'll be sad forever, and whether you break up or not, you'll find this reason that isn't a reason at all.

Therefore, if you don't face up to the reality and change your mentality, it's better to divide it, because people who think like you can't go too far in marriage in this society. Because you are very willful, you like to be on the shelf, and you like to generalize.

Of course, you can think that what I said is unreasonable, in short, I also hope that you can communicate well and be truly happy, even if he is not good, at least it is your treasure.

Since it is a potential stock, don't give up if you love it so much, it is easy to know that it is difficult to find yourself, for you it is easy to get a lover with an academic background, of course, it is not that you can't find a better one without him, but how long will it take to find it? Is there any such good? It's all unknown.

And what matters is whether you love him or not? Or do you want to compare it, you prefer academic qualifications.

I hope you still find someone who loves you more and wish you happiness.

There are many entrepreneurs who have not graduated from elementary school. Is a college degree really that important? I deceived you because I was afraid that you would reject him.

Ability is more important than academic qualifications. He doesn't have a college degree, and if he is doing well in his career now, it means that he is very capable, and he will be better in the future. As long as you don't have a barrier to communication.

You can also suggest that he use his spare time to get a bachelor's degree.

Love can change everything, the question is whether you love or not! The conditions can be changed through the joint efforts of two people, and there are many examples of starting a family from scratch, if everything is under control, as for the low education, at least he has graduated from high school, and if he works hard enough, he can continue his education on his own. Personally, I think as long as you love each other, there's nothing you can't do.

He loves you and can give you happiness, what is education. Some people go to college and come out of school and don't sell pork and sugar gourds. It seems hypocritical to talk about academic qualifications. I'm not saying that academic qualifications are bad, but you also have to look at ability. I wish you happiness.

Whether academic qualifications are a problem or not, the key lies in how you look at it, how well you get along, and whether the communication is smooth.

Some people, although not college students, have more social experience and are willing to learn, and the pace of progress is not necessarily slower than that of college students.

As for some people, their academic qualifications are indeed directly related to their own abilities. The education level is low, and the people are not motivated, so they are destined to be stagnant.

Your boyfriend has a good job, his income is okay, and he has visible ability. In addition to the academic qualifications, other aspects are definitely good.

If you are together, there is no problem in communication, and he is good to you, the diploma is really not that important.

Also, if he cheats on you only once, forgive him, unless he is a habitual liar.

Lying to you that you have a house, a car and money shows that he is vain, and it also shows that he is afraid that he is not worthy of you. A person from the countryside is always prone to have a little more inferiority complex than a person living in a big city, and inferiority sometimes needs to make others respect themselves and seek psychological balance by exaggerating the truth.

It is recommended that you know more about his life, family, and work, especially his family situation, in case you are deceived again.

Do you still need to ask strangers about whether you should get married? Isn't marriage something that two people can do if their relationship is so good?

Can a person who can lie be said to be responsible? How good can a person who can't look at such a trivial matter as academic qualifications be? This is enough to affect the rating of a person's character.

I don't know what your criteria are for choosing a man? I think that whether it is a man or a woman, the first consideration is character, physical and mental health, the ability to settle down in society (raising yourself to a level that you are satisfied with), and finally it is the question of whether it is good for you. Otherwise, his unquantifiable "goodness" to you will also be gone, because he is not satisfied with his life, ** has the confidence and mood to be good to you?

Therefore, women themselves have to rely on themselves, they have to look at men more, understand men, and only then can they distinguish men.